Think Really hard Before You Answer, Alright Here's my Question,
If you Met a Guy and right off the back you two hit it off, He was everything you wanted in a man (Looks and personality Wise) He treats you Like a Queen and he would never cheat on you and the two of you Fell in love with each other, But the only problem is He can't get a job. Now I 'm not saying that He's just sitting on his A** not looking for one I mean He's Trying really hard but no one will Hire Him, Would you Break up with this guy eventually because of this??
2007-01-17 07:49:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is the most striking question i've seen this day.
well if he is the incarnation of all what i want but he does not have a job ,& he try hard to get one,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
well this would be enough for me, coz he is not a lazy person ,it's just a matter of bad luck; besides it would be very low of me to leave him, b/c he would probably need me to support him.so i can't just kick him off.
2007-01-17 08:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does then she really doesnt want to commit to the guy. Its perfectly fair, she has no way of knowing how long this will go on for and most people dont like voluntarily taking rides on rocky ships. She could worry if hes going to cost her money, which by the way he shouldnt. She might worry if he will go into financial debt because of this, in which case she might not envision combining finances with a marriage and if she knew she didnt wanna marry she might think whats the point in dating this guy.
On the other hand, she might really really love him and have faith that all bad things eventually pass. It is inevitable that if the guy is honestly trying to get a job that he would get one. I couldnt see why not, maybe the guy should consider why he isnt getting a job, is it his appearance? his credentials? what can he do to change these patterns if he really wants to keep this girl?
Depends on the girl, and depends on the relationship but whatever happens, what is meant to be will be. If the girl would leave the guy just cause hes having a hard time getting a job, what would she do if he got really hurt and needed care? She probably wouldnt be the type to stick around in that situation and a girl that isnt loyal isnt worth the time.
2007-01-17 15:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by Candy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if our living expenses are joined together. You can't take her anywhere or buy her just because gifts. If you dont have a car thats even worse. but if you do that more money being spit out that you don't have. The problem is not finding a job like most people say. We just have the nerve to be picky about what kind of job we want. Thats why mexicans are taking over, because men like you are too sorry to take what you can now and find something better later on.
2007-01-17 16:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a question back atcha:
If a dude can't find a job then why wouldn't he take the initiative to get out here and establish some type of business for himself? lawncare, vendor services, ect. that's what i would encourage him to do, but i would question his own self esteem in not pursuing that option himself.
there's no excuse for a man to not work, unless he's disabled and it prevents it from being possible.
the brotha would be sorry - gotta go, gotta leave.
2007-01-17 15:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i loved the guy that much and i would love him for who he is as long as he knows his goal in life and where he wants to go.But he has to get hired somewhere eventually as long as he dont give up
2007-01-17 15:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by ms.pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! Why let a good guy get away just because of that? He will eventually get a job.
2007-01-17 15:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on HOW LONG he is looking for a job. If it takes him months and months to be employeed, I might opt for a break until he finds one.
2007-01-17 15:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...It would be really hard for me to break up with someone who is doing their best and doing nothing wrong (in the relationship anyway)
2007-01-17 15:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Janice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as long as I know that he's trying I'm sure someone would hire him eventually.
2007-01-17 16:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't.......Not right away at least, but if after months he can't find a job? He can get a crappy job until he finds one more appealing. There's no excuse.
2007-01-17 16:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋