Okay,heres some things that he's done that makes me feel like he likes me.
-We never talked before,but one day he came up to me,and said something like he was just trying to talk to me.
-He did me a favor(getting my marching band uniform),which seems like something a guy would do for his girlfriend.
-We was waiting to get our uniforms,and usually he would talk to his friends,but ALL of his attention was on me,and for some reason he waited for EVERYONE to get off the bus except me him his friend and my friend and then me and him made our way to get our uniforms.
-I catch him staring at me quite alot.
-He had this concert thing he was singing at,and I decided to go,right when I walked in his eyes went RIGHT to me(even though he had a girlfriend then)then while he was singing,he made eye contact with me,and didnt let it break for like 3 to 5 seconds and he kept smiling at me every second we just looked at each other.
-He hold the door for me every now and then.
What do you think???
2007-01-15 14:44:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o yea, OOO YEEAAA, he is definately thinking something. Hes in the "hi, i exist" state. This is the clue for you to know that he sees something. Now its your turn to move your chess pieces. Give him eye contact back, when he looks at you, smile and look away. At about this state the guy is jumping for joy on the inside, you just gave him a sign saying "hi, yea i live on planet earth too, and i kinda see you" Then he'll probably start talking to you, maybe he'll give you a myspace comment, aim, phone number, or he may just start talking to you. You might see him with your friends occasionally. Please do not freak out, 95% of what hes talking about with your friends is about you. The other 5% is the initial "hello" and the eventual "good-bye". He is trying to formulate a plan, right from the day he laid eyes on you. Hes thinking of what to say. He'll start talking to you, yes the first conversations with him might be wierd. this is normal though, he has no clue what to say, so words not in the english language might come up. try to listen to him, so when hes done you have something to say back to him, this is when we get "connection" and things start to click. Now you guys need to talk about your lives and favorite things and what you guys like to do. Most likely you guys will have some things in common. Once he finds out you kinda like him, he might ask you out. It is your decision to say "ok sounds like fun" or "um idk, im kinda busy lately". If you choose option number 2, you basically told him "**** off". If you truly dont have time then tell him why and say that he can try again next week, and include "for sure" This is so he knows that everything is a go. Now its his big chance. On the first date hes gonna be acting slow and may stutter, this is normal. Comfort him, ask him about his week, or his day. Dont just sit there and stay quiet because deep inside he likes you, but he has no clue what to say. If hes quiet for an extended period of time, hes in the panic state and is thinking that your thinking that this date is a complete train wreck, so help him out and talk to him. Brush your hand against his, stay close next to him. This does not mean "lean" on him. Look him in the eyes occasionally. Then eventually it will come to an end of the first date. If you guys did so much as hold hands, that guy is now the happiest man alive and hes thinking about you the whole rest of the night. K good luck
- The Date Doctor
2007-01-15 15:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Robinhood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. Definitely. But let him know you're not interested until he breaks things off with his current girlfriend. Boys sometimes get caught up in the new girl and forget to give closure to the old one... and that's just wrong. If he has already done that then there is yet another indication that he has his sights set on you! Good luck!!
2007-01-15 22:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by quickgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him? No man would be offended by this or think less of you in any way. All but the most neurotic losers, when asked directly, "Hey, do you like me?" will 1) admit it and 2) start moving things forward relationshipwise if you express approval of him liking you.
You: Hey, do you like me?
Him: Umm, errr, well yes, I do.
You: That's wonderful. I'm really glad you said something because I like you too.
Him: Really!?! So, hey, would you like to come over to my house tomorrow. I rented this really nice movie and we can order pizza or something....blah, blah, blah.
The likely conversation will be the start of a shift in the way he relates toward you. In a rather short time, you will go from being friends to being boyfriend and girlfriend.
2007-01-15 22:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a recommendation. Since you've picked up his hints and can tell that he's interested, if you're interested in him too, let him know. He's trying to find that out. If you're not interested, tell him that as well and don't lead him on. Be honest and upfront with him. He's giving your signals because he's not sure how you'll respond. He might be embarassed or feel awkward if you flat out ask him how he's feeling - but, secretly, he probably really wants that conversation. He especially wants to know what you're feeling for him.
2007-01-15 22:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you but if he was checking you out while with his girlfriend, What kind of boyfriend is that, and how long will it take for him to look at another after hes your boyfriend?
2007-01-15 22:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by Barbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for confirmation about what you already think which is that he has a romantic interest in you.
Go for it.
2007-01-15 22:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys dont just bend over backwards for anybody
he is obviously smitten
2007-01-15 22:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he likes you!
2007-01-15 22:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jamaican girl<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah this boy likes you!!
2007-01-15 22:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by f.lipped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like he's in LOVE with you. but the question is..do you like him? lol
2007-01-15 22:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by Orange? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋