my ex girlfriend agreed to go out to the movies with me. she knows that i have really strong feelings for her and want her back, we parted on bad terms an she apologized for the things that she did and we talk all the time just like before we wer going out, but i thouht it would just be me and her and i was hoping to just show her a good time but now she has told me she is bringing a friend, the girl she is bringing is my friend too, but how shall i act with my ex? wut do i do? this was supposed to be my chance to show her that i want her back. help please!!
2007-01-17 08:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by A Decent Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that she doesnt have that strong feelings for you if she would like to bring a friend with her. You should bring a friend with you to so its not awkward for you.
2007-01-17 08:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want her back let her do what is most comfortable to her, that way she will know how much you are thinking of her - if this means letting her friend come along then let it be, you can still show her you want her back, you just have to be more subtle about it. Look her in the eyes in a flirty way, offer her your jacket if she's cold, tell her how amazing she looks, i know this other girl is your friend but just pay as little attention as possible to her - not in a bad way, make sure your ex feels special, feels gorgeous. mention how lovely she looks, how nice that dress looks on her. maybe offer to walk her home or drop her off home. if that doesnt work, maybe ask this other friend to go and buy the drinks in at least you have a couple of minutes to compliment your ex alone!
Good luck.
2007-01-17 16:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound bad, but I would flirt or pay more attention to the other friend. My boyfriend (now my husband) and I went through something very similar about 12 years ago. He made me realize how much I wanted him and we have been very happily together since. Good Luck!!! Girls/Women like a little bit of a chase!!!
2007-01-17 16:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by crystalnunley2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask her not to bring a friend, and even if she does still, just act how you originally would have. If you want her as bad as it sounds, do what you know you should do, friend or no friend. Good luck! â¥
2007-01-17 16:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite the third party you can still be the perfect gentleman even with the third wheel there. Be creative about it.
2007-01-17 16:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act smoothly because they are both girls. since i am a girl i know that you should try not to embarrass yourself cause they WILL talk about you. Maybe next time it would be a pvt date. Just you and her.
2007-01-17 16:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by foreverbaddestchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already got an answer
2007-01-17 16:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lucas S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋