ohdear, so i dont want people to make fun of me
but, im 15 and i dont know how to make out.
i mean yea i've kissed and everything
i've even french kissed,
but the 3 guys i've frenched, say i'm a bad kisser =\
and my boyfriend told me i wasn't so good.
can someone please help me? like the whole shmammzle. ?
2007-01-17 09:50:45 · 16 answers · asked by Sara G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow up some more and your talent will develop.
2007-01-17 09:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ur only 15 trust me youll get lots of practice! i didnt get my FIRST kiss until i was 15 so ur doing better than i was! dont think about it too much, its not that hard, try not to eat his face an resist slobbering too much an being too full on with the tongue. Just go nice and easy, or in turn, follow his lead and then he has noone to blame. Kissing should be in the moment, do what feels right and what feels good, usually the guys body language (how he holds u, how he tcouhes you, how he kisses back) will tell you if he likes what hes getting.
PS. dont worry hun, trust me, i bet you its not YOU being a bad kisser, i bet its those guys - trust me 15 yr old guys CANT KISS!!
2007-01-17 18:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Floss and brush - I mean, if someone was leaning in for a kiss with some orange gushy stuff lining their teeth, would you go for it?
2) Not too much tongue - it's not very pleasant to feel a tongue jabbing at your teeth and jaw. Don't go too far with it either, a little past the teeth is preferable.
3) Keep lips soft - before you go to bed (this works wonders for me!) put on Vaseline, and reapply Burt's Bees (in Peppermint) or CVS Chapblock (in Strawberry) everyday to keep your lips smooth. Isn't it wonderful to kiss someone with soft lips?
4) Keep your teeth in check - no mouth battering! If you feel or see blood, stop, apologize, and don't try to kiss them again the same night/day!
5) Go slow - don't attack! I was reading CosmoGirl! and this guy said that this girl attacked him like a hungry fish at feeding time.
6) Tricks and techniques - when you're done, lick your lips and smile, when you feel the kiss is letting up, move from cheek to neck....anyone of this and you're sure to wow!
2007-01-17 17:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, my ex was like the best kisser, worst husband though, ignore the jerk who made fun of you.
ok, few tips, you don't always have to french kiss, watch your slobber too much is gross, don't kiss too hard, go slow and when you do french kiss don't shove ur tounge in his mouth, the worst kisser i ever had would shove his tounge in my mouth it is gross...practice make perfect, but remember you are young and kissing can lead to other things.
2007-01-17 17:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by auntkacki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You're so bad that they've actually told you it is bad? That sucks.
Uhmm..I guess a good tip would be that..Less is more. Don't open your mouth too wide or give too much tongue..or too much slobber....
Maybe you should also try kissing guys you don't really like. That way, when you find a decent guy, you won't completely suck at it.
2007-01-17 17:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by keepmynameoutchamouth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,
You just have to practice practice practice! Practice with someone you feel comfortable with and eventually you will get the hang of it! It is not so hard so don't let anyone make you feel uncomfortable! When you are relaxed just go with it! No worries, good luck!
2007-01-17 17:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by lustfulcalgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend to teach you how to kiss if he thinks that your not a good kisser. i think that it comes with more experience and it depends on what you like and what you dont like and what the other person likes and doesnt like.
2007-01-17 17:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by .em. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice make perfect. Just keep kissing -- no kiss is bad -- sooner or later you will find someone who appreciates the way you kiss!
2007-01-17 17:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see the problem is that these little boys dont care about making out, or the entire seduction of a woman...the dont care they just want to get to the sex part...what I am saying is that the guys need to help you out, its not that hard but you need to practice...but respect them for being honest...
2007-01-17 17:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeap!You can still become a great kisser!it dosen't matter if your bf said that!maybe he's just...gay! :))no just kiding! You will grow up ;)
2007-01-17 17:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by R0CkL3g3nD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋