Hi all
I saw my ex-girlfriend's Messenger name as "I hate my life I wish I could of died when I had the chance"
She split with me last year, I guess because of her feeling fro her ex but im not bothered about this. We are still friends and txt from time to time but seeing her name like this (she went offline before I could ask) has hit me pretty hard, as it would with any of my friends.
Im thinking about sending an email about calling her.. and asking to meet for a chat or over the phone or something
any advice? wether on the whole asking someone to meet, or depression or anything like this?
This hurts,
Thanks people
2007-01-16 11:09:21 · 7 answers · asked by Spike2012 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
added after I read one of the answers: I knew even when I was with her she loved her Ex.
He asked for her back.. but I think hees let her down again. Sometimes its hard not to hate in this world (im on about her ex lol)
grrr
2007-01-16 11:23:31 · update #1
I think you should send her a message and ask her for a talk on the phone, she problably fell for another guy and that guy broke her heart so now she feels unwanted. Be a friend to her and make her feel better.
2007-01-16 11:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by hotrod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you must be feeling. I am still grieving over my last relationship, which ended many years ago. No matter what I do, I can't stop thinking about him. I even decorated the whole house specially for us. I have many friends, but to love someone is very different. So I know what you are going through. They say that time heals all wounds. Yes, the pain is not as bad as it initially was. But if someone mentions his name, I start to cry. I do have many hobbies, and interests, and keep myself very busy, going out, doing things, even flirting sometimes. But the feeling of loving him never subsides. So how can I advice you, when I'm still not healed after so many years? All I can say is give it time. Do what you enjoy doing. We all have to move on, and hope that tomorrow is a better day. Take care :x "-"
2016-05-23 22:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be there but don't get too involved unless you are wanting to get back together. I would let her know your concern only on a friends level. Take care.
2007-01-16 11:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sweet of you and I think she'd really like that. Sure go ahead and send her a message and see what happens. good luck ;o)
2007-01-16 11:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. most people do not post "i hate life, etc" messages for the world to know, also they would not publicly say that they want to commit suicide, but if you are worried give her a call.
2007-01-16 11:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Raya d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, by all means, contact her. Sounds like she's starved for attention.
2007-01-16 11:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her and see if you can help.
If not talk to someone in her family.
Good Luck
2007-01-16 11:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋