Well, i still talk to my ex on the phone a lot and hang out with him in a group. We've been talking latly about having a secret relationship, and i'm trying to figure out if this would be a good idea. We would go on dates and stuff, but infront of our friends we would act like we normaly do, no kissing handholding ect.. He said this is great because there is no pressure from everyone. We both said we trust each other not to cheat, and i do trust him not to, but i don't know if he'll be flirting with other girls. I'm also a little shaky because this new relationship would include sex, maybe only oral, and i've never gone that far, he has only once. We originaly went out for 5 1/2 monthes and he broke up with me because he didn't think i liked him that much anymore. However we've remained good friends. Do you think i should do this, and do you think itwill work? I was thinking it might be ok, because eventualy eveyone will catch on and find out about us, so in the end everyone would kno
2007-01-17
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