ok i sked her to marry me and i went to her family asked them twice to marry me and she loves me like hell , but when they refused she didnt stand and say i love him and i want him in any way , its been month and we didnt talk or see her , i miss her so much i cant forget her i cant sleep .... i called her many times to stay with her in a relashionship but she refused ??!! so what do you say , i love her from 1 year and 2 months....
if you dont know she loves me like hell and i know she still , but why she refused to stay with me , and to let you know the first time they refused me her family she asked to stay with me with a strong will ... what can i do ? how can i kill my feelings i cant stand this situation anymore.....
2007-01-17 08:00:26 · 5 answers · asked by lord 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow this truly is a really hard answer due to the fact that she wont answer you or see you. Let me say something, if she does not have the will to tell her family that she does not care what they think and still be with you she may not love you. In love you do whatever and go as far for that person even if it requires to have your family hate you. Then again she may love you and still not think its worth leaving her family for you. If you do speak with her do not yell or tell her its her fault. Understand her, its not easy to love someone and have ur family regect that person. Tell her you'll love her no matter what she decides. If she doesn't decide for you my friend....then go on. Lots of luck!
2007-01-17 08:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by yenlys_18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need the parents' permission, perhaps you are too young to be married?
If she says no after her parents say no, I'd also say then that there is something more there. Do you really want to be married to someone that is so dependent on what their parents think?
I think you need to start looking at your life individually and ask what makes you happy outside of a relationship and pursue those things.
2007-01-17 16:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some cultures depend on family acceptance soley and if she has decided to listen to her family and accept their decision, I think its best if you move on. It will hurt, but it will go away in time.
2007-01-17 16:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess that means she chose her parents over u
2007-01-17 16:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not ready for marriage.
2007-01-17 16:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋