I had a crush on a guy at work and after a few weeks I found out that he is gay! He found out that I liked him and we kinda became friends and we just talked off and on, Recently we hung out for the first time and I had so much fun! We didn't really talk all that much in the short time we were together, But I felt like we finally bonded a little bit and became closer friends. When he left he was talking about coming back to hang out when he had more time and even left food here for "next time".. He hasn't talked to me much since then except for things that are work related and I tried calling him and he didn't answer.. When I try to talk to him about what his problem is, but he claims there isn't a problem. i know there is something going on. He really avoided me the other night and I was upset and vowed to myself that I just didn't care about him anymore, but after seeing him again tonight I know that I do care and I'm not sure how to handle that. should I tell Him?
2007-01-15 14:22:23 · 2 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow...sorry. You are in a no-win situation. Sounds like it won't go past friends if that.
2007-01-15 14:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You prob need to not hang out with him outside of work for a while,til u find someone else to like and go out with. Just cause u find out hes gay doesnt mean u are gonna stop liking him straight away as much as that sucks but he could well become a really good friend.
2007-01-15 14:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋