I was friends with this girl for almost 13 years and we were so close. It was just me and her, the best of best of friends. Nothing could seperate us. Then some time passed and she started talking to my brother who treated her like a queen and she made a few more new friends. All of sudden our friendship started falling apart piece by piece. She wanted to be around her new friends and she started turning her back on me. When all her new friends were doing was using her and she act as if she couldn't see that. She practically was just like f*** you *****. Now her so-called friends are fading away and my brother dumped her ; now she says she wants to be friends again and she misses our friendship. What should I do?
2007-01-16 11:08:36 · 4 answers · asked by Cand Apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't do it. I'm not telling you to be a B****, but I had a friend like that, she was my best friend. She was smart, interactive, great. She had some problems though...
She couldn't be happy for other's success but her own. Also she lied a lot and made people around us suffer. I was ok with that, as long as it didn't affect me. But I should've seen it coming. Loving to hurt people around her, I should've realised that she will do it to me as well.
She sent me a threatening letter, and I simply refused to believe it was her. I had all the proofs is front of my eeys, and I still couldn't believe. When I was 100% certain, I confronted her, and she denied it! Currently she still denies it. She tried to speak to me but I turned my back at her.
That's how deceiving friends are.
Just how she left you once for her new antourage, she will do it again, because it's in her blood. You can't change someone whenever you want to, unfortunately. I don't think that she was your only friend, but if she was, you could forgive her. If not, let her be in her own world with her oiwn friends.
2007-01-16 23:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to be friends with her like you were before, then go for it. But if you were hurt by what she did, make sure she knows. Let her know that things can not be the same and you should go do your own thing too. You dont want it to seem like you have been waiting in the shadows for her to come back and give you the attention that you need. If you just crawl back to her and act as if nothing happened, you are going to seem like the bi*ch in the friendship. The same way you said her friends were taking advantage of her, you dont want her to do the same thing to you.
2007-01-16 19:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't don't don't be friends again! She's the type that blows with the wind. She's very codependent and it doesn't matter if her new friends use her for awhile. Eventually it gets bad enough that the new friends fade away, but she'll do it again because she always has to have the flavor of the week. She's a bad risk. She'll hurt you over and over.
2007-01-16 19:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by Oh Wise One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, its kind of like.. hmm.. she wanted to try something mew and it didn't work for her and now shes crawling back to u. Say ," why do you wanna be friends now? u'd rather go with ur new friends than wit me and now you wanna be my BBF? Nope, sould've thought about it" (tell her like it is!)
2007-01-16 19:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by monkey#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋