Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

Instead of speaking calmly during a problem he yells at me. i ask him nicely to please dont yell but he gets more and more worked up. Lately he is saying nasty things too like "you are not the brightest crayon in the box" then when he saw how much it upset me he apologised. but there has been more incidents since. My question is how can we overcome this?

2007-01-15 14:56:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know we girls are not sex addicted but i want to know about guys (:

2007-01-15 14:56:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come if a young lady is (say over 18y/o) n still is a virgin, guys will either reject them or act very strange about the situation, like it is some kind of disease?

2007-01-15 14:56:15 · 7 answers · asked by Ti-Ti 1 in Singles & Dating

http://TheBadDate.com

2007-01-15 14:55:37 · 8 answers · asked by bllwnkle 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had known someone since they were 15 and now they were 35 and were getting an assortment of wrinkles would you still be attracted to them or would it be a turn off?Also if a man loves a woman is it possible for him to lose his attraction because of his wifes wrinkles .

2007-01-15 14:54:43 · 15 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5 in Friends

He is 17..she is 18. She wants child support from him but doesn't want to share child 50/50 after it is born Stated she will leave state so he can't find her and have access to child. Can he stop her so she doesn't leave and he have no relationship with child? Will the courts require her to stay or give accurate address so he can execute his parental right after baby is born? It seems unfair if she can just leave so he cannot be father to child. I know if the baby was born the courts could stop her but what if she is just pregnant?

2007-01-15 14:54:41 · 9 answers · asked by Samrnmom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have strong feelings for someone who seems to be into me but isn't pursuing anything. He shows interest when occasionally in my presence but is not really a part of my life. I date other people but keep hoping that he will come around. Does this ever happen or am I wasting my time?

2007-01-15 14:53:50 · 4 answers · asked by sosickofred 3 in Singles & Dating

Ive only had sex 5 times, but i never "get there"..Why? I've "done it myself" and i always get there, so why not when im having sex? Will i eventually? Is there something I have to do different?

2007-01-15 14:53:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if the other dude deserves it...

2007-01-15 14:53:10 · 26 answers · asked by The Don 1 in Singles & Dating

guys that can dance is a real turn on.

2007-01-15 14:51:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can u love yourself when anyone doesn't think you are attractive, worthy, or have anythin to offer? I come to hate myself, my life and I blame God because he is the one got me here and lookin the way I do. I can't control people or what they think, but damn I don't wanna live if I gotta live like this. Please help me before I go crazy.

2007-01-15 14:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by aries19768 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I earlier asked a similar question, but wanted to clarify. I am 45 years old with a son who is 11 living at home. My son was abandoned by his father 3 years ago and he has not seen or heard from him since (nor have I, hence the divorce). I have older daughters who live on their own.
I work a full-time + job and am limited with the amount of time I have to meet men. I just want to try to concentrate my efforts in a place that might be the most fruitful without going to bars.
I also belong to a church with an older population, so that really isn't an option either. I am an independent woman, so I am not looking for someone who is trying to find a mother for themselves or someone to support them. I prefer someone who is equally independent and would like to go to a movie occasionally or to dinner, and who won't exclude my son.

Where are good places for people like me to look for a companion (or more)?

2007-01-15 14:51:08 · 16 answers · asked by daddysnurse 5 in Singles & Dating

im 16. ive been with my gf for a year and 2 months now. yes i was the one who posted that one question. we dont know what we should bc we cant trust eachother bc we both did stuff we shouldnt of done. i cant say what they are but yeah.. shes tired of fighting and making up the next day bc i never do anything. help

2007-01-15 14:50:21 · 8 answers · asked by slipknotfreak98987 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is the situation. My husband has been friends with his best friend since elementary school and he is a great guy, he is my friend also. I will call him Jim. Jim hasn't had good luck with females his entire life but fortunately met "the one" about a year ago and they are getting married this summer. This is wonderful and we are happy for him but his behavior has changed ever since he began seeing this girl and not for the better. He has always been a great friend to us and would never say a hurtful word to anyone but now he blows all his friends off for his fiance and has become very self-absorbed. My husband and I moved about 4 hours away last summer into a pretty big house and we have had another friend tell us that Jim says my husband is snotty now and we are over our heads with this house, we don't need that much house etc. We are not strapped and are able to put money away even with our new house. My husbans is hurt and we are both fed up. I really want to tell Jim he

2007-01-15 14:50:05 · 4 answers · asked by Rhianna 3 in Friends

me and my ''boyfriend'' have been going out for 2 weeks and 2 days.We rarely see eachother and we never hangout.He calls me sometimes, we communitcate through im and myspace. He's nice and sweet and he isnt expirenenced at all, and he really hurts me, beacause it feels like i dont even have a boyfriend.I wanna know how it feels like to be cuddled and kissed, but everytime we try to hangout , he makes up excuses. What should i do?????!!!! Im fourteen and my other friends have boyfriends and they do stuff like everyday and they have been going out for like 4 months now..I feel like sucha little kid!!!!!!!

2007-01-15 14:49:11 · 12 answers · asked by russiarocks 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship with my ex some years ago. The only reason we didn't stay together is because he disappeared on me and when he came back I was already in another relationship. I still loved my ex and cared for him but I couldn't just end it with the current boyfriend at the time. Well I ended up marrying that current boyfriend.

Now 5 years later after losing contact with him I found my ex online (I always searched for him and I finally found him) but now I don't know what to do with the relationship. . .can we be friends? Maybe I am just tempted because things aren't all that perfect in my marriage right now. . . .

2007-01-15 14:48:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How much did your wedding cost?
Did you and your spouse pay for all of it or did your parents help?
If you had to do it over would you pay for it differently or wait?
Did you have to take out a freakin loan for it?

I just found on line where the average wedding in the USA costs between $20,000 and $30,000....it's depressing.

2007-01-15 14:48:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

guys that can dance is a real turn on.

2007-01-15 14:48:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy dated me for a week and it didnt work out but now we decided to be friends. Everytime I ask him whats on his mind, he says that he is thinking about the time we spent together. I ask him the same thing in a different conversation and he said that he was thinking of me. He said the could be thinking of me in many different reasons, like he said "because i am talking to you, your pretty, and there are many reasons." What could this mean? Does he still like me or could he be playing with my feelings?

2007-01-15 14:46:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 14:45:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 14:45:00 · 8 answers · asked by ankitsid 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay,heres some things that he's done that makes me feel like he likes me.
-We never talked before,but one day he came up to me,and said something like he was just trying to talk to me.
-He did me a favor(getting my marching band uniform),which seems like something a guy would do for his girlfriend.
-We was waiting to get our uniforms,and usually he would talk to his friends,but ALL of his attention was on me,and for some reason he waited for EVERYONE to get off the bus except me him his friend and my friend and then me and him made our way to get our uniforms.
-I catch him staring at me quite alot.
-He had this concert thing he was singing at,and I decided to go,right when I walked in his eyes went RIGHT to me(even though he had a girlfriend then)then while he was singing,he made eye contact with me,and didnt let it break for like 3 to 5 seconds and he kept smiling at me every second we just looked at each other.
-He hold the door for me every now and then.
What do you think???

2007-01-15 14:44:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a crush on a guy at work and after a few weeks I found out that he is gay! He found out that I liked him and we kinda became friends and we just talked off and on, Recently we hung out for the first time and I had so much fun! We didn't really talk all that much in the short time we were together, But I felt like we finally bonded a little bit and became closer friends. When he left he was talking about coming back to hang out when he had more time and even left food here for "next time".. He hasn't talked to me much since then except for things that are work related and I tried calling him and he didn't answer.. When I try to talk to him about what his problem is, but he claims there isn't a problem. i know there is something going on. He really avoided me the other night and I was upset and vowed to myself that I just didn't care about him anymore, but after seeing him again tonight I know that I do care and I'm not sure how to handle that. should I tell Him?

2007-01-15 14:44:39 · 5 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Friends

I don’t know how to describe such a guy, but I know they’re out there. Those guys, I guese you could call them. I mean, in nations where adultery is punishable by stoning – there are some guys women are still willing to risk it for. Consider that one time, composer richard wagner had sex with a man's wife, and the man truthfully said he felt honored. now i don't know if wagner was a true alpha male, but presuming he was - or just assuming somebody else – its got to be something when even the guy you’re with has to say ‘dayum . . . .’

so what do you suppose its like to be pursued, seduced, and bedded by a man who is truly on top of the game?

2007-01-15 14:44:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a. a fat RICH woman

b. a SEXY poor woman

2007-01-15 14:44:24 · 11 answers · asked by noting could b r e a k us apart 2 in Weddings

i like this guy. but hes always mean to me, like always calls me names on IM. at school he says "hi" to me all the time. then he tells me i bug him a lot. and i'm annoying. but hes the one who IMS me first, and texts me first thing in the morning. and he just told me that i bug a lot and stuff, so i just exed out of the IM and ignored him then he IMS me and said hes sorry and that he'll try to be nice. why is he soo mean, but always messages me,texts, and IMs me if i bug so much?

2007-01-15 14:43:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does she like me or no ????PLEASE HELP !!!???

i like this girl and i think she likes me but she already has a boyfriend when i told her how i felt she said awwww.. im sorri and i feel so bad and she felt guilty and one day she sent me a message on AIM outta nowhere and started to talk to me and i even go her number. then i saw that i was on her top on myspace and then i sent her a comment asking her what she was going to do over the weekend and if she wanted to hang out and she said on saturday she was going to her cousin's house but that sunday she wasn't doing anything and she said it was a unfair exchange because she gave me her number and i didn't give her mine. but we didn't end up going nowhere because she had a arguement with her bf. she told me if i can pick her up from school on wedsenday. and she asked me 2 cheer her up because she was in a sad mood. she told me to call her or text her if anything. is that a sign ??? is she starting 2 like me ????

2007-01-15 14:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I am divorced with two children and found out my ex-husband was gay soon after the divorce. Since the divorce I have been told from numerous people about homosexual affairs he had before and during our marriage. I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced this.

2007-01-15 14:42:58 · 10 answers · asked by Sue T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Its a Catholic Church.
If you have any links to pictures that'd be great.
Also, how many pews do you decorate, the church is huge?

2007-01-15 14:41:55 · 19 answers · asked by amor1954 2 in Weddings

Do you like little pecks or making out better and why.

2007-01-15 14:41:30 · 27 answers · asked by got2volley 1 in Singles & Dating