Well, last year instead of asking out a girl who I liked and who obviously liked me back, I gave into my fears and didn't say anything to her. Its too late to ask her now (we don't talk anymore and she seems to have gone on with her life), but I still feel very guilty and ashamed.
Please don't criticize me for being a coward (I've beaten myself up enough already), but I would greatly appreciate any advice on how to forgive myself and stop hurting. What makes everything worse is that I see this girl every day at school in one of my classes, and so every day I am reminded of how much I miss talking and flirting with her. Has anyone else been in a situation like this? Please help me...
2007-01-16 11:00:55 · 10 answers · asked by deeperthinkker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am naturally very shy around girls, and she was my first crush - just to add some perspective.
2007-01-16 11:02:16 · update #1
same here dude, I did the same. Don't worry about it. Try not to think about her too much. it will just cause more guilt. if you end up thinking about her just go for a walk outside or something. don't eat though, that will just cause an eating disorder
hope this helps
2007-01-16 11:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats cute. well as you said you just need to move on. well what i use to do to get over guys, i would get an ugly picture of him and think of all the flaws and bad thing about him. haha. sounds pretty gay but it worked for me. and dont feel guilty..just make sure next time you step up your game. girls like guys with confidence and who arent scared.
2007-01-16 11:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by claireeee (: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, they have medication for that nowadays.
Shyness sucks. You need to talk to a professional before you find yourself sitting down typing. I DID IT AGAIN.
2007-01-16 11:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aawwww thats like sooo cute now tell her all this that you like her and you've beatin urself up for not askin her out and stuff ext. and she'll definitly like you and you'll 2 will go out yyyaaaa you'll lol im serious
2007-01-16 11:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um......is she dating anybody now go talk to her and see if you can be friends again then ask her out and say that you liked her last year and you want to go out with her
2007-01-16 11:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by hoplessly_in_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you still like her that you should start talking to her again.
2007-01-16 11:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by shortie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be her friend. That will help you move on. It will also give you more confidence & courage around other girls.
2007-01-16 11:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some good porn to masturbate to - looks like that is all you will be getting for a while
2007-01-16 11:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by obnoxioustroll5 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her for a second chance
2007-01-16 11:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by stacye5398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new crush
2007-01-16 11:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋