well, when i call him, we start out with how are you, hows life ect, but after that the phone is just quiet, and we dont know what to talk about. Everytime that happens we ask, what you wanna talk about and we say "I dont know" EVERY because we really don't know what to talk about. So i need things to talk about with your crush, and things to ask your crush.
P.S Is it better to show your emotions and make him know I like him, or keep him guessing?
2007-01-17 07:51:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk about whatever you can think of..just try and make it relevant..start one convo off with a line like "i just saw this great movie.." u can talk about it and maybe talk about what movies you both like, etc..maybe it will lead to a planned date..idk but this methiod can be applied to most every topic..trust me, i am definetely never at a loss for words.
2007-01-17 08:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by onetwothree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should never keep your man guessing... men don't normally mess around with that kind of mystery, get bored, and move on. But I also wouldn't dump all my feelings out on the table b/c it makes you look extremely needy.
Second, things to talk about: This depends on your common interests... are you into politics? What about the war? The weather.... your family, your future plans, college (school), talk about anything that goes through your head. Being that he's not talking either, he really can't judge your spontaneous comments or quirky ways. Just be yourself!!! You shouldn't pursue a relationship with him if he doesn't like you for you.
P.S. If he doesn't engage in the conversation, he must not be an interesting person. you should seek interesting, individual, and well-rounded men. Good luck!
2007-01-17 07:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At any age: What do you talk about to a guy? HIM HIM and HIM. This one is too shy so you have to think of some questions.Do you have access to any music on your PC? If you do there's a great Country song by Toby Keith called "I Wanna Talk About Me" and women of all ages would benefit greatly if they took that song very seriously!!! It will also tell you just exactly what he wants you to ask him too. Now do what you can to memorize every word of that song. It may have sounded like he wanted to be funny, but when Toby wrote that song and the radio started playing it, every man in America breathed a sigh of relief. There's nothing funny at all about it. (Someday you will get married and THEN you can talk talk talk talk talk------Trust me!!)
Toby Keith's "I Wanna Talk About Me" Do it and you will thank me later!! Good Luck!! Stay sweet!! @8-)
2007-01-17 08:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dovey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing. Bring up something that happened today or a sports topic. Yes its fun to keep him guessing but honey, guys are clueless. show him your real emotions.
And "kids" have any right to be on Y/A just as much as adults. We have porblems too.
*Bity* <333
2007-01-17 07:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by Bity 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As he sounds intelligent, maybe talking about school would be a good idea. Other things to talk about... His family Music Food (guys, intelligent or not, love food) Something that happened to you that day that was funny A flirty thing to do would be to maybe compliment on something he is wearing at the moment.
2016-03-29 01:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can find what each other is interested in, birthdays, hobbies and things like that and if he doesn't like playin games like me go ahead and tell him how you feel.
2007-01-17 07:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by Da #1 Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think children should be banned from Y/A
2007-01-17 07:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 10⤋