Okay here's the deal, i like this smart, sweet, funny, and handsome guy... and the feeling is mutual. I know this because he asked what I thought of him. He's not some player, but is shy. Should i wait for him to make the first move, and if so what should i do? Or should I wait for him, but right now my patience is wearing because I want to be with him so badly. Please help...
2007-01-17 09:42:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has the guts to ask you what you think of him, there's no way he could be too shy to ask you out!
If it were me, I would wait for him to make the first move. The way I see it, if a guy really likes you he will go for it. Besides, if he is too shy to make the first move, do you want to be with someone like that? Personally, I can't stand guys that are indecisive and don't go after what they want.
If you are the one who has to make the first move, you're probably going to be wearing the pants in the relationship...is that what you want? It's up to you!
2007-01-17 09:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by gobanana516 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's shy and your an outgoing person...make the first move. most guys are intimidated by girls they like. My current boyfriend was so scared he wouldnt even hold my hand the first time we went on a date. I had to initate the first kiss. we've been dating for two years. Ask him on a date out to eat or to the movies. Make sure to sit next to him not accross from him. While the date just lean in tell him how cute he is and give me a nice smooth peck on the lips. This will break the ice for both of you. Making kissing a heck of a lot easier and your desire to come true!
2007-01-17 17:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by KT! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what move are you anxious for him to do marriage,sex, dating, what? do you want this to be a lasting thing or just something for the time being even though he has all these qualities, are you excited over the build of physical attraction that you think is just sitting there and you ready for some action, or do you see you spending a future with this sweet, funny, and handsome guy
2007-01-17 17:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by dontchawish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wait for a shy person, then you will be waiting for a long time. but honestly it depends on his level of shyness. speaking as a shy person myself, i sometimes get the courage to speak up and say that i like someone or something like that. perhaps chat with him through an instant messenger and that may open him up a little more. hint that you want to be with him and see where that takes you. but be careful with that...because there are those guys who have to be told outright about things relating to the heart.
2007-01-17 17:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him and know he feels the same way give him the push he needs and ask him out. That will let him know you are serious, but let him make to first "move" you can still flirt.
2007-01-17 17:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to wait. guys do like it when girl make the first move. so i think you need to make that move. i had never made the first move on a guy, and the man i am with, i did, and it worked out perfectly well. he ate it up hahaha and he even asked me marry him. so yes, go ahead, you got nothing to lose
2007-01-17 17:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he knows how you feel, so go ahead. Ask him to a movie, coffee, dinner whatever. Just keep it casual and simple to not scare him off. But, if he is as shy as you say, waiting is going to slowly torture you! Good Luck!!
2007-01-17 17:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by cairo2746 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful cuz if he is shy, he might not like you making the first move... flirt with him, talk to him, and find the right moment to kiss him, something natural no pressure ok.... analyzed him b 4 you make your move....
2007-01-17 17:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by aries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone has to make the first move and that might have to be you. One time for you
2007-01-17 17:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lordes D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. You don't have to be extensively aggressive, but just ask him to hang out sometime.
2007-01-17 17:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by No Sugar Added 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋