Ok, I've had a crush on a guy that works at this store. Everytime I would go there, he would go out of his way to come to where I was, and he would smile and say bye/hi allthat junky stuff. 2 weeks ago, I finally decided to hand him a note with my number (I know it's kinda childish, but we're in 2007, everything is possible :D) but he never called :( did he lose my number or he was just not interested???
All I wanted was to talk to him, not like I was asking him to marry me LOL Oh and I havent set foot in the store anymore since then :(
2007-01-16 11:23:29 · 31 answers · asked by ?Jaileen? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly it can be several things.
1) Not interested
2) In a relationship
3) Not sure how to break the ice of a first time phone call
4) Possible he lost your number, but not likely if he is interested
I wouldn't hold your breath on this one, but don't take it as rejection. It's good to be the type of person with the courage to make the first move. Best wishes and good luck =)
2007-01-16 11:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by prodius54 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was put off by you making the first move. Maybe he wanted to. Who knows? If I were you I'd go back in the store and see what kind of reaction you get. If he ignores you, then you know he wasn't interested, and you can move on. If he comes and talks to you, say hey, what happened? I thought maybe we could talk or hang out together. Don't just sit around wondering what happened, or what might happen. Go find out. I know it sounds hard, but at least then you'll know for sure.
2007-01-16 19:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by benjis.girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF he wants to talk he'll call if you, if he doesn't call, then he must not be interested. move on. Brave thing to give him your number though. You have to go to the store at least once so that the awkwardness will be over with. and who knows maybe he actually lost your number or something.
another thing is how long has it been since you have him your #? maybe you just need to be a little more patient. don't think about him. if he's interested he'll call.
2007-01-16 19:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Estelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He enjoyed flirting with the girl-customers, but wasn't interested in you for whatever reason. He could be married or seeing someone. He could even be gay.
I run into a lot of flirty guys who basically think the highlight of their boring day at the store is to flirt with girls- it's just fun for them. It's nothing to do with YOU good or bad- he was just messing around. No big deal. Go back to the store and act as though nothing happened- nothing has. If he happens to mention it, say "I knew you were just a big flirt and would be too chicken to call" and laugh it off.
2007-01-16 19:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could go back to the store. Don't approach him though...wait for him to approach you - if he does, he probably misplaced your number. If he doesn't (because he's hiding) then he's being a chicken and you didn't need him anyway. Shame on him for sending mixed signals but good for you for doing out there and giving him your number.
2007-01-16 19:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Krysta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go back in the store and see if he says anything...if he misplaced your number he will definitely ask you for it again, and if not, then you know he wasnt interested and you can carry on about your business, hope this helps
2007-01-16 19:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by Panda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow thats hard to say. sounds like he was interested. I would casually go back in the store (not like a stalker) walk by and see if he notices you and says hi. If it seems he has seen you and doesn't say hi forget the loser...if he comes up to you he may have lost it or been too shy to call.
2007-01-16 19:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by PhoenixRising 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Foolish girl. Why haven't you gone into the store. you encourage him to call you and then you don't go to the store any more. He is probably wondering what you want.
Next time don't give him your phone number. Ask for his
2007-01-16 19:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you go to the store since...If he acts differently, then he got turned off by the act of you being too forward with your number. Or like some guys..he likes the hunt better than the kill...
2007-01-16 19:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by DaveMan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You broke the golden rule...NEVER give your digits to a guy who doesn't ask for it honey...
He could have been into you but YOU hopped up onto the plate and now he has to go hunt for a different meal....
You can go to his store, but just forget about making the first move again..and learn your lesson . K?
2007-01-16 19:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋