Do guys really hate it when their gf's sorta forget their own lives and just wanna hang out with u all the time? They sorta stop seeing their own friends as much and always hang out with yours? Do u prefer it when ya girl has a life of her own as well as one with u?
2007-01-16 11:15:48 · 9 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly like it more when they hang out with their friends as much as they hang out with me. I find it annoying when they drop their lives and base their life completely around mine. I also think it's good for a relationship to have that distance away from each other. It can really strangle a relationship when one is constantly clinging onto the other. Because then you never have any 'you' time and you begin to lose who you truely are because your personality has had someone kind of melted into it, instead of glided....
2007-01-16 11:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by Eric K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm NOT a guy. But I would just like to point something out.
How would you feel if you got a new bf and all of a sudden he dropped all his friends and started only hanging out with you and yours? Then he stopped doing all the other things he used to do (the things that made you attracted to him in the first place) and only did things with you; you were together 24-7 and you knew that he no longer had any of his other friends, or any other life outside of you??
I'm sure however you would feel about this is how a man would feel about it too.
2007-01-16 19:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by LaDyLuCk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a girl give me attention, I feel flattered. My ex-wife was too self-centered, focused on herself.... when I thought she had a life and responsibilities our marriage ended, and by that I mean, ended up badly....
So the answer to your question is, no, no I don't like it when she sees me once or twice a week, especially if I am serious about the relationship, I lookforward to know her better everyday... And seeing her and sharing often helps...
2007-01-16 19:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by etherberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, a girl def. needs to have her own life, or you dont get a chance to miss her and ownder what she is doing... She turns into a PITA that is always around.. it gets old
2007-01-16 19:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by ucfmanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to have her own life!
2007-01-16 19:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i go out with someone i like them for who they are in the begenning- not who they try to make themselves to impressthem i would take my life back- not just have it controled so that all you think about is the guy
2007-01-16 19:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a drag when I can't "be a guy with the guys", but to be totally honest, when a chick does that, it makes me think;
"have I f'd up recently"
"is she f'n up behind my back"
"is something the matter w/her?"
and about a zillion other things. hopefully you get the picture.
if not, date me, annoy me (slightly, please), and then we can HIOB
2007-01-16 19:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Keyser S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i pro fer her to have her friends and to enjoy her self with them as well as me just because were together doesn't mean we forget every one that got us there
2007-01-16 19:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by auzzie_bloke21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
independence and self reliance in girls is really sexy
2007-01-16 19:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by RUSSELL J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋