my friend is going out with my ex boyfriend, and i still like him ,a d i'm soooo jealous. how do i deal with jealousy, and keep a friend?
2007-01-16 11:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There's an unwritten rule that true friends do not date friends' ex's. I would deal with my jealousy by turning it into energy of finding a new boyfriend. And for that matter dump the friend and find some new ones.
2007-01-16 11:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Oh Wise One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are pretty normal; that is why it is not a good idea to date your friend's ex.
Your friend didn't care much about your friendship, so don't put too much energy into keeping hers. Just be cordial and polite.
And, as others have said, find other things and other people to occupy your time. Make a new friend or two.
Good luck.
2007-01-16 11:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have to be the bigger person, jealousy is a horrible emotion, and life is too short men come a dime a dozen and close friends are hard to find
2007-01-16 11:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something that you're ultimately going to have to deal with yourself. Best advice is keep yourself busy and maybe find someone new. Think about something you have that they don't and hold on to that.
2007-01-16 11:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Preston S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u're jealous because u are still single and realising that he was ur ex-guy, u automatically have the feeling like,"i wanna be atteched..." and that since he was ur ex-guy, u aim for him...its a basic instinct...maybe u ought to get a new guy....
2007-01-16 11:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by sue83jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to both of them tell your friend you still have feelings for
your ex and tell your ex you still have feelings for him
2007-01-16 11:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by musicsweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GEt another man. And get over this guy
2007-01-16 11:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋