Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

Maybe it's stupid. i'm 21 but acting like a little kid. i've been with this guy for three months and we (mostly he) decided to become just friends. well, we still slept together after that but then i called him twice the other week and then decided that i won't call him anymoe, if he wants he'll call. well...he's not calling. i miss him but know that if we should just be friends it's probably the best for me that i don't talk to him. i really would like to hear from him though. should i just call him. wuld i be forcing myself on him?

2007-01-15 15:10:30 · 20 answers · asked by maya 4 in Singles & Dating

Today it was 30 F but it was drizzling....like freezing rain and the wind was blowing very strong...so it felt like 27 F.... me and my boyfriend decided to play a dare game...we were in the car and we let the windows open to see how much we could last in the cold., we lasted fifteen minutes...we were driving around and we got really cold ffor 15minss....what could happen to our bodies? if we would of stayed longer? i know aboput hypothermia and eevrything but can anyone describe me how it happens thanksssssssssss

2007-01-15 15:09:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughter is 21 yrs old very smart. her boyfriend is a dumbass pretty boy. i really dont like him i knew his dad and grandfather bothof them were involved in mafia things. and this guy is no different. he bulls people to to try to make things right. when he was 14 he beat up a grown man by pulling his hair and bashing his head against the ally walls.
my daughter says hes a really sweet guy and that i should get to know him. but how am i supposed to get to know him if he doesnt talk ?
one time my daughter dragged him over whne she visited and his sister ended up getting dragged by him. and in the kictchin he and his sister got into a slap fight ( it was acttuly funny and) then just stoped fighting after my wife told them that there were some cookies in the dinning room if they wanted some. and they pushed me out of the way.hes perfectly fine with talking to my wife and every one esle but he just gives me this cold look.
how am i supposed to get to know him if he wont talk to me ?

2007-01-15 15:07:37 · 29 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 15:06:46 · 6 answers · asked by Becky O 1 in Friends

It isn't a personal question, but I'm curious.

For minor conflicts or arguments that leave you feeling angry/frustrated/embarassed, if your wife or girlfriend wants to have sex as a form of apology, is that enough for you to forgive them?

2007-01-15 15:06:15 · 9 answers · asked by Taryn 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in almost all of his courses and hang out with him all the time, but mostly as a group. I remember him saying once that he likes it when the girl makes the first move but i'm terrified he doesn't feel the same way. I'm enjoying what we have now but want to know if there is more. Just a side note, i'm a christian so it's not like i'm going to throw myself at him to get his attention. I want an answer that is reasonable and won't end our friendship.

2007-01-15 15:06:03 · 11 answers · asked by <3-samantha 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my partner for seven years now and his mother is still trying to get me out of his life we hav two boys together and she favours the eldest,as she considers the second a mistake she has told me i will only ever be the mother of her sons kids and nothing to the rest of the family how do i solve this so evry1is happy???i cant take anymore plz help!!!

2007-01-15 15:06:01 · 25 answers · asked by tamara0405 1 in Family

I bet you cant do this, because only 1 in 30 people ever can.

I dare you to tell the person who posted this bulletin the absolute truth of how you feel about them.I mean EVERYTHING that you think about them. Just do it. Sent it in a private message and then if you have the guts, repost the question and see what people think of you.

Repost if you feel you can handle the truth!

2007-01-15 15:04:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 15:04:42 · 6 answers · asked by brnhaven1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 15:04:06 · 4 answers · asked by cutiepie81289 7 in Singles & Dating

I have two best friends. Let's just say their names are Ann and Sarah.
Ann and Sarah are closer to each other than with me. They have their own sleepovers without me (they even ask each other in front of my face), go to the mall without me and go to each other's houses every Saturday.
Once, Sarah went on a vacation and Ann actually asked to go over to my house once. And that was the only time. They hang out with each a lot more, and sometimes even ignore me completly. They call me their best friend, but I don't feel like it. I can't make other friends, as our school's cliques are strong and bonded.

But help! WHAT SHOULD I DO??????? I hate being the third wheel.

2007-01-15 15:03:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

that are pretty without wearing makeup

or pretty with makeup on.

basically do you like natural or girly?

2007-01-15 15:03:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a toddler entering the "terrible 2s" and he doesn't seem to obey my orders, I tell him you're grounded your going to the crib, and that seems to be working so far, so after that he behaves better for a while. But I'm moving and can't take the crib, Where or what is the best place to send him to think about what he did? the stairs? a corner? PLEASE HELP!

2007-01-15 15:03:01 · 4 answers · asked by Alexandrarc 3 in Family

I'm a bifemale and i've been flirting wthis girl in my class. I don't know if the girl is straight or not, but she's def. not the shy type. During a class demonstration, the students all gathered near the teacher looking at what she was doing. I smiled at my crush and I think she saw me. When i had my head turned away from her, I noticed she was smiling at me. Could this mean something. Also, she was being rather freindly wthis cute girl in my class, so i might have some tough competition.

2007-01-15 15:02:40 · 1 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

he's 16 and we're buddy's, but he recently started dating a girl who is 13.

it's kinda....wierd

is that alright?

2007-01-15 15:02:06 · 27 answers · asked by Brian is weird 3 in Singles & Dating

ok well this girl that goes to my school. Me and her friends are pretty close and we talk a lot, but for some reason, this girl never ever try talking to me or even say hi. When i pass her in the hall she just keeps on walking with her head down, or if i was with one of my friends, she would talk to them...
wats with her, does she hate me or something

2007-01-15 15:01:53 · 7 answers · asked by o.o 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive only had sex 5 times, but i never "get there"..Why? I've "done it myself" and i always get there, so why not when im having sex? Will i eventually? Is there something I have to do different?

2007-01-15 15:01:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i think my girlfriend wants to break up becuase she has changed all of her stuff on myspace and im not even on her top 8. i want to know how i should go about asking her if she wants to break up and if so how should i go about doing it. thanks

2007-01-15 15:00:50 · 15 answers · asked by superstuddly 1 in Singles & Dating

the neighbors upstairs are very very loud. They yell and stomp and fight every single day.. and some days.. all day. I once asked them to be quiet, and they got mad at me. So since then the landlord has given them 2 written warnings... They are still very distupitve, almost daily. Since we botha have leases, I can't move, and tecniquiely they can't get evicted. I am now pregnant and homronal...

I am finding that I get very very angry. They fight and scream and yell and stomp. My happy, peaceful home is filled with someone elses out of control screaming every single day. My nerves are worn. I feel such rage when they go at it again... It is just fraying my nerves. At first I laughed about it. But it is wearing me down.. Am I overreacting?

2007-01-15 15:00:48 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i wish not but i think i can't fight the truth.

2007-01-15 15:00:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Maybe it's stupid. i'm 21 but acting like a little kid. i've been with this guy for three months and we (mostly he) decided to become just friends. well, we still slept together after that but then i called him twice the other week and then decided that i won't call him anymoe, if he wants he'll call. well...he's not calling. i miss him but know that if we should just be friends it's probably the best for me that i don't talk to him. i really would like to hear from him though. should i just call him. wuld i be forcing myself on him?

2007-01-15 15:00:21 · 5 answers · asked by maya 4 in Singles & Dating

wat do you do when you like a girl and you wont to know if she likes you?

besides asking her out.

and wat do you do when you like a girl?

2007-01-15 14:59:59 · 2 answers · asked by nobody 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 13 and i like a girl and i am pritty sure she likes me she has been giving off cluse for a wile and her friend started to tell untill she got stoped by the girl that i like so how should i ask her out.

2007-01-15 14:59:32 · 11 answers · asked by Brandon b 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you have any regrets about doing it this way? I am considering just going to Hawaii and getting married on the beach with my sweetie... I wish friends and family could come... but no one will really be able to. I would prefer a simple deal... and I like the idea of a sunset beach ceremony. We've been together for a long time and I've just never been into the whole big wedding thing anyway. What do you think?

2007-01-15 14:58:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What are some optional items i can bring to basic training ie. address book?

for instance do i bring envelopes and paper to write letters home or can i get them at the px? and what about stamps do i need those or what?

2007-01-15 14:58:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I live very far away form her. so I have to ship the gift.

2007-01-15 14:58:10 · 10 answers · asked by moon prince 2 in Weddings

My Fiance and i are planning to get married feb. 14 2009. Is that tacky....i love the idea....what color combinations would be good other than red and pink.

2007-01-15 14:58:08 · 31 answers · asked by krmzjt21 2 in Weddings

I want to be able to ask my boyfriend what his honest opinion is of me, but I have a feeling that maybe I might not be able to stomach it. I know I'll ask anyways, but how do I deal with the feeling of being inadequate, if thats the way you would put? How do I accept his opinion which has a chance to be damaging to my feelings? I know it may be "just an opinion" but his opinion counts to me.

2007-01-15 14:57:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there's this guy, and at one point we were the best of friends, but he changed and eventually started thinking of me as some form of a whore/slut or w/e. I told him to just buzz off and I cut off all ties with him, but a few days later i get calls from his friends saying INTERESTING things to me about stuff i just don't want to hear especially from guys i hardly know. I call him and tell him to stop telling his friends the things he's telling them. Eventually all communication stops, and we just arent friends anymore. Now it's three months after the last time i talked to him and he's trying to get communication started through my younger sister. What do I do? He wants to talk to me but I'm tired of being hurt. I just don't think someone could change and if he has changed how do I know he won't go back to what he used to be? Anyone have help for me?

2007-01-15 14:57:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are separated and have been for 3 months. During our marriage he always "checked up" on me. He would call me from work to see where I was, what I was doing, and who I was with. If he got home from work and I wasn't home he would check with our neighbors to see if they'd seen me. Now he is over 800 miles away from me and calls my place of work to see what my hours are, he calls my cell or text's me constantly while I'm at work, If I don't answer he calls my house. Now he has started calling my friends and family to see who I hang out with, what I do, and where I go when I'm not working. I have nothing to hide but it really scares me. I feel so violated. What can I do to stop him from trying to find out what I am doing every minute of every day?

2007-01-15 14:56:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce