I ve been going out with guy over a year i loved him so much and i still do.He ve been cheating on me twice once with his housemate he used to live.i get over it and i gave him another chance.Later he lost his job and he came up to me and asked me to live him in my house.So we started to leave together.But since that time he started to lie to me.He founded new job and even he wasn't working hes been saiyng hi does.Then he came up to me again and asked me to lend him some money 400 pounds.I never get them back.Then break up came for him it was easy he just packed his staff and left but what about me?i was in the pieces..i been doing very well since today.I vent to his house and we had a sex again.after that he told me he didn't even liked it.i came home in tears...what i should do to forget?i tried to delete his phone number but trouble is a do remember everything..Please help...
2007-01-17 07:45:52 · 6 answers · asked by tmskv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should forget him. I know that forgeting a man may be a very hard situation, but please do it! Try to meet a new man or going out with friends so as to forget that awful person. As I read, you are such a lovely person and he doesn´t deserve you.
If you come across again this boy, deny your love and don´t fall in his arm. Remember how he used you, how he took away your money and, what it was worst how he told you weren´t a good lover. Dening him may hurt at first times, but then you ´ll feel more confident and happy to leave him in the past. Good luck and remember: HE DOESN´T DESERVE YOU.
2007-01-17 08:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mugricienta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has been in your position at one time or another but i think the trick is to make sure something good comes out of this situation.People will only do bad things to us if we allow them to, this was not your intention i know but you have find something within yourself to stop this pattern of behaviour before it spirals out of control.You are a beautiful and precious human being why would you let anyone treat you to the contrary.Your ex treated you in this manner because he knew there would be no direct consequences from you ( fortunately for you what goes around most definately comes back around) it would be easy to say pull yourself together and work on your self confidence but as good as this advice may be we all know that it is not as simple as this.
You will only stop similar behavoiur towards you when you are truly fed up with being treated like it.I think you posting this message is a very brave thing to do and is a sure sign that you value yourself and are truly fed up with how you were treated.
All the best
2007-01-17 09:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy answer to this.
Unfortunately its only time that will heal you!
So have patience, the pain will fade but it does take time!
We have all been there so we all know its very hard! But you have to keep away from him as much as you can, as he will just keep you down!
The more you keep away - the quicker you will get better!
Simple yes - but don't under-estimate how difficult it is going to be!
But you can do it!
You managed to be happy before you met him - so you are capable of being happy now!
So have patience and keep away from him and in 6 months things will be a lot better!
2007-01-17 08:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out there an meet a proper man he aint a man he is a rat
2007-01-17 09:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by lizjess2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some respect for urself and some confidence and get a new man....
2007-01-17 07:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Don 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop this loser.
2007-01-17 08:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋