Well on saterday im goin to this guys house but i adore his older bro an cant look him in the eye with out blushin ... i really dunno how ill handel it P.S im not goin out wiv the older guys lil bro hes just a m8
2007-01-17 07:50:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF your mate is a good friend and is not in the process of "hooking" up with you, just tell him that his brother's hot and leave it at that. By that statement you will be able to find out a lot. (Whether the older brother likes you, whether he feels you're too young for him, etc). If your mate is trying to hook up with you, then you have a problem and you should let your mate know first that you're not interested in him, and then just forget about the older brother. All of this applies only of course if you are old enough to date and that you are single and so is the older brother that you like.
2007-01-17 08:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by Julian A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to show how u feel to the older guy then distract yourself when the older guy is around. Try focusing the subject your talking about on something you know about and isn't personal so that you can just think about that and not the fact you adore looking at him. Go to the bathroom and "freshin" up to cool down when need be. Best of Luck.
2007-01-17 15:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Up too Late!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool around him. Try and b\put aside how you feel and be yourself. When people get nervous they arent the same person and not being confident is a turn-off to guys. Ask him a few questions then pretend hes not around. It will pay off in the end. Its the mystery aspect.
2007-01-17 15:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by *Aimzie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you have to find out if its just a crush or if u really do like him and would like it to be more, it could also be lust, try and find out if he likes you too has he gave you any signs that he does if so then i think you should go for it but only if he isnt that much older than you doll i hope this kinda helped
2007-01-17 16:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by sweetcheeksuk2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're right, you do need help. Not sure this is the best site for you. Try the Samaritans. Or, go to the local Police Station, and get yourself sectioned.
2007-01-17 16:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by guy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIV...Don't play urself. Don't go to his house if you gotta cruch on his brother. You think he's not going to know whats happening get a grip girl. Tell him him how you feel. Fate works out perfectly
2007-01-17 15:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Calderon C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont make eye contact and you will be fine but i am guessing he already knows you have a crush on him going bright red gives it away.
2007-01-17 15:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm difficult one that is.. Can you not just forget it altogether and knock it on the head?!
Don't go out with him if you've got eyes for someone else.
2007-01-17 15:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the bro comes out you say you have to go to the restroom.
or you can tell him how you fell.
2007-01-17 15:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by browneyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we say older do we mean "highschooler" and you're in middle school or something? Focus in school first... then we can start talking about love okay :)
2007-01-17 15:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Col 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋