Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

2007-01-16 11:08:23 · 7 answers · asked by chorussongs 2 in Weddings

me as a black women who is in a longterm relationship with a "white man" i do not understand why black men and some black women look at me an my man with hate they roll there eyes at us where ever we go!! i love interacial relationships i have never dated inside my race but i love black men its just not were my heart is i do not date white men for money or because of skin color i truely am in love with my man i hate the fact that some black people will not acept me because of my man is white!! i go on double dates with black men with white women an white men with black women i find it intersting and fun or adventurst to date outside my race why do they have a problem with this?

2007-01-16 11:08:19 · 14 answers · asked by BEAUTYFULL 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 11:07:52 · 11 answers · asked by dotdot70 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 11:07:14 · 24 answers · asked by anonumous 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-16 11:07:00 · 14 answers · asked by Sam c 1 in Singles & Dating

joe is my bf's son from his 1st marrage.the problem is joe wants consent one on one attention from my bf when he comes to our house,he even has to sleep with joe.joe is fine if he has a freind over to play with but if its just us he makes his dad feel guilty for spending any time with me.his dad can spend 9 hrs straight playing with him(which he does all the time) and then want to sit and talk to me for 15 mins and his son has a fit.he says things like "its my day to be with you i don't like this" i understand this is their "special time" but joe gets to be with dad every other day and weekend and 90% of the time he has his dads full attention. i also join in on games too.i believe the problem in part maybe my bf's exwife.she is very bitter and resentful of the divorce(even after 7yrs,he )and talks badly infront of joe about us.also she consently throws in my bfs face how he abandoned his family.my bf being a good dad feels guilty and gives into joes every wish thus spoiling joe badly.

2007-01-16 11:06:28 · 6 answers · asked by cathy8lucia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl that i like is the first person that i truly have feelings for, but i am uncertain of how to make her more interested in me. We talk on a daily basis, we get along great but i dont think she likes me?

2007-01-16 11:05:59 · 22 answers · asked by Ayyy631 2 in Singles & Dating

what am i suppose to do.. this is a serious question.. my fiance wont stop looking at porn.. its disgusting, internet or tv.. i just had his baby 4 months ago and he has been doing it basically since then thats when i caught him atleast.. it makes me feel like im no adequate enough.. i do the kinkiest things for him in bed to satisfy him and he just wont stop looking at gross things. we have a baby and now things are complicated. we are suppose to get married this yr too.. waht should i do??

2007-01-16 11:05:22 · 14 answers · asked by <3 2 in Singles & Dating

My Grandma is in assisted living. My parents have been visiting her mom dad mom dad mom dad, all the time for about half a year now. I want to make my Grandma happy because my parents have and still are doing so much for her! What can I give or do to my Grandma to help her be happy? I already have these ideas down:
~Make her a card
~Buy her roses
~Visit her
~Draw pictures for her and hang it up in her bedroom

2007-01-16 11:05:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He's 28, how do I break the news to my parents??

2007-01-16 11:05:04 · 8 answers · asked by Damn Dirty Ape 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my best friends seems like he is always coping what i do, he also tells my friends lies about me, He has almost destroyed some relationships with my friends.

How can i get him to stop!!!

2007-01-16 11:02:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

again so what shold i dooo

2007-01-16 11:02:38 · 3 answers · asked by tommy p 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 23 and my hubby is27...We have 7 girl & 2 year old and 8 month old boys. Were wanting 1 more! People say were crazy because kids cost so much these days! we are financially stable, I stay at home while he works, and we love kids!
He has a job that he will be able to retire from with making at least $30 hour. We will have vehicles paid off and gonna build us a house in 2 years! I think we are doing great finanically! no debt to worry about! I just think big families are underated these days! He has a very close family and I want my own to be like that when I'm old! Well What do you think! Serious people only please!!!!

2007-01-16 11:02:25 · 30 answers · asked by Tiffany 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 11:02:21 · 8 answers · asked by sunny2007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We moved in together after only a few weeks of dating- it was a move-in of convienence. Two months later, (and after telling me that he loved me), he says that he can't be anybody's bf because it's "too much pressure."
Now he's dating his ex girlfriend, and he's been sleeping over at her house 5 nights out of the week. We have seperate bdrms now, but we still live together.
He's been seeing her for about two weeks. Yesterday and the day before, we had sex. It was out of the blue the first day, but sort of "planned" the next- you know, teasing and what not lead to sex. We agreed it never would leave the house, but, understandably, I'm upset. I know I have to end it, but how do I do that?
He's having his cake and eating it too. Do I tell his girlfriend that he's still sleeping with me? Do I just end the "after relationship sex" and move on? Do I kick him out?

2007-01-16 11:02:02 · 16 answers · asked by K S 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend on Stardoll, Club Penguin, and e-mail died. She was so nice and funny...

2007-01-16 11:01:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, last year instead of asking out a girl who I liked and who obviously liked me back, I gave into my fears and didn't say anything to her. Its too late to ask her now (we don't talk anymore and she seems to have gone on with her life), but I still feel very guilty and ashamed.

Please don't criticize me for being a coward (I've beaten myself up enough already), but I would greatly appreciate any advice on how to forgive myself and stop hurting. What makes everything worse is that I see this girl every day at school in one of my classes, and so every day I am reminded of how much I miss talking and flirting with her. Has anyone else been in a situation like this? Please help me...

2007-01-16 11:00:55 · 10 answers · asked by deeperthinkker 2 in Singles & Dating

my parents are always calling me names, some examples are, loser, barney, dick head, anti socal, and so on, also they have no resecpt for me, they smoke in my face, walk into my room and snoop when i`m not home, come into my room and take what every they want.

2007-01-16 11:00:48 · 9 answers · asked by horses 2 in Family

I met her at work 3 1/2 months ago. I didn't want a committed relationship, but she caught me completely off guard. She is 19, single mom, independent, strong and motivated. After 3 months of spending a lot of time together outside work, we found ourselves unexpectantly saying "I love you". Even talking about marriage on a serious level. I was about to leave for Texas this past x-mas for college, but stayed and asked her to marry me. She was caught off guard but still very happy, she said she had to think about it. Over the next 2 weeks, I messed up, became suddenly insecure, questioning "us" too often, and one night said I would simply leave if she said "no" and just wanted to date instead of saying yes to a long engagement. Days later, I knew she was going to say "no" and begged for just one chance without the question to just date. She said she doesn't want a man in her life now, but, I sensed something still there. How do I show her I still want and love her but give her her space?

2007-01-16 11:00:44 · 7 answers · asked by K. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is 52 years, and has no problems w/hardness...just NEVER, EVER, tries to have sex!! What's the deal?? I'm foxy! Should I just have an affair?? HELP!! I am depressed! : (

2007-01-16 11:00:16 · 4 answers · asked by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 in Singles & Dating

my mom is mad at my dad and well they argue all the time so ya am tied of hearing it so there argueing right now and am scared to say something with out getting in trouble so what you you people think.

2007-01-16 10:59:55 · 29 answers · asked by Mebre 1 in Family

dating a person with cancer at the moment, but should i marry him? whats my chance of happiness?

2007-01-16 10:59:20 · 24 answers · asked by tostosh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

joe is my bf's son from his 1st marrage.the problem is joe wants consent one on one attention from my bf when he comes to our house,he even has to sleep with joe.joe is fine if he has a freind over to play with but if its just us he makes his dad feel guilty for spending any time with me.his dad can spend 9 hrs straight playing with him(which he does all the time) and then want to sit and talk to me for 15 mins and his son has a fit.he says things like "its my day to be with you i don't like this" i understand this is their "special time" but joe gets to be with dad every other day and weekend and 90% of the time he has his dads full attention. i also join in on games too.i believe the problem in part maybe my bf's exwife.she is very bitter and resentful of the divorce(even after 7yrs,he )and talks badly infront of joe about us.also she consently throws in my bfs face how he abandoned his family.my bf being a good dad feels guilty and gives into joes every wish thus spoiling joe badly.

2007-01-16 10:59:12 · 9 answers · asked by cathy8lucia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

alanas as she has lied about her age saying to people that she is just near your age when she is only 14 and her parents have blocked everyone from talking to her and sent her real age and said sorry would you trust her

2007-01-16 10:58:35 · 12 answers · asked by cat d 1 in Friends

i fell asleep on my girlfriend it was about1 somthing.

2007-01-16 10:58:13 · 13 answers · asked by TA' 1 in Singles & Dating

Why?

2007-01-16 10:56:38 · 27 answers · asked by iloeta1164 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 10:56:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and i mean really feel...as if they were there beside you...


energy is an interest of mine....;0)

2007-01-16 10:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is everyone so mean?

not just on this stie he is talking about in general

2007-01-16 10:55:27 · 5 answers · asked by dreamer 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband would have me over for a candle light dinner when we were first dating. I would get there and find a little table set up in his room with candles, one red rose in a vase, quiet romantic music on and two plates of canned spagetti and 2 tossed salads. I kid you not! I thought it was so sweet cos' he tried but he couldn't cook. What are people's thoughts on this?

2007-01-16 10:55:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating