me as a black women who is in a longterm relationship with a "white man" i do not understand why black men and some black women look at me an my man with hate they roll there eyes at us where ever we go!! i love interacial relationships i have never dated inside my race but i love black men its just not were my heart is i do not date white men for money or because of skin color i truely am in love with my man i hate the fact that some black people will not acept me because of my man is white!! i go on double dates with black men with white women an white men with black women i find it intersting and fun or adventurst to date outside my race why do they have a problem with this?
2007-01-16 11:08:19 · 14 answers · asked by BEAUTYFULL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they have a problem cus they're ignorant. i had that SAME problem. im black n i date white guys. i just like em, i love everybody, but i tend 2 lean towards white men as far as dating goes. i get everything that u talked about. ppl r gonna be ignorant cus they dont know no better! sum dont, but others do n just wanna be ignorant. but i'll tell u this, the best response to ignorance is silence. aint nuthin wrong w/wat ure doing girl. i wish u all da luck n success w/ur relationship cus interracial dating is truly a beautiful thing. if it didnt happen, more than half the world's population wouldnt exist. i love what u're doing, keep t up n good luck w/everything!
2007-01-16 11:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
If black men don't want black women to date white men. Then the white man has a right to stop the black men dating their white women.
2015-08-15 14:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to say you stole a Black man might not be the truth. If you have a Black man that has a self hate image of himself you really have no man at all. Now if he loves his Black women but found you and fell for you then you might have something for Black women to be jeolous of. I do not think Black women hate White women persay. They more often then not blame the Black man for that. I think what might piss them off is a well built Black man who is successful dating an overweight White woman that looks like she was a star on Hee Haw. I think brothers that date the love of their life who happens to be White does not anger Black women as much. They are down with love just not the racial dating that goes on.
2016-03-29 00:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still do see that happening from time to time, but they're just ignorant. But that's usually the older generations. Being born from a interracial marriage, I have to agree with you that it is more interesting. I feel blessed being born that way because I see the world from a different point of view, one less racist person. But don't stop doing what you like doing, hopefully one day it won't be nothing for people to date inter racially.
2007-01-16 11:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by dmo_87 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
actually my husband is white and i am african american,and i have to admit when we first started dating the black men especislly would hate,i mean we both lost most of out friends cause of that,but we love eachother and this march 3rd will be our first year wedding anniversary,we have been together for so long since i was 17 now i am 20.he has helped me through nursing school and i helped him with his mechanics,hes great.i have no problem with other women with black men.i personally can't stnad black men with a passion,i mean ive had bad experiences with them,they can't take rejection,wanna control someone and i won't let no man treat me like a slave.my white man is awesome and as a sista i love looking into his pretty blue eyes and sexually i love the way he looks naked with his big nice **** and cute white butt.i love him also cause he listens and has been the only person that has been by my side,through everything. i love me some white men oh yea baby!!!
2007-01-17 15:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by swirl 2 · 20⤊ 1⤋
i feel you with that .. It is not 1800's we are now in 2007 so for all the people who hate **** u and get over it Life goes out with you judging or not judging someone's realtionship if you in love with whatever color people should not have a problem with that they are probably bored with they life inferring in someone else's just do you Get ur Man and dont let no BODY hold you Back!!!
2007-01-16 11:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because they expect black women to stay in their place.
2014-11-09 11:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jane Doe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am white and was married to a black man. I had the same problem in reverse!!
Everyone stared at us when we were out (white and black). I found the same thing from Black women though. It seemed like they were not just staring, but giving us dirty looks.
You are doing the right thing by just dating the one you love and not worrying about color. There are folks from both races and both sexes that feel we should limit ourselves.
You go girl!
2007-01-16 11:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by CassieKay 2 · 5⤊ 7⤋
don't know. but they have problems. what does it matter? that's about the same as being racist. Sometimes, you just have to ignore people like that & do what you know is right. Good Luck.
2007-01-16 11:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it might not be a racial thing
maybe they are jelous and they want u
but then again your making it a racial thing by excluding a whole race
I mean what do u expect
I'm open to all races so
I guess I don't get it
2007-01-16 11:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by ImaGman 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋