Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

i have a problem with my father ...
i have GF , and he prevent me from that ....
what should i do...

2007-01-17 07:55:13 · 4 answers · asked by momo 1 in Family

2007-01-17 07:54:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On my home & cell phone you can't delete a message until you've listened to the entire thing. On my message I say, "please leave a BRIEF message" but yet certain people still ramble on and on. I've even asked these people to just leave their name/number yet they still ramble on and on! It drives me nuts!!!

2007-01-17 07:54:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Plain? With diamond accents? How many? Any suggestions? I'll be purchasing from http://www.bluenile.com.

2007-01-17 07:54:04 · 11 answers · asked by stephyrose87 3 in Weddings

we met about 5 months ago and we was gonna start dating but then she went with someone else and now shes back and she had me going crazy ove rher and i had to fight a bunch of ppl to be with her and now she keeps on making me wait.everyone has told me to move on but that wouldnt be right because i would always be thinking bout her and not the one i would be with. so what am i supposed to do.

2007-01-17 07:53:49 · 8 answers · asked by 2 big 4 u 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 07:53:40 · 19 answers · asked by bcharnish 2 in Singles & Dating

I wonder what guys think about this. Assume that you have a girl friend that you don't have feelings for at first. And meanwhile one of your "good" friends likes her but the girl doesn't like him. And as time passes, you start to have feelings (strong too!) to this girl too, but you still have that other friend who always talks about how much he likes her. Now, would you just go after your feelings or keep silent about it in order not to hurt your friend?

Yes, I'm one of these imaginary people in this story, and I'd like to know what you guys would do if you were in this situation.

2007-01-17 07:53:27 · 14 answers · asked by Earthling 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 07:53:26 · 1 answers · asked by catherine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hey everyone. i have started talking to a guy here recently, and i do not want to ruin a potentially good relationship by my stupididty! i tend to do this and i dont want it to happen with this guy. what scares a man off and what are ways i can keep him interested? any advice would be helpful. thanks!

2007-01-17 07:52:50 · 15 answers · asked by southernsweetheartt24 1 in Singles & Dating

ok we went out this year for like 1 month and the first week we went out i did something with another guy, he found out and was going to break up with me but he said he couldnt let someone as beautiful go.. so over christmas break i made out with another dude while i was drunk he found out about that and we broke up. well we didnt talk for a while and a couple days ago i asked him if he hated me and he said no... i told hes bro that i still hade feelings for him and he said he was going to ask me back out. but he hasnt asked me back out yet and i cant get him off my mind. his bro said that he said he loved me.. but i dont know what to say anymore cause his sister hates me and she was my bestfriend

2007-01-17 07:52:23 · 4 answers · asked by anna l 1 in Singles & Dating

well, when i call him, we start out with how are you, hows life ect, but after that the phone is just quiet, and we dont know what to talk about. Everytime that happens we ask, what you wanna talk about and we say "I dont know" EVERY because we really don't know what to talk about. So i need things to talk about with your crush, and things to ask your crush.

P.S Is it better to show your emotions and make him know I like him, or keep him guessing?

2007-01-17 07:51:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a married woman and very much in love with my husband. He is 24 and I am 32. We have been married for two years. After we married he became abusive, (I asked a question about his abuse on here a week ago). He is currently overseas. He came home a r&r and was abusive again. He finally, this week admitted he was mean like that. He has promised to NEVER do it again and says I am his world. Here's where I need help.... We have a friend, that is 23. He hangs out with me often. He has made an offer to be with him and a promise that I would never regret it, he would never beat on me or purposly hurt me in anyway. He wants me to leave my husband. I am not in love with this man but feel that I could love him easily. I am very much in love with my husband. I need him and he needs me, or atleast I feel that way. Is is possible that my husband can change? I dont want to give up on him. He isnt coming home for a year and the other man may be leaving the state very soon. please keep reading.

2007-01-17 07:51:38 · 38 answers · asked by chaa107 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my guy for 4 1/2 yrs. lots of high's and low's. He is not perfect nor am I. I want everyone at my wedding someday soon. Should their support be my greatest concern?

2007-01-17 07:51:19 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Mary 1 in Weddings

Well on saterday im goin to this guys house but i adore his older bro an cant look him in the eye with out blushin ... i really dunno how ill handel it P.S im not goin out wiv the older guys lil bro hes just a m8

2007-01-17 07:50:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel so silly asking this question but anyway here it goes.

I just curious about this guy that I work with, I never really paid him any attention. He's a loan officer handling one of my clients. I saw him in the break room this morning and I spoke to him but he didn’t say nothing. So I was oh well. Anyway, I was preparing my coffee and out of nowhere he started talking told me that he got a comitment from my customer to work with us. So he told me that he worked til 11pm last night. I was shocked and he said well his single so he can work hours like that. That took me off guard so I laughed. Anyway, we talked so more about my customer and I went back to my desk.

That was innocent right - reading too much in to that?

2007-01-17 07:50:33 · 6 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

shes jealous of me cuz now her son has a wife(me) and a baby(our kid) shes jealous of the fact that he has his own family she still wants him to be her little boy she told me straight out that she hates my guts cus i use him to buy baby dipers and baby milk i told the beyatch the baby has to drink milk and hes ur sons baby not some kid off the street so ofcourse hes got all right to support me and his baby wtf, then shes all up on how i buy new dresses and how her sons paying for it, she has made an extra key for our room she comes in when im not home and steals my things and plants things in the room and takes whatever she pleases, i have seen the keys with my own eyes and also heard her come out of my room once when i came home early not to mention once i opened my door it was unlocked i asked her why she was like HOW SHOULD I KNOW and made a big sh***t about how i disrespected her, as soon as my husband comes home from work he doesnt even see me he sits with his mom for mad long

2007-01-17 07:49:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Think Really hard Before You Answer, Alright Here's my Question,
If you Met a Guy and right off the back you two hit it off, He was everything you wanted in a man (Looks and personality Wise) He treats you Like a Queen and he would never cheat on you and the two of you Fell in love with each other, But the only problem is He can't get a job. Now I 'm not saying that He's just sitting on his A** not looking for one I mean He's Trying really hard but no one will Hire Him, Would you Break up with this guy eventually because of this??

2007-01-17 07:49:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a b/f, ok. then there's this other guy who asked me out and i said ok but i have to break up with my other b/f. (i lied) i felt so bad 4 him cuz he likes me ALOT! and i really love my b/f and i don't wanna go out with this other loser.

this guy just now asked me, "do we still go out?" and i said, "well i still need to talk 2 my b/f." and he said, "but we do though, right?" and i'm like, "i guess." and i don't really wanna go with him , i wanna stay with my b/f but i don't wanna hurt this guy's feelings!!! help me!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-17 07:49:28 · 80 answers · asked by >>Rican[Mamii♥]<< 3 in Singles & Dating

I cant be responsible for the mans actions. So all you ppl trying to make me feel guilty for sleeping with this married man.. I didnt know he was married. and how can you be sure the wife is not cheating. Everyone please take responsibility for your own actions.
But its often like this, that the wives blame the woman.. Not the man.. Do you think the man is a crature that has no own will.. and that he is lured into these situations? god damn.. grow up..

2007-01-17 07:49:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-17 07:49:07 · 9 answers · asked by catfreak 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother is bitter and lonely. She raised my sisters and I alone after my father's death, I was 9, my other sister 8 and my middle sister 15.
Before my father's death she was very loving towards us, then after a while she became distant, unforgiving, manipulative & controlling. She guilt me into working for her in a small buisness we had and treated me really bad there, I couldnt go cause she made me feel responsible for the economy of our home, she completly denied my needs as an adolescent, she would also appear weak and I was so scared for her health and she would reinforce it by telling me that I was her "right hand" and that she needed me.
She treated me so bad I decided for mental and emotional health to leave her cause living with her was toxic for me, I was becoming suicidal from all the stress at home and the lack of love and guidance.
I am in theraphy right now and have realized that my mother didnt parent me after my father's death, and that she abused me emotionally.

2007-01-17 07:48:19 · 5 answers · asked by Alejandra 1 in Family

my mum and dad split up when i was liitle and to be honest my dad was a complete git! he is not a nice man at all, i have not seen him for bout 10 years and he just got in contact with me at christmas completely out of the blue! says that he has changed and seems desperate to become a part of my life.im 24 now and my dad did some really horrible things to my mum and me.....and i just cant seem to let things go but at the time im thinking i should give him another try, my mum is hurt that he has been in contact as when i was little he never gave her any money to help her with finances (he could afford it) and he never wanted anything to do with me. i just dont know..............

2007-01-17 07:48:13 · 12 answers · asked by kez 2 in Family

Sometimes i get thoughts like if he does something that looks gay ..in my head i think it looks gay and then sometimes when he talks i think he sounds retarded but i still like him no matter what and even though i told him i have those thoughts, i still feel guilty! Do you ever have them? Some people say it's normal and others don't

2007-01-17 07:47:20 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley T 1 in Singles & Dating

with a note that says "it's not a trick. have fun. the thought of you gets me excited. i love you. don't be mad, be happy." and leave a pair of my panties on the keyboard. or is that invading his privacy?

2007-01-17 07:47:17 · 18 answers · asked by Flava 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to tell my (non-employed) boyfriend this but I dont know if it is really rude to say to a guy...
"There is difference between a male and a man, your 25 start acting like a man or I'll have to find someone who does"
I want a man who is man enough to work

2007-01-17 07:46:53 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does that mean he wants a second chance? I asked him what he meant by that and all he said was that he had to go. I told him my feeling and everything but he seems to be hiding something. We agreed to be friends but he keeps on saying that I am beautiful but he said only to him. He brought this whole conversation up out of nowhere and I wasn't suspecting it at all. Is he trying to tell me something? He has been staring at me more than usual and everytime I turn around, there he is. What is going on?

2007-01-17 07:46:48 · 9 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 07:46:15 · 5 answers · asked by 2 big 4 u 1 in Singles & Dating

I ve been going out with guy over a year i loved him so much and i still do.He ve been cheating on me twice once with his housemate he used to live.i get over it and i gave him another chance.Later he lost his job and he came up to me and asked me to live him in my house.So we started to leave together.But since that time he started to lie to me.He founded new job and even he wasn't working hes been saiyng hi does.Then he came up to me again and asked me to lend him some money 400 pounds.I never get them back.Then break up came for him it was easy he just packed his staff and left but what about me?i was in the pieces..i been doing very well since today.I vent to his house and we had a sex again.after that he told me he didn't even liked it.i came home in tears...what i should do to forget?i tried to delete his phone number but trouble is a do remember everything..Please help...

2007-01-17 07:45:52 · 6 answers · asked by tmskv 1 in Singles & Dating

just curious.....im straight....and there is a new show coming out on lifetime channel that has someone pick which one is gay, straight or taken...so its just a poll i am trying to take on answers

2007-01-17 07:45:42 · 6 answers · asked by beachnut222000 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 07:45:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends