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There is this guy at school that I really really like (not sure if he knows I like him), and he is so cute. But there is this girl that I've known since the third grade that has always been out to ruin my life. A couple of days ago, she asked my if I liked the boy I talked about. Not wanting to fib I said yes, and guess what happens the next day---SHE ASKS HIM OUT, AND HE SAYS YES!!! She has done this to everyone of my friends ever since I can remember. I don't kno what to do do now. I want to claw her eyes out, but I don't want him to think I'm crazy or something. What should I do??? Help me please :-(

2007-01-17 08:02:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

This guy is really cute

2007-01-19 08:27:54 · update #1

21 answers

I think you should be the bigger person. Honestly things will not last with this guy because she obviously wanted to make you mad and doesn't have real feelings for this guy. When things end between them I think you should be honest with your feelings for this guy and talk to him about them. Just think Karma!!! it's a b@@@h!

good luck!

2007-01-17 08:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sam s 2 · 0 0

Honey this is the time where we have to use inteligence rather than the claws!! Although I wish I knew this bi*** so I could beat her up for you but this is what needs to be done now: First of all I would start talking to him. Let him know you exist. Give him a different perspective of who you are and who that little bi*** is. Make sure you're friendly and flirty, not too flirty though, you don't want him to think you're a ho*e! But enough to just play a little-With his mind that is. Boys will always be boys! Then wait, and I know this sounds completely wrong but wait. Wait for the right moment-and do you know what moment I am talking about? The time where they get into an argument. THAT'S when you strike! Put her down in front of him. Show him (in the nicest way possible) what kind of bi*** she truly is. You'll know what to do when it happens trust me! ;-) Watch then he is going to concider what you tell him, and who knows.....if they do break up, that would be your chance. Post a question then...I'll be here! GOOD LUCK!

2007-01-17 16:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Secret2Know 2 · 0 0

Here's some info from a straight guys prospective, just go up to the guy and tell him she's a cheating bich, and when he dump's her make your move and be the trust worthy type, but with a bit more sexyness to show him that you want to be more then friends by being trust worthy. This tactic works 80% of the time. But remember, if you lay down too much sexyness he'll blow you of, and if you don't show enough he won't get the message, and guy's are a bit slow when it comes to noticing nice girl's, so give it some time. But if it take's more then five month's, he's not interested, so just move on.

2007-01-17 16:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by anthonys152000 1 · 0 0

It's your own fault for telling the girl yes!! Now you have to deal with your mistake and hopefully learn from it. It's funny that you were to good to "fib" but you wanted to claw her eyes out!!! WHATEVER!!!

2007-01-17 16:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by The_Game 3 · 0 0

THAT B I T C H! Well all i can say is that u either have to wait until they are through or u can move on. If that boy sank down to her level, then you are too good for him now. Since he cant realize what a ho she is, then he will never realize that u like him.. obviously she doesnt realyl like him, and what in the heck does she have against you and ur friends? is she jealous maybe? idk, i say find a guy that despises grls like her, cuz i wouldnt want to like or date a guy thats been close to a skeezhead

2007-01-17 16:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by kat 3 · 0 0

try talking to him- ask him something, anything ,something about cars or sports or a movie._u gotta be confident , twinkle ur eyes, dont make it too obvious tho. make sure that he answers u , try to start a real conversation the next day -plz dont be shy
it will work .just talk to the guy and dont ask him anything dumb.ok

2007-01-17 16:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by sweetums 3 · 0 0

hey!
dont worry! she is just a drama queen b*tch who is doing everything she can to make you misrable. this means she doesnt really like him, and she is only going out with him to annoy you, so lay low and let it fall apart because it will if you dont react. she will see that you arent doing anything about it and that it just isnt fun anymore, shell get bored and break up. and then you wont have her standing in your way. whatever you do, just dont react- sit and wait!! reacting is what she wants! she lives to be a b*tch!!
Morya

2007-01-17 16:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by Morya tal i 3 · 0 0

FIRST STEP TO TAKE IS KEEP ALL YOUR OPINIONS TO YOURSELF, NO MATTER WHAT THAT IS YOUR RIGHT NO TO LET ANY ONE IN ON YOUR FEELINGS UNLESS YOU REALLY TRUST HIM/HER.
SECOND: BECAUSE HE IS CUTE DOESN'T MAKE HIM RIGHT FOR YOU. WHAT ELSE DOES HE HAS TO OFFER? FOR INSTANCE GOOD GRADES TO PRIMISING CAREER. WELL RESPECT FOR FEMALES. DON'T ACT LIKE A THUG. NO HABITS FOR DRINKING OR SMOKING. THESE ARE GATEWAY TO OTHER HABITS.
THIRD: LET HER HAVE HIM, HE IS A SCORE TO HER NOT THE REAL THING. CHECK OUT SOMEONE ELSE THAT TOTALLY FITS YOU AS A REAL YOUNG LADY.

2007-01-17 16:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by dinea 1 · 0 0

Tell her to grow up and how you feel. Maybe she feels the same.

Guess next time you should just keep your mouth shut to people you know are like that

2007-01-17 16:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Pepper 1 · 0 0

i feel your pain honey!!good luck with this one..dont get violent this girl isnt worth it..if you act as if your not bothered maybe she'll get bored with him as shes only with him to annoy you!!if not forget about the pair of them and move on..stay clear of people such as this girl you mention she is bad news!!the guy will soon see what she is like and ditch her-she is not a nice person!!Xx good luck xX

2007-01-17 16:13:58 · answer #10 · answered by lil Miss Irish 2 · 0 0

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