The last few months with Amie have been going great. Last night before we left for work she told me that she loved me. She even gave me a long kiss on the mouth.
This is what I have longed for. Ever since we parted I have wanted her back. It has taken me two years and I feel we are on the right track now.
This morning she let me hold her as we were laying in bed. She gave me another long kiss this morning as we were getting ready to leave. She is finally showing me that she cares for me again.
I have anticipated what I would do in case this ever took place.
I have wanted to ask her to re-marry me. I have waited. I have asked before if I should propose to her and was told to wait till she gave me some signs as to where our relationship was heading.
My question is should I hold off just a bit longer? Should I propose to her? Or let things stay as they are.
I really love Amie and don't want to lose her again. I feel that if I don't do the right thing I feel she will leave again.
2007-01-17 09:10:39 · 17 answers · asked by Jerrie's Daddy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a complete turn around. But to me it still seems to soon. She may be just caught up in the moment. I would give it more time. Show her how romantic of a guy you can be.
Send her flowers and candy for no reason other than to say I love you. Spend more and more time with her. Call her when you are not with her just to talk and say I love you.
When you show her romance and that you are really into her. She will open up more and more.
But always listen to her. Be ready for anything. Let her show you how she is feeling. You will know in your heart when the time is right. Best of Luck to both of you.
2007-01-17 09:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Babie Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if she's just starting to do these things again (the long kisses and such) that doesn't mean she's ready to get married. In fact, if you ask her now, you will more than likely scare her off. Take things SLOW if you don't want to lose her. Take some time to really prove to her how you feel and it sounds like her feelings will develop all in good time. Marriage is a big decision and should not be rushed. Both sides need to be 100% ready for it to happen or it will be disaster! Good luck and be patient.
2007-01-17 09:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pussyfooting around will get your toes all scrapped up along with your heart too. Mutual respect is built upon the bricks of communication and the mortar of honesty. If you to feel as though your relationship is a brick house, mighty might, then let it all hang out. She is either leading you down the path to passive agressive revenge or needs to know that you are ready to be the man that you need to be. Step up to the plate and hit one out of the park. Put it on the table then give her a kiss on the mouth.
2007-01-17 09:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without shoving into anything, show her how amazing you think she is. Something that'll make her see without the cage of marraige which can be a bit final. Take a special day off work and just do crazy things together!
2007-01-17 09:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when it's right. Feel it out, throw some hints. Make sure you get a good feel of what she is thinking. I wouldn't want you to ask and get your feelings hurt, nor do you want to miss an opening!
Good Luck!!
2007-01-17 09:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by cairo2746 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold off a bit longer to make sure the wind isn't going to change. You might talk about her sudden change and how much you like it.
2007-01-17 09:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the status quo for a bit longer. Need to be sure.
2007-01-17 09:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude your doing this all wrong..
just string her along and don't show her that
you like her so much
wait for the relationship to develop
then propose..
but i think she's already lost interest in ya
and it won't get to that stage.
2007-01-17 09:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by canuckclint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If marriage is in your heart, ask her. Don't be afraid of the only outcome, the "no" answer. If she's not thrilled about becoming your wife, she's not the one for you. Be Brave!
2007-01-17 09:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If you feel the time is right GO FOR IT!
2007-01-17 09:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by Tia F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋