i mean we get along well and there is great chemistry . but sometimes i feel that we dont connect as in its like we know each other too well i love him but at times i feel that we dont have a future i am very ambitious and focused and he is a bit laid back in life we are both in the film industry and this attitude is not good . i am very hardworking and he dosent believe in hardwork just because he is goodlooking at times he fails to understand me what do i do is this just a pasing phase or a genuine problem
2007-01-17 08:39:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are together from 2 years and he has asked me to marry him but i said no bcoz we are not established in our profession also i am 10 yrs younger than him i dont want mairrage for next 6 ,7 yrs and i was very clear about this . i dont want to be married to a guy who lacks stability
2007-01-17 08:51:20 · update #1
he dosent understand my dedication and views when it comes to my work i am very pushy and want to be good at whatever i do and i dont like to quit but he is just opposite he is always looking for options and the easy way out we are totally different when it comes to work
2007-01-17 08:58:09 · update #2
Join the club sweetie! I've been dating my guy for about 2 years and living with him for 1 year. There are times when I think that we just don't click anymore, we have very different views on allot of things. But when it all comes down to it, he is the only one I want holding me at night. You just have to take the bad with the good, it will pass. Just remember.....you love him right?
2007-01-17 08:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Cowboy Take Me Away 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a passing phase and a genuine problem.
Passing phase: An ambitious person like yourself, is a person who sets goals so it is only figurative to look upon a person and think, 'oh well, were is their focus. But, you have realize your life goals are not his and vice versa. Your future is just that: your future. Whether it includes him is where the problem lies.
Genuine problem: You don't a person that isn't going anywhere in life and you are. There is equality, development, foundation. I am sure you need to be with someone who is on the same level as you are if not above. No one needs to deal with a nobody who "thinks" their somebody. A somebody needs to deal with a person who "knows" their somebody. Get where I am coming from. This guy is all that but not in a bag of chips.
2007-01-17 16:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The greatest thing in a relationship is the self-disclosure and communication. If you want the relationship to last for as long as you both should exist then both of you must work on communicating with each other to further speak your mind and develop an answer or solution together. Having only one side speak is not enough to make a relationship last...
2007-01-17 16:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Alchemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and never really feel completely close with my woman, I think its because they always want so much and I just kick it so I know deep in my head that they are wanting some drama or exitement but I just want to chill.
2007-01-17 16:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a problem and if u don't do something about it right now your relationship will end on a sour note. Try talking to him about it and if he still does not understand then he is not somebody for u.
2007-01-17 16:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by nita23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and him might seem ok together but if you stay together and you feel this way later on you will hold it against him. i,ve been married 2 years and i still feel that way and we fight and i always say i,m leaving him but i never do so really stop and think about if this is what you want.
2007-01-17 17:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by sellarsjamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got 10 years on you and he's still not that serious about his work? He's not going to change. Either resolve to stick with him, or break it off and go find someone that you can respect.
2007-01-17 16:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think of the good things with him that happened or happening and think of the bad things like some of these... balance it on a scale... which weighs more and by how much?
2007-01-17 19:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by uronflames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think, if u r not confident of good future, it's better not to live together.
the adage goes "Prevention is better than Cure"!
this suits for all occasions.
2007-01-18 04:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think in mind not what is your heart telling u.... think about the future think about if he can be your husband and the dad of your children.
2007-01-17 16:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋