Thats seems to be the only kind of man I attract lately. I just don't understand it. If I get married it will be for love and life. I could never cheat.
Why are there so many men out there who are willing to cheat on their wife and kids? Do they not think of the consequences?
2007-01-15 14:29:29 · 11 answers · asked by Say What? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firstly not all married or committed men cheat. However, those who do go astray do so for similar reasons as women.
A long term committed relationship can bring drudgery. Ideally one would work hard in a relationship to ensure that this does not occur. For those who opt for the easy way out a fling can bring a bit of excitemet to one's life. For a brief period of time one can feel wanted, sexy, adventurous. There is no talk re the kids the bills and day to day chores of a marriage. It is simply about you and them. The sex is new, that too can be exciting, they might find a more adventurous partner etc.
There is no fear of committment (he cant he is already married) ideally they will go with someone with the same thing in mind wham bam thank you mam.
For a short spurt of liberation the consequences are indeed huge. It is quite sad that this desire is quite common and that it occurs quite often. Men hear of disasterous one night stands meaning they hear of the consequences but have this die hard attitude that they wont get caught. Living a lie forever after is hard as well.
It is good to see you committed to your future, don't fret no all men out there are womanisers
2007-01-15 14:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of them don't think of the consequences. They cheat because they are selfish. Some of them just want to see if they "still got it".
Nevertheless... there's not a good reason to cheat. No one is stuck to anyone else, or joined at the hip... so they should just leave their wife, if she no longer interests him.
So many men think they are doing their wife a service by cheating instead of leaving. Men don't like a lot of drama... so they rather cheat then deal with the real issues.
2007-01-15 14:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because people jump into things and don't understand their consequences. They get married and have kids. And instead of doing the right thing and getting divorced and saving the kids the life of constant arguing and such, they stay together. The men look to cheat as the wives have no time to because they're watching kids. I agree with you though, marriage should be for love and life.
2007-01-15 14:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by Modus Operandi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just to coach how stat could be deceptive, assume there are 5 adult males, A, B, C, D, and E. all of them get married. B, C, D, and E stay dedicated and married. guy A gets married 4 cases and is divorced 4 cases. 2 cases for procuring caught cheating. the only spouse in no way knew he exchange into cheating. This difficulty could fulfill your stats, different than the final line. There are 8 marriages with 4 divorces. of direction, all of the cheating and divorces come from one guy.
2016-10-31 05:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't think with their head on their shoulders...
Now, why are you going out there and flirting with married men? They are human beings with human failings. They are not made of stone. I am a married man. If I had a hot young girl coming on to me I'd have a very difficult time keeping my composure.
Instead of wondering why married men would yield to such a temptress, you should ask yourself why you are doing it in the first place. Don't put all the blame on them if you are giving them ideas.
You attract what you want to attract. Deep down you don't think you deserve a great guy so subconsiously you go after men you either can't have or would make your life miserable one way or another.
2007-01-15 14:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question. If you get the answer then you will make millions.
What I can say is that mums are tired. We put on weight when we have our kids, and if we put our kids first then we don't have time to excercise the way we once did. Men often get out more so I guess they have the opportunity while there wives are at home caring for there children.
If he cheats on her, he WILL cheat on you.
2007-01-15 14:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married and I don't cheat although the idea has crossed my mind about cheating on my girlfriend. The trouble is if I lie about things too much I'll forget what I lied about. Besides I love her and would never cheat.
2007-01-15 14:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My uncle and dad say it's because often the wife stops putting out like she did when dating, and they don't stop wanting it. Also some say it's against the nature of humans to "mate for life" and it's natural for men to look for strange, but I don't know if that's just a excuse. Besided men never stop liking the looks of young women even as them and the ir wife get older.
2007-01-15 14:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men cheat because their wives let themselves go and they forget how important sex is in a relationship. Men cheat because they are not satisfied at home. This is usually the women's fault because for some reason, they think that after they get married, sex is not important anymore. They get fat and lazy too, and they just aren't that sexy anymore.
2007-01-15 14:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do married women cheat? its all sex to them, nothing else matters..........am i saying married men are allowed.....oh hell no...i am a married feller and have been for 12 year, never have cheated, never willl, dont wanna and you can not invite me to, wife does everything a whore can do, so why bother with one...love my wife and would never disgrace her.
2007-01-15 14:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by phishsports 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋