how can u love yourself when anyone doesn't think you are attractive, worthy, or have anythin to offer? I come to hate myself, my life and I blame God because he is the one got me here and lookin the way I do. I can't control people or what they think, but damn I don't wanna live if I gotta live like this. Please help me before I go crazy.
2007-01-15 14:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by aries19768 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm an Aries, too. I love myself because there is nobody on this earth quite like me. I am unique and special and God doesn't make mistakes.
2007-01-15 14:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Friend, First of all remember ALWAYS that this world is based ONLY on people's opinions, they don't hold your truth, or power over you..you do! Some of the wealthiest people or smartest people are not that attractive, but look what they can do? This is YOUR existence ok..and if you choose to believe what others say, you will never be happy. People will AWAYS have something stupid or mean to say, its just that way. There is a bunch of idiots out there. And if they see you don't hold your own, they feed off of that, that gives them power over you. We as human being are not here to make everyone like us, some will love us, some will hate us, some will adore us and some will be SO jealous of us, but the most important thing is what you feel about yourself, and you are validating yourself by what people are saying to you..besides what they think of you, do you have a mind of your own? What do you think about yourself, regardless what other people are saying. People who want to die, are too lazy to fix there life. Don't be lazy about it, get away from those people who are toxic to you. When you can. Life isn't about just what career you have or what you own, its also about living your life..life is suppose to be hard. What knocks you down, when you come up, you will be a stronger person. The harder the problem is the more obvious the solution..good luck..
2007-01-15 15:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by RAW AND GRIM \,,/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have to accept yourself as you are. Maybe you don't see an attractive person when you look in the mirror, but I am sure you are mistaken in many ways.
You can love yourself by doing great things for yourself and ignoring the opinions of others.
It's okay to play the blame game for a little while, but you have to think about who will ultimately have to live with you. And that's you. You are your best friend and if others can't see all the wonderful qualities that u have , then f**k them. Their loss, not yours.
2007-01-15 15:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow baby gurl I hate to hear you soundin like that but god did not make any two people alike!! It is hard to love yourself there are so many rules in doing so believe me I struggle with the same issues but I have come to love what I see when I look in the mirror and I know that outside pressure can indeed bring you to question yourself but dont. God made all of different thats what makes all of us unique so dont blame him. I dont know what you look like and I dont care and neither should you you always feel like you are beAUTIFUL BOTH INSIDE AND OUT!! The most beautiful people carry the most flaws and really are unhappy! Just think of all the expectations they have to live up to and all the impressions they have to make kinda leaves them any space to just be themselves if you think about it!! LOving yourself starts by being able to look in the mirror and love what you see no questions thats what I learned and its workin really well for me so hopefuly you will be able to find peace and stop lettin the devil work on your mind!!
2007-01-15 15:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by yousexythangyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God put you here because he loves you, and everything that he gives you is a trial, or to teach you. He gives each and everyone of us something that makes us special. Remember, it is not who you are on the outside, but what kind of person are you on the inside. The inside that walks with God is the most beautiful thing in the world. Pray! Ask for those feelings that the Devil puts in you to flow from you and never return. Believe........
2007-01-15 15:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, that is funny I feel the same way, but I love myself because I would not wan to be the other people who have tormented me through the years. You gotta live, though. Giving in to that would just prove they were all right. Good luck forever and always. 'When you feel as though you're at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on."
2007-01-15 14:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by poemonkey1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We teach other people how to treat us. So if you hate yourself and your life, noone else is going to respect you. Now start counting your blessings instead of your weaknesses and realize how much better off you are than alot of other people.
2007-01-15 15:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god is not to blame. you have your freedom to choose. it takes time to love yourself if youve been hurt n any way.
2007-01-15 14:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by candi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lose yourself, as difficult as it may be
2007-01-15 14:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by yrsong19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋