My long term partner recently broke all ties with me. He was very romantic and treated my with respect- He proposed and we were looking at buying our very first house together. However, just before christmas i had very important university exams and thats when he decided to end the relationship over the phone. I phoned him, i text him and i even wrote him a letter. We spoke once and i did not get the closure i needed-he still loved me.I did not hear from him for 3 months even though we live very close to each other.Until one weekend i recieved an email - explaining why he wanted to split and the stated words "...just thought it was better for us both to leave it and keep out of the way. There is only one thing harder than forgetting the past. Its moving on......and i will never be able to forget the past and i dont want to either and whenever i see you i will always have a smile to give you!". I have not replied-i later found out that he had been trying to contact my family aswell.
2007-01-16 11:08:37 · 7 answers · asked by xXSWEETIEXx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he probably found a new girl, and she wasn't what he was looking for, so he dicided to go back to you if i were you i would not go back
2007-01-16 11:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was the reason he gave reasonable? Did it add up for you? Does it make sense to you? Did you buy it? Did you believe it? What ever ?s you had, go with your first instinct. If the answers to all that above is NO, then he screwed up! If he really wants you back, he will need to work harder to prove him self. He did not respect/love you enough to break up w/u in person and how is he going to win your trust back? By sending an email and wait to see you how your respond would be? I would not reply if I was you. And so what if he has been trying to contact your family; what does that proves? Fool you once, shame on him. But if you allow him to fool you twice then shame on you!
Good luck!
2007-01-16 19:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by red lips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, what was his reason for breaking up in the first place? You have to tell me what he said when he called you or I can't help. But I'm really good at these things, so let me know and I'm sure I can be off assistance...or email me if you don't wanna say it all on here.
2007-01-16 19:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by LaDyLuCk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's having second thoughts. His intentions are to get back together with you. You could give him a second chance, but know this. IF he does this again, you'll only have yourself to blame.
2007-01-16 19:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people make mistakes, but are you willing to take the chance of him hurting you again and having to start the whole healing process all over
2007-01-16 19:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by abzillamonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not forgive too easily..he left you once and will do it again.. move on with your life and find someone who will give you the trust and care that you need.
2007-01-16 19:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very strange...maybe u should write back and ask him what his intentions are and what he wants from you, i.e friendship or more
2007-01-16 19:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋