He stands close to me when he talks to me and looks me in the eye, but he almost always has his arms crossed. Hes shy in general but around people he knows he can be talkative, but usually quiet around me. Has playfully pushed me. Teases me, not mean though. When I first met him, he'd talk about girls hes hooked up with but not anymore. However I saw him the other day and he completely ignored me. Ok he said hi, only because I did. What did I do wrong? Does he like me or not? So confused.
2007-01-17 09:44:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i would say talk to him, see if he likes you! i would think that he likes u but u said he ignored you so either 1 he has found some one else or 2 he was just really shy!!! but i suggest u talk to him!!! good luck!!
2007-01-17 09:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by candyas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's showing all the signs that he likes you, standing close, suddenly stopping mentioning girls playfully pushing you etc, so it's understandable that your confused when he ignores you, but have u ever thought that maybe he ignored you because he was embarrassed? because you did say he was shy, particularly around you. I think he likes you personally, but i can understand your apprehension on the whole subject, so i would try my best to spend a bit more time with him, you know talk to him about general stuff, and see what you pick up from that, and if you really think he likes you, then try to take things further, plus, by spending more time with you, he may become more relaxed around you and he might be the one to ask you out or whatever. So in conclusion, get to know him better. good luck!
2007-01-17 17:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said he is shy. But he has playfully teased you and doesnt talk about past relationships with you anymore. Chances are he likes you but he doesnt know if you like him. Try talking to him about it. If he does like you and you like him, u dont want to miss the opportunity of it being something great. Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime, just you and him. The worse think that could happen is him say no and if that happens at least you know you can stop thinkin about it so much and then you know it isnt meant to be and besides there is always friends! good luck!
2007-01-17 17:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you can look him in the eyes longer than he can. He is not as relaxed and open as you are. He is still trying to come out of his shell. He does not really know how to be around you only because he has had an opportunity to get closer to you and a bit more intimate. When you first met him he talked about girls because he perceived you to be just a friend where he could say anything to you. He became a bit more aware of what he would say when he got closer to you. Don't know why he shut off.
Most likely its borders and lost for words when a little bit more intamacy is near. - Guys are not really as courageous as they try to appear be - :)
2007-01-17 18:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This young man sounds like he has a lack of confidence. It sounds like he likes you but is unsure of how to act or what to say around you. He may have thought he did something wrong and was embarrassed to speak to you again. Or maybe his peers were around and was embarrassed to let them know he likes you. Peers can be harsh with their jokes and ribbing.
Give this guy a chance if you like him. Try talking with him in the hall, class or lunch if the chance happens. Just be yourself and keep the conversation light. If he likes you, he likes you for who you are and not someone trying to impress him. See if he responds and comes out of his shell a little. If he does not respond after several tries then give up and go on with life. The bumps in the road will lead to a beautiful sunset.
Keep smiling!! :)
2007-01-17 17:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinks he likes you.. A boy usually gets a bit quiter with a person he likes becos, unlike with this other friends, he wants to build an image in front of you. He would be shy because, of his intensions as he does not just want to be friend with you ..somethingmore.. I dont think he ignored you just like that, iam sure he would have felt shy .. Thats my thought.
2007-01-17 17:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by rockiee80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first he had like you but when he started ignoring you he's probably in a relationship but the only way to be sure is to ask him and then and only then you can be sure what is going on between the two of you want to be with each other but you have to ask him and then you will know what to do
2007-01-17 17:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better just tell him you like him. Maybe you gave a negative signal on accident. I would call him right now before he looses interest and looks for someone else. He could be the one.
2007-01-17 17:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jenni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile be happy never let a guy get you down.He is just a typical moody man.act as if all is well and it will be.I bet its school or work even family problems.Not you. Just be a ray of bottled sunshine and men will come to you in droves.
2007-01-17 17:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say so. the only reason he was talking about hooking up with other girls was to try and impress you. He's giving you all the signs.
2007-01-17 17:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋