I think I'm 100% straight. I would never in a million years consider dating a girl, I strictly like guys (not against gays or anything like that). I've never had a crush on a girl or thought things that you do think about with a crush about another girl.
The only time I ever am attracted to girls is when I imagine what it would be like to have sex with them. not even to kiss. thats the only time ever. i dont think about a specific girl, just A girl. its weird. never had a crush on a girl, just guys. what am i?
2007-01-17 09:14:17 · 68 answers · asked by Christy J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, it really doesn't matter if you're gay or not. You sound like you don't want to be gay at all!
This is perfectly normal. Some men think about other men when masturbating, because holding a penis is a very male-orientated action and instills male thoughts. I would imagine that it would be similar with females.
Also, since you're female yourself you can probably relate more easily with people of the same gender.
As for your actual question, I would say that you're not gay. You sound like you don't want to be gay, you're pretty sure you're not gay already and I don't think you're gay from the information you provided. It's okay.
Hope this helps.
MaybeLater_x
2007-01-17 09:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Deconstitutionalization 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you like guys, then no, by definition you are not "gay."
Even if you are really "100% straight," there's nothing unusual about wondering what it would be like to have sex with another woman. For that matter, if you're a teenager, it's not unusual to think about having sex with anyone or anything within a ten mile radius.
However, it doesn't have to be strictly an either-or proposition. Especially with women, I think sexuality is more of a "sliding scale" thing than always 100% straight or 100 gay.
2007-01-17 09:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by EQ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are naturally curious but more honest than most.you are not gay,not that there is anything wrong if you were,but there are so many shades of sexuality that it would be difficult if not impossible to pigeon hole your personality type.
it is quite a common desire to wonder what sex would be like with someone of the same sex only when in your imagination you are of the opposite sex,in your case imagining yourself as a male having sex with a female.this kind of person very seldom will actually act out that fantasy.
2007-01-17 09:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur not a lesbian, u just get sexually excited when u think about sex...this should happen when u see porn or something so there isnt anything wrong. ur only a lesbian when u are attracted to girls liek u are about guys. like u noe how u like guys? instead u have the same feeling towards girls thats being gay.
2007-01-17 09:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is if you think you are 100% Straight then you are. I consider myself to be 100% gay but I have thought about what it would be like to sleep with a guy. I don't think that makes me bi at all.
2007-01-17 09:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by evillittlemouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not gay but it sounds like it would only take one time with a girl and you might become gay or bi. It's up to you and what's in your heart. If your mind tells you to do it but your heart says no then don't do it. Your mind can be corrupted but your heart remains true cause the heart has no mind.
Many guys have felt the same way but would never go through with it.
It up to you and your heart.
Good luck just be happy.
2007-01-17 09:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may be bi-curious, which is nothing to be ashamed of. A number of girls are curious about what some type of experience would be like with another girl. it's much more common for girls than guys. Why? Because girls are simply beautiful creatures. If I were a girl, I'd do another in a heartbeat.
2007-01-17 09:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by christonka 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
According to many informal polls, nearly three quarters of the women surveyed said they consider themselves straight but have had thoughts about being with another woman.
So, as far as I can tell, you sound pretty normal.
2007-01-17 09:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by allthree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no your not gay your NORMAL. everyone thinks of doing that with the opposite sex. it is not unnatural. in fact it is absolutely disgusting. you are only gay if you thought that while imagining it you actually liked it. which to me would actually be disgusting. i know how you feel what time i thought i was gay too but i realized i wasnt! i have never liked a girl and there is a VERY high chance that i never will. so if you liked imagining it then you are but if you thought it was gross then you arent. email me and tell me how you felt imagining it.
2007-01-17 09:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're curious. And it's normal to fantasize about that. Other women would know where to touch and where not to touch to make you feel the best, so naturally you wonder if that would be as good as sex with a man.
2007-01-17 09:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋