HELP NEEDED! What to do when you're the third wheel?

Question

I have two best friends. Let's just say their names are Ann and Sarah.
Ann and Sarah are closer to each other than with me. They have their own sleepovers without me (they even ask each other in front of my face), go to the mall without me and go to each other's houses every Saturday.
Once, Sarah went on a vacation and Ann actually asked to go over to my house once. And that was the only time. They hang out with each a lot more, and sometimes even ignore me completly. They call me their best friend, but I don't feel like it. I can't make other friends, as our school's cliques are strong and bonded.

But help! WHAT SHOULD I DO??????? I hate being the third wheel.

Answer 1

it is ok for them to be closer to each other i had a friend like that before she died but its not ok for them to treat you this way a friend doesnt do that. we had other friends also but when around them we always included them in everything. we also did things together only us but we didnt flaunt it. these girls are not your friends sweety and i know you can do better. if they treat you this way to your face what do they do behind your back?

Answer 2

First of all, there's no such thing as two "best" friends. The "best" is always reserved for one and only one. Secondly, if this is the best you can do for best friends, then it's time to reevaluate your relationships with them and possibly think about writing them off. It seems to me it'd be better to be alone than to hang with girls that treat you like you don't exist. Thirdly, keep your head up and be yourself. It may not happen tomorrow, but I guarantee that if you do this, you will eventually have tons of friends. Good luck!

Answer 3

maybe you ask yourself, are they really your best friends? if they are, they really shouldn't treat you like this...

Answer 4

your friends aren't acting like good chicas... tell them how you feel