2 months ago I got back with my Ex boyfriend (He was my boyfriend for 2 years)
The only reason I got back with him(Brendon) is because I got sick of him bugging me, He was still my friend, one of my bestfriends while we wernt together but he wouldnt stop bugging me about going out with him again. It went on for over a year. So I finally agreed. Meanwhile my bestfriends brother moved in with her and her dad and he(Jayden) is the type of guy that will be obbsessed with a girl for a week or two.. or will just get random "Get togethers" to do things with girls - boyfriend or no boyfriend. He is also best friends with my boyfriend but two days ago that didnt stop us from makingout on his bed.
Today my boyfriend called and wants to hang out. But the point is he is so inexperienced his idea of hanging out is playing soccer or bike riding, We have never even kissed.
I dont know what to do. I sort of like being single.
Jayden told me if i ever wanna get together just to come over. HELP!
2007-01-16 11:16:14 · 4 answers · asked by OhReally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviously you are just with your boyfriend because he talked you into it. You have the right to be single and hang out with whoever you wish and owe brendon nothing. You do not HAVE to be boyfriend/girlfriend with brendon and by the sound of this, you don't even really want to.
I think that you should break up with brendon (don't just cheat on him, break up with him first) and then maybe have some fun with Jayden, but as you've said Jayden isn't looking for anything long term so dont' expect that.
You are young and you don't need a boy that is just going to hold you back and make you annoyed. Dump brendon and look for someone you like.
2007-01-16 11:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't get over it! That's like rape, because if they were holding your boyfriend down, that most likely means that he didn't want to kiss her. Maybe your best friend wanted your boyfriend, and he didn't return her feelings. That's all I can come up with that's even a little bit making sense! I don't understand why your bestie's brother and his gf would hold your bf down. That doesn't even make any sense to me. It's notl a good thing. I don't think you should be mad at your boyfriend, not at all, because he was kiss raped. And you should be really pissed at your best friend, because she not only had a crush on your boyfriend, not only got her brother involved, not only kissed him, not only did it happen behind her back, so MADE him kiss her....and that's just plain wrong. I hope this helps! =]
2016-05-23 22:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The choice is yours not ours...you're the one who's gonna have to be with one of them. Follow your own heart.
2007-01-16 11:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw Guys............... they give you a headache! ( I would go with Jayden)
2007-01-16 11:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Dairy Fairy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋