Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

I dated a guy for over 3 1/2yrs and he broke up with me for some bull reasons. After a while of friendship I sent him to the curb and told him to leave me the hell alone. After a month or so went by he tracked down my number and we began to be friends. He says he has realized that he wants to be with me...Problem is he is dating someone else and hasnt dropped her. What should I tell him?

2007-01-16 11:23:57 · 15 answers · asked by GINA 2 in Singles & Dating

So I kno they want me to stop and stuff, but i told them i cant promise anything because if i do, and i break it, i will lose all their trust. but now they wont let me go out! what should i do?

2007-01-16 11:23:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, I've had a crush on a guy that works at this store. Everytime I would go there, he would go out of his way to come to where I was, and he would smile and say bye/hi allthat junky stuff. 2 weeks ago, I finally decided to hand him a note with my number (I know it's kinda childish, but we're in 2007, everything is possible :D) but he never called :( did he lose my number or he was just not interested???

All I wanted was to talk to him, not like I was asking him to marry me LOL Oh and I havent set foot in the store anymore since then :(

2007-01-16 11:23:29 · 31 answers · asked by ?Jaileen? 4 in Singles & Dating

it turns out you were right, do you learn from your mistake?

2007-01-16 11:21:45 · 12 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married outside at the end of April. My bridesmaid is wearing a neutral colored dress (she hasn't picked it out yet, but I would like it to be tan or very light brown or light gold or something like that). My husband-to-be is going to be wearing a kilt of either blues and greens or grays and blacks (he can't decide if he wants to go with his Scottish side or his Welsh side!) I'm not so worried about the best man, because I can always color-coordinate him, but I am worried because all of my hubby-to-be's "accessories" are going to be black: i.e. shoes, sparron etc... I'm worried that it will clash with my bridesmaid! Am I over-complicating this? Is there a way I can tie it all together without making it look too cheesy?

2007-01-16 11:21:19 · 8 answers · asked by boogers 2 in Weddings

how can I tell this secret to my mother, but im scared she get mad I dont knoe

2007-01-16 11:21:13 · 12 answers · asked by Mayra M 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to get my tongue pierced and im under 18. can i bring someone whos not my parent? how old would they have to be?

2007-01-16 11:21:12 · 5 answers · asked by basketballstar0707 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 11:20:18 · 25 answers · asked by forty and fabulous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy and we hang out sometimes but sometimes when he talks i think his voice sounds retarded even though he isn't! he is amazing and then sometimes the things he does looks gay like or this screen name i have he said he likes so i thought that also was gay but i guess if you think about it, it's not. I really like him but i feel guilty for these thoughts. He knows about them and he said he doesn't care what i think about him but i don't know, i feel like i don't deserve him. What do i do? Some people tell me they don't have these thoughts about their boyfriend and some do and say it's natural. Please help! Thanks! =]
Do any of you get these thoughts about your boyfriend/girlfriend?. If you would like to talk more you can email me at onecrazychicka23@yahoo.com

2007-01-16 11:19:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does married men like to go to stripclubs?

2007-01-16 11:18:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have to see this guy at school EVERYDAY! I'm the head cheerleader and he's the star basketball player....I have to constantly be around him. I'm also about to participate in the spring musical...and the cast sees alot of eachother.
I still loved him when he dumped me (on CHRISTMAS) and I still can't stop thinking about how much I miss him but I know I can't let him see that. I was a good girlfriend to him and gave him space when he needed it (he says). I don't have alot of friends either. How can I make him think that I have moved on or better yet, how can I actually do that?? Keeping myself busy hasn't been working. If I know he misses me, this will be so much easier. I gave his football jersey back today and he looked kind of sad but said "Thanks". He tells me hi at school but never calls me. I want him to miss me and I need to move on. Please help!

2007-01-16 11:17:47 · 22 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Singles & Dating

ive heard that 90% of the time women dont get off while having sex. How true is this? Because my husband seems to think i have a problem. and what can i do to make our marriage better or to make him happier?

2007-01-16 11:17:26 · 21 answers · asked by Babyxgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The past 3yrs have been hell-he cheated , I found out about numerous infidelities but he settled in on 1 female in particular. We're supposed to be working on our marriage now by going to counseling . I know he still wants his mistress and he's still trying to hide things from me...to no avail. Why doesn't he stop straddling the fence and make a decision - ENOUGH already....Marriage or mistress?? Your thoughts, please...

2007-01-16 11:17:13 · 15 answers · asked by Enough 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 11:17:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does this make me a bad person. I've been married since I was 16, I don't know how to live being single. But I am single now and I hate it. I miss taking care of a man and loving him and having someone by my side to do things with. But when I do talk to men about being married 5 times, they back away. They think something is wrong with me. I would say I messed up on 2 of my marriages[i cheated]. I dont' want to spend the rest of my life alone....

2007-01-16 11:16:18 · 38 answers · asked by Hobit 1 in Singles & Dating

2 months ago I got back with my Ex boyfriend (He was my boyfriend for 2 years)
The only reason I got back with him(Brendon) is because I got sick of him bugging me, He was still my friend, one of my bestfriends while we wernt together but he wouldnt stop bugging me about going out with him again. It went on for over a year. So I finally agreed. Meanwhile my bestfriends brother moved in with her and her dad and he(Jayden) is the type of guy that will be obbsessed with a girl for a week or two.. or will just get random "Get togethers" to do things with girls - boyfriend or no boyfriend. He is also best friends with my boyfriend but two days ago that didnt stop us from makingout on his bed.
Today my boyfriend called and wants to hang out. But the point is he is so inexperienced his idea of hanging out is playing soccer or bike riding, We have never even kissed.
I dont know what to do. I sort of like being single.
Jayden told me if i ever wanna get together just to come over. HELP!

2007-01-16 11:16:14 · 4 answers · asked by OhReally 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is going out with my ex boyfriend, and i still like him ,a d i'm soooo jealous. how do i deal with jealousy, and keep a friend?

2007-01-16 11:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do guys really hate it when their gf's sorta forget their own lives and just wanna hang out with u all the time? They sorta stop seeing their own friends as much and always hang out with yours? Do u prefer it when ya girl has a life of her own as well as one with u?

2007-01-16 11:15:48 · 9 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married outdoors the last weekend in April. In case of chilly weather my bridesmaid asked me what she could wear with her dress. I don't think a little shaw would cut it. And she hasn't gotten a dress yet, but my color is tan/neutral/or very light brown. I don't really want one of those "matching jackets" that come with some dresses, but I feel like I have no other choice! Any suggestions?

2007-01-16 11:14:00 · 8 answers · asked by boogers 2 in Weddings

2007-01-16 11:13:38 · 6 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

I've heard many men say they are looking for a LTR (Long Term Relationship) when all they want is sex, and nothing more. What does it actually mean to you?

2007-01-16 11:13:35 · 5 answers · asked by KKAT 2 in Singles & Dating

i dated a guy for almost 3 years and though i hated it and wanted out. i got out and moved 3 states away. i've noticed from time to time, i still think about him ALOT! i miss him and realize now that he was almost perfect. talked to him for the first time in yr and half and i then knew for sure i still loved him! what do i do? i'm in something with a diffrent guy and have been for 6 months! how do i get over the ex? or what do i do now? PLEASE HELP ME OUT!

2007-01-16 11:13:19 · 2 answers · asked by k_princess84 3 in Singles & Dating

i hav a twin, but i hav a problem. everybody [well almost every1] cant tell us apart!!! its tooooooo annoying 4 me i just cant stand it!!!! please tell me wat to do u goto help me!!!!! just tell me 2 things that u can come up with. PLEASE!!!!!

2007-01-16 11:12:22 · 23 answers · asked by Gloria 1 in Family

Well, 2 days ago me and a girl i am talking to was coming from the auto show. She was driving so i began to text my first love. We always talk at 11 but, anyways we was texting back and forth and she began to lean over and was reading all my text messages at every red light. So i told the girl i was texting what was going on. I began tp say " im in the car with her and she is kinda mad cause she read all my messages to you, She replies back and say "Well stop texting me then." Next day i tell her "goodnight and sorry about what happen." she says back "goodnight" Is it over between us? Or can i recover p.s She has a boyfriend but.. thats a hole other story.

2007-01-16 11:12:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should my Mother should do about all of the unpaid bills? Mostly from the hospital, and doctors. And now there going to collection agencies. The bills our in his name, I guess they think he is still alive, or are we as his family suppose to pay them all off, there like thousands of dollars from the doctors that failed to keep him alive. With my dad gone there is no way my Mother can afford to pay all that stuff, my dad made most of the money. Should she just ignore them?

2007-01-16 11:12:10 · 14 answers · asked by Randy M 1 in Family

ok here's wats goin on kk:
ok there WAS this boy i loved to death and all my friends kept on asking him out 4 me and he said NO every time and then i told my bff stephanie to go tell him that i just wanted 2 b friends and my bff asked him (outta nowhere) she said now be honest do you like her and he said omg i dont care i like her and every since then he doesnt talk 2 me but he stares at me ALOT and im like well talk 2 me u doofess lol and he never does and i just wondering what is wrong with him plz tell!!! plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz plz

2007-01-16 11:11:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi all

I saw my ex-girlfriend's Messenger name as "I hate my life I wish I could of died when I had the chance"

She split with me last year, I guess because of her feeling fro her ex but im not bothered about this. We are still friends and txt from time to time but seeing her name like this (she went offline before I could ask) has hit me pretty hard, as it would with any of my friends.

Im thinking about sending an email about calling her.. and asking to meet for a chat or over the phone or something

any advice? wether on the whole asking someone to meet, or depression or anything like this?

This hurts,

Thanks people

2007-01-16 11:09:21 · 7 answers · asked by Spike2012 2 in Friends

My long term partner recently broke all ties with me. He was very romantic and treated my with respect- He proposed and we were looking at buying our very first house together. However, just before christmas i had very important university exams and thats when he decided to end the relationship over the phone. I phoned him, i text him and i even wrote him a letter. We spoke once and i did not get the closure i needed-he still loved me.I did not hear from him for 3 months even though we live very close to each other.Until one weekend i recieved an email - explaining why he wanted to split and the stated words "...just thought it was better for us both to leave it and keep out of the way. There is only one thing harder than forgetting the past. Its moving on......and i will never be able to forget the past and i dont want to either and whenever i see you i will always have a smile to give you!". I have not replied-i later found out that he had been trying to contact my family aswell.

2007-01-16 11:08:37 · 7 answers · asked by xXSWEETIEXx 1 in Singles & Dating

I was friends with this girl for almost 13 years and we were so close. It was just me and her, the best of best of friends. Nothing could seperate us. Then some time passed and she started talking to my brother who treated her like a queen and she made a few more new friends. All of sudden our friendship started falling apart piece by piece. She wanted to be around her new friends and she started turning her back on me. When all her new friends were doing was using her and she act as if she couldn't see that. She practically was just like f*** you *****. Now her so-called friends are fading away and my brother dumped her ; now she says she wants to be friends again and she misses our friendship. What should I do?

2007-01-16 11:08:36 · 4 answers · asked by Cand Apple 1 in Friends

My sister is currently married but is doing adultery and drinking a lot she hits the kids and curses at them a lot when she is with them. her husband is no better and does a lot of drugs. My parents are basicly taking care of my 4 nephews because most of the time she doesn't even come home. She never buys them diaphers, food or feeds them she doesn't dress them.She takes them around other man to piss my parents off. She doesn't give my parents any money to help them out with the bills or for the kids and she is constantly asking them for money for gas she says she is working, she goes to work from 3pm to 11pm or 12 but doesn't come home until 11am the next day and claims she was working the whole time.I am the god mother of the oldest. My mom is thinking of adopting the kids and kicking her butt out of their house I am in another state my husband is military so i don't know if i would stand a better chance of getting the kids IF my parents can't get the kids. Can we do this?And how?

2007-01-16 11:08:33 · 5 answers · asked by Armywife3J 2 in Family