I dated a guy for over 3 1/2yrs and he broke up with me for some bull reasons. After a while of friendship I sent him to the curb and told him to leave me the hell alone. After a month or so went by he tracked down my number and we began to be friends. He says he has realized that he wants to be with me...Problem is he is dating someone else and hasnt dropped her. What should I tell him?
2007-01-16 11:23:57 · 15 answers · asked by GINA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can tell him one more time to "leave me the hell alone" but he probably won't take you seriously this time either. Why waste your time with some one who dumps you for bull reasons, comes back to mess with your head, and is also seeing some other girl. You can do better, right?
2007-01-16 11:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him get lost he will do it again trust me. he is just using you since he liked you at one point but then wants to have no attachment or to have to answer to you. You gotta move on he will do this again if you end up with him, he wouldnt date someone if he wants to be with you he would have sat down with you and sorted things out in the first place. when he breaks up with the girl hes dating he will have no one and miss things about you but dont fall for his games. some guys and some girls play games and now that he knows you he is going to play you and you will get more hurt. You can't be friends with an EX it doesnt work sorry to tell you, just move on and leave him alone, and tell him to move on and leave you alone, its a bs relationship
2007-01-16 19:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Butter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously lying to you. If he really wanted to be with you, he would have never hooked up with "HER" in the first place. Even if hooking up with her was due to temporary insanity, he would have already dropped her if he really wanted to be with you. Besides, I think you are having doubts about the guy anyway if you are asking for the opinion of others. Leave him on the curb!
2007-01-16 19:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by valkyria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like this.....he didn't want you then, he don't need you now. He's a player, and there is no telling how many women he has out there hanging by a string. Like your first answer, tell him to get lost. You don't need that drama in your life. Find you a man that will love you and spoil you like you deserve to be spoiled. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-16 19:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you then why is he with someone else? i say dont give him the time of day until he drops her
2007-01-16 19:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get lost! maybe he did mess up and realize that he really likes u but if he could do that to the other girl than he could do that to u. Give yourself more credit than that
2007-01-16 19:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you can be friends with him, then do that. If not.....do not bother. You dont what to look like the fool in the relationship.
2007-01-16 19:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by Dairy Fairy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um its broken for a reason he wants the cake the ice cream and someone to spoon feed him
2007-01-16 19:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by rusted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on... dont look back.. X's are for a reason.. Save yourself the hassle
2007-01-16 19:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by ucfmanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to make a choice. That other girl or you. That should tell you how he really feels about you.
2007-01-16 19:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by nicole30822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋