Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

Why do i get nervous about everything?
i honestly dont get it. i get nervous about talking in front of the class but like i kno i shouldnt be nervous but i am. i get nervous for basketball games,softball games. I dont know whats in my. my mom said its normal to be nervous like that but its to the point where i get(diarea) every time i get nervous. and i get nervous about stupid things all the time!
i have a speech to read infront of the class in 2 days. and i've been nervous for like 5 days. somethings wrong with my nervous system. my friends aren't like this. Its not seomthing that EVERY1 gets becuase its been like this for 4 years i'd say? i will just get sick and sick but i kno its something that i can ace!
what do u think?

2007-01-15 14:30:22 · 14 answers · asked by :D summertimeee! 1 in Singles & Dating

because he wants to be alone during computer time? He says its cuz he needs alone time but ive caught him on Find a mate places and one time he was looking for his old girlfriend.

2007-01-15 14:29:51 · 26 answers · asked by Crissy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 14:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by notre1842dame 4 in Family

Thats seems to be the only kind of man I attract lately. I just don't understand it. If I get married it will be for love and life. I could never cheat.

Why are there so many men out there who are willing to cheat on their wife and kids? Do they not think of the consequences?

2007-01-15 14:29:29 · 11 answers · asked by Say What? 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok well i went out with a girl for seven months. We had a nasty break up, and i hate her but i dont want her to have somebody and i cant get over the fact that shes out partying and i dont have anybody. So my point: is it bad to have a rebound girlfriend?

2007-01-15 14:28:51 · 27 answers · asked by Tommy T 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is about 11 or 15 years older then him..he has gone to back to mexico and all he is doing spending mad amounts of money to mexico..she ..My friend has help get his man his paper..he supports her very little..the family who lives in mexico lives like kings and queen for all this American money..My friend lives like she is homeless.What are her options..If she tells imigration..she thinks he married her for his paper..she'll be in trouble..what to do?? He gives her nothing..She lives like she is in a 3rd world country..NOT america, where she thought she found someone who loves her for who she is...NOT what she could give him and his family only..Please any advise??

2007-01-15 14:27:21 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am scared of commitment to the point I wont even allow a steady relationship to happen. What can I do ? please help!

2007-01-15 14:27:21 · 6 answers · asked by Lindsay H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 14:26:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do now

2007-01-15 14:26:26 · 7 answers · asked by godsgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My new bf calls me everyday so we can talk. Last night when he called me, he was with his friend. So, I told him he should spend time with her, instead of calling me (no jealousy or anything). He really got offended and hung up on me.

In my opinion, when he is spending time with his friends or family, that is the time for them. I think he should've called me when he was available to me. I don't see why he got offended. Anybody have an idea?

2007-01-15 14:26:08 · 4 answers · asked by Sweetie 3 in Singles & Dating

A girl friend of mine had been dating a guy for about 1 month. They had never been intimate other than kissing. He seemed to be really into her and she was liking him. One day last week, he spent the night but she says they didn't touch or have sex at all. She told me she was just going to take things slow and they just talked and she went to sleep in his arms. She said they woke up the next day and he acted normal but he never called her again. Today, she called me crying because she hadn't heard from him in over a week and he is not returning her calls. I've never had this happen to me and I'm not sure why he is doing this to her because he seemed like a decent guy, he is in his mid 30's so he doesn't seem like he was into games and he seemed like would appreciate a respectful woman but just from how he is treating her, maybe I'm wrong. What do you think?

2007-01-15 14:25:16 · 10 answers · asked by chocolatebabycakes 4 in Singles & Dating

For those of you who don't know, World of Warcraft is a computer game.

My friend spends every waking moment, he is sleep deprived, playing this game. It controls his life. It seems like a drug. He values it over his girlfriend, and we used to be best friends and we barely talk any more. Any suggestions?

2007-01-15 14:24:23 · 11 answers · asked by hpascare 2 in Friends

ok so here's the deal.. i'm 16. he's 19. we liked eachother and all that and so one day we were hanging out and he kissed me. then a little later i found out about his girlfriend from one of his co-workers. so i went and talked to him about it and he told me that she was cheating on him so that's why he kissed me.. so my question is this... what do i do now. i still feel really bad that he cheated on her with me.. does the fact that she cheated on him make it ok for him to cheat on her?? and this has happened to me before. do i forgive him or call it quits. i'm so confused. ayudame, por favor.

2007-01-15 14:24:16 · 16 answers · asked by got2volley 1 in Singles & Dating

So this Girl i like, and have liked for a while says i can ask her 5 questions of any kind. ive got a couple but im running out of good questions.

By the Way
- She Knows i like her
- And weve gotten past the basics (fav music, etc.,etc)

2007-01-15 14:24:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 11 and want to go out with a 13 yr old? is that wrong? he likes me too, but he's supposed to be in 8th grade while im in 6th grade.

2007-01-15 14:23:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am Manila based and planning to get married in Virginia because of my FH. It is hard enough to plan a wedding, much more to plan overseas. Please, if you have any catering contacts in Virginia, I would gladly appreaciate it.

2007-01-15 14:23:05 · 5 answers · asked by HiddenField 1 in Weddings

Also, what was the kindest most generous thing she ever did or said to you?

2007-01-15 14:22:54 · 14 answers · asked by deirdrefaith 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't understand how people can have casual sex with people they are not even dating and feel okay about it.

How can guys (and girls I suppose) so easily do this, without feeling guilt about treating another individual as a sex object, without having actual feelings for that person? Guys??

2007-01-15 14:22:36 · 42 answers · asked by faithinaction1465 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a crush on a guy at work and after a few weeks I found out that he is gay! He found out that I liked him and we kinda became friends and we just talked off and on, Recently we hung out for the first time and I had so much fun! We didn't really talk all that much in the short time we were together, But I felt like we finally bonded a little bit and became closer friends. When he left he was talking about coming back to hang out when he had more time and even left food here for "next time".. He hasn't talked to me much since then except for things that are work related and I tried calling him and he didn't answer.. When I try to talk to him about what his problem is, but he claims there isn't a problem. i know there is something going on. He really avoided me the other night and I was upset and vowed to myself that I just didn't care about him anymore, but after seeing him again tonight I know that I do care and I'm not sure how to handle that. should I tell Him?

2007-01-15 14:22:23 · 2 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy had sex for the first time together. he was not a virgin, but i was. he knew before we had sex that i was a virgin. however, the first time we had sex together he did not speak much at all. the second time we had sex together, he treated me like it was my first time. he even said to me "you said you were a virgin right"..and i said "do you remember what happened the other night?" and he said "yes, we had sex."..so it's not like he forgot, so maybe he was asking to double check that i had been a virgin before i was with him. anyhow, the second time he was really caring, and physically helpful, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and told me to tell him when to stop, and if he was hurting me

2007-01-15 14:22:14 · 2 answers · asked by jennifer a 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, my husband basically told me today that he wants to have an "open" relationship. My best friend is going through a tough time with her sex life and "just needs great sex." I've already agreed to the three of us getting together and having a little fun as long as her husband agrees (we are all very open), but my husband thinks she needs a night where it's all about her and what she wants and he wants to be the one to give her this night so she doesn't go out and get it from somebody she doesn't even know. He told me that if I let him do this I can have sex with any guy I want as long as it's somebody we know, or I can have one of the vices that I had given up for our marriage, like pot. I don't know what to do. We have always been very open and while I'm open to new and exciting sexual experiences, I'm not sure I can handle my husband having sex with my very best of friends. Can anyone give me some advice?

2007-01-15 14:22:12 · 11 answers · asked by Meg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The hair, the look, the figure, the clothes, the face, the smile, OK guys you tell me what it takes to make you spin your head for a second look...and you ladies tell me what you thinks will make a guy give you a second look

2007-01-15 14:21:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heyy i REALLY like this guy. but i dont know if he likes me. im pretty sure he does but idk. he is a good guy but w/ a little bad boy in him. and i normally go for the TOTAL bad boys but i like him for some reason. please please PLEASE help me!
ps: he flirts w/me and calls meby my last name. and sometimes i just see him staring at me(not in a creepy way but a liking sort of way).

2007-01-15 14:20:51 · 8 answers · asked by whitney 1 in Singles & Dating

If you where in a relationship with someone that you truly loved & cared about but yet & still you still felt unfulfilled & you met someone that you where attracted to & they respected the the fact that you had a Gf or Bf and was okay with it but still would mess with you would you cheat even knowing that theres a possibility that your partner would find out?

2007-01-15 14:20:31 · 48 answers · asked by Slim504 2 in Singles & Dating

What I see in a girl is their voice and their personality. My friends say it's wierd is it?

2007-01-15 14:19:54 · 8 answers · asked by ooh-taay 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 14:19:42 · 14 answers · asked by sexy mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I have been dating this guy for three weeks. We get along pretty well, although we have not spent as much time together as I would like(his fault). Most of the time he is hanging with his friends. The other day he told me that he needed a ride to school because his car broke down. He says that he has no friends or family that can help him because none of them have a car or any money. His school is about 45 minutes away. Was it mean to tell him no. I figured he is not my boyfriend, I havent known him that long, and the weather is really bad. I kinda feel bad because he doesnt really have anyone.

2007-01-15 14:19:27 · 26 answers · asked by ImAGoodGirl0605 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel i really like this boy..and we been going together for 15 days and i feel wrong and all because he went with my friend and he says he really like me wat should i do?

2007-01-15 14:19:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a question for the men. When you meet a pretty girl for the first time, you click pretty well, and she gives you her phone number, how long does it take for you to call her back, and why?

I'm in this situation right now (not that I consider myself a pretty girl), and I gave my phone number to him (we didn't really JUST meet, it was over a progression of three days at a music festival) Saturday night. He asked me when I was free. Being honest (but probably stupid) I told him that I was very busy with my dance classes. It has been two days now, and he hasn't called. Is this a bad sign?

2007-01-15 14:18:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am irish & cherokee hair to my butt , green eyes and have been married 22 years. My husband lets me dress as I please, he doesnt mind when men look (much). But if 1 stares too long or looks me up & down he gets man. And heaven forbid if they comment he goes nuts...what's with this?

2007-01-15 14:18:00 · 22 answers · asked by earthangel_candy 4 in Marriage & Divorce