Been going out with her for 1 1/2 yrs. This has been bothering me for so long and sometimes I even got into argumetns becuase I think she doesnt care about me...and now im very curious. My Gf never complains, never/rarely gets mad, never/rarely asks where I go, who Im with, if I cant be with her its ok doesnt bother her. I know things do bother her she holds back and doesnt show it. She had a bad past. (afraid to do to much for her bf incase of gettin hurt i think) she does says im perfect nothing about me that she can complain about but i can even think of a few. Ithink she doesnt care bout me but she says she loves me. I duno what to think soemtimes. she lieks her space. We broke up b4 and she did cry and apologized and I have to admit she listens and trys to change lil things I dont like.
I know ..why is this a problem, the perfect girl who does get attached?? right?? but you think she cares
2007-01-17 08:30:21 · 15 answers · asked by crazz000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i kno what is wrong with me... lol but thanks i think you're right she is liek that and i just didnt understand how to take it as soemtimes
2007-01-17 08:41:46 · update #1
she doesn't want to lose you...but i don't think this is a "problem"?
2007-01-17 08:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by rseny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well aren't you the lucky one. Some people don't let silly things get to them. She is obviously more mature than you are used to or even are yourself. Sounds like she has a great nature and one you need to respect and hold onto. If she didn't care she would not be with you. By the way, she should not have to change things because that's what you want. You have to meet in the middle
2007-01-17 08:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My bf and I have only been together like 5 months, but I don't ask my him where he goes or who he's with. Usually that is because he tells me and I trust that he is not doing anything he is suppose to. I try not to nag him about things. I am not holding back things but trying not to live up to the whole "nagging girlfriend" title. Maybe see just trusts you and wants to make you happy.
2007-01-17 08:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Annoy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a precious jewel. Never let her go! If you do and you end up marrying someone else who turns out to be a nag, you'll think back on this girl with extreme regret.
2007-01-17 08:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by Curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like attracts like! purely kidding. I seem to have the comparable difficulty. If there's a lunatic on a packed bus he or she would be able to make a bee line for me and talk or sing away as though i understand them!
2017-01-01 07:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off... most guys are probably thinking your nuts!!!
I think you need to sit her down and tell her how you feel in a way that she understands.... let her know that you want her to speak up and have her own opinions also, that what she thinks and feels IS just as important as what you think and feel. Let her know that you love her and want her to be able to express herself.
I think she is holding back because she is afraid of being hurt again, let her know that it hurts her more to be silent and not speak of things and that she is safe to let her thoughts be shared with you
2007-01-17 08:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
two things she either does not care about you or she is that way.guys you never know what you want if she is a ****** then she nags to much if she does not nag then whats wrong with her?what can you do right with you guys obviously nothing
2007-01-17 08:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by xoxo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure she cares loads and just doesn't want to push you away by being clingy - my boyfriend is a bit like your girlfriend but i'm the complete oppostie. i want him to be like me and get jealous if there are other lads 'cos that's my way of showing how much i don't want to lose him. he doesn't mind me being like that but he chooses not to get jealous 'cos he knows that i'll always love him and choose him over everything else.
so in a way it could show you that she cares lots and just doesn't want to drive you away.
2007-01-17 08:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very glad and cherish her like a rare jewel!
2007-01-17 08:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by sandymcbwala 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry her today! you're very lucky buddy! If she didn't care she wouldn't be with you. If it bothers you so much talk to her!
2007-01-17 08:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she does. You should just keep talking to her and confiding in her. Make sure she knows she can trust you completely.
2007-01-17 08:36:07 · answer #11 · answered by Xena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋