On some days my husband gets a hard on through the day. This hard on can be mildly visable to fully erect. Coincidently, this is only when are children (2 & 7 mon.) are awake and he is the primary care taker. At night times it takes a battle for me trying to get him aroused. Is my husband a pedophile? He isn't oddly affectionate with them atleast when I'm here. Is he thinking of someone else? He lies over everything so he wouldn't have that type of honesty to tell the truth. He explains it away with he has to pee. If anyone else comes over you don't see his penis through his pants anymore. Like magic! My argument is, if peeing does make a guy hard, just go pee. It suprises me that this doesn't disturb him to be hard around the children. What haapens when they get old enough to understand. I have talked to him and that goes no where. I need to know if there is anything to worry about, how to correct it, or something.
2007-01-17 09:14:39 · 12 answers · asked by muskyheart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well for one thing your children do not need to see their fathers erections. I do not understand why he doesn't try to hide it. I understand that sometimes it becomes erect & a man cannot help it, but this seems to happen frequently & it is not appropriate around children. Environment & parental nurture shape childrens lives. I do not believe the peeing thing. I am not saying that he is aroused by your children, but the fact that he is erect around them concerns me. If you have a gut feeling that something isn't right keep an eye. Maybe a hidden camera, or you could monitor his online activity to see if he has been looking at inappropriate pornography. Just whatever happens, do what is best for those children.
2007-01-17 09:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kelli McCoy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Peeing doesn't make me hard, but sometimes I can't explain why I get aroused when I do, but I do. In the middle of the day and early evening. Sometimes just a certain sexy thought, or seeing my wife do something that is kinda suggestive. Just stuff like that. And since I'm wide awake I'm horny. Like any guy. Then, night rolls around, it's late, the kids have been a pain to get down to bed and the mood is gone. Then, I'd rather just sleep.
He may be the same.
2007-01-17 09:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
From what Ive readhe doesnt qualify as a pedophile.It sounds like an overactive hubby. Now this doesnt mean that it doesnt warrant futher watching but without actual evidence you have no proof of anything and if something is actually happening all you will do is tip him off and he will go undercover to keep anything from you and will threaten the kids not to tell, so be carefulhere and watch for any sign and notify the authorities immediately once you really suspect something for the kids sake. Good luck
2007-01-17 09:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that men get hard when they gotta take a leak,but not all the time.I say he's a sick twisted soul and you should leave ASAP.Alert the authorities soon to,as he might have a record or there could be past victims who never came forward.YOU NEED TO DO THE RESPONSIBLE THING AND PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE.LEAVE.LEAVE.LEAVE
2007-01-18 06:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by daddiesslut88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a test that can be done to answer your questions go to your,local police department and ask them, i would be very concerned,i am not saying that yes he is,but from just what i have heard it has my gut acting real funny.and before anyone Say's that i am full of you know what,i lived through what you are asking for six years of my life,and it was my own father and he was a pedophile,who went to prison. and i learned about the tests that they can do from being married to my ex-husband. if your concerned enough to ask on yahoo answers you had better ask a professional who knows allot more than i do. resources:my own life and it was bad. mt ex-husband was on probation for what your asking about.
2007-01-17 13:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by LaRie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, Your husband stays home, because someone has to, if you don't like the situation then you stay home. With these type of accusations I will bet you , you will be hiring a daycare or babysitter. because he will leave you after so much crap. Be prepared to raise those kids by yourself, because the next guy you find you will find something wrong with him also.
2007-01-17 14:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by gimlost2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but yeah sounds like it,get a divorce and restraining order for the kids QUICK!
2007-01-17 09:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this man should control himself. its not normal. sometimes i am exited by kids, animals but i control the feeling. its a little bit strange but high libido confuses emotions sometimes. he should to learn control himself. having a full erection is too abnormal. make him see a psikolog.
2015-07-05 10:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by oguzhan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible. I think you need to find out one way or the other - and fast.
2007-01-17 09:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by jude7265 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but you are obviously worried....keep your eye on things...think about setting up a nanny cam...good luck
2007-01-17 09:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋