Sometimes i get thoughts like if he does something that looks gay ..in my head i think it looks gay and then sometimes when he talks i think he sounds retarded but i still like him no matter what and even though i told him i have those thoughts, i still feel guilty! Do you ever have them? Some people say it's normal and others don't
2007-01-17 07:47:20 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nobody is perfect, and it seems your picking up on the small details about this person that prove that. If you told him you felt that way, and you were honest then the only reason you feel guilty is because of you, i bet he's trying to fix those things about himself that you dont like. As long as your honest with him, and your not doing it to hurt him intentionally, then there is no reason to feel guilty.
Its normal to pick up on things you dont like in people, if it wasnt the whole world would be at peace.
2007-01-17 07:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by manasbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My b/f does silly things all the time that makes me say " Oh he's acting so gay!" but it doesn't mean he is. I know my b/f's not, most guys just have a tendency to act gay to be funny or just when they're really hyper so I wouldn't worry about it. If you really like him, then take him for exactly what he is.
2007-01-17 07:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have these thoughts.sometime my boyfriend chews his food indescribably But I don't tell him and I still absolutely love him. I am sure I do things that he hates. remember no one is perfect. so they do something that looks gay, if you love them and they have more pros then cons then just get over the trivial details. From experience I promise you, you will always find a flaw in any of your partners.
2007-01-17 08:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by judy_74074 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have those thoughts. And I do vocalize them. My husband never has any doubt about what I think. I think those thoughts are normal, most people just keep them to themselves.
2007-01-17 07:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by BooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay and retarded? strong words and feelings-----we all feel our spouses or significant others are a little off from time to time but.. there seems to be some deeper stuff going on here---talk with him about it
2007-01-17 07:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all get thoughts at least your honest & tell him.I get all kinds of thoughts have learnt to keep them to myself.
2007-01-17 07:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I more or less have thougths when im not with him, that he will meet someone else that is better than me and realise he could do better..
2007-01-17 09:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it;s normal to have doubts.
2007-01-17 08:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋