Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

Ok..my I like my friends ex..hes cool with it..well he was talkin to her..........about me and she said .." eww, i can do better"...but then her best friend emailed me..and said .she thinx i have a good shot, i jus need to give it time, cuz she may not be ready for a bf yet...who should i believe what should i thinik?

2007-01-15 14:17:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i lied to a friend of mine (who s a guy) and told him i was not a virgin but iam.i know its silly but im a bit ashamed of it being that im in my 20,s,but is anything really wrong with it?

2007-01-15 14:17:25 · 7 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Friends

there is this guy that i really like,in fact, i love that boy, and i told him that i like him, but he never told me how he feels. we still talk and mess around, but i just want 2 know how he feels about me. my friends are telling me that i should forget about him, but i dont know what to do, should i hold on or let go.

2007-01-15 14:16:54 · 35 answers · asked by **Always** 2 in Singles & Dating

Bad day at work and is just depressed and down on herself... Looking for activities and things to do for her... Been making her laugh and giving words of encouragement, just want more ideas..

2007-01-15 14:16:29 · 19 answers · asked by deerasta 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this girl but idk if she likes me
we r in a class together
but i think she might like me because sometimes she looks at me in class

but we r both kind of shy with each other
so we only talk online
but we talked a couple of times in school

but i would prefer to ask for her number online

so what should i say

2007-01-15 14:16:00 · 14 answers · asked by ur_rich_jew 1 in Singles & Dating

Took a girl out a couple times, with 2 months seperation. First date didnt go well, so i didnt see her for a while. Ended up going out again and we had a lot of fun. Still didnt kiss her, but she showed signs she was interested by grabbing me when we were walking, asking me intimate questions and other social cues. She is a game player, plays hard to get and can and does get other guys. Its been 4 days since i brought her out, didnt call her because i told her to call me. She said she doesnt call boys and winked at me when i dropped her off. I know she is playing hard to get so i dont want to be the one to call her. She does go on other dates with guys too, so what do you guys think i should do? Think she is at all interested in me, just went out with me because she was bored or what? And if you think she is interested how do i pursue a girl that doesnt like it when a guy isnt a challenge to her. I want to ignore her to have her chase me but what if she doesnt. Help would be valuable!

2007-01-15 14:14:43 · 13 answers · asked by Italian Tiger 2 in Singles & Dating

She hugged me, looked in my eyes, said she loved and trusted me and asked Hun, promise me, please. Though she's being over controlling, how could I say no? I love her, she's a wonderful mom, but I didn't want to make that promise. But I made, and even
said úpon my world, mom! she got so happy

2007-01-15 14:14:15 · 8 answers · asked by Marta M 1 in Family

I hate that I'm resorting to this for relationship advice, but here I am:

4 year relationship, things aren't that bad. But he's been heading toward ideas of marriage and kids, while my heart really just isn't in it. A year ago I went through the same mixed feeling business, I planned on breaking eveything off, and so talked it out with him, and after only a few hours of being "broken up" we contacted each other, and got back together. Later on down the road, my boyfriend brought up that he had made plans to kill himself the night we broke it off for a little bit, but having me back changed his mind. Knowing that he has considered suicide in the past, I feel I can't leave.

Advice?

2007-01-15 14:13:37 · 12 answers · asked by Candy 1 in Singles & Dating

~Do Boys Make Girls Cry?- or -Do Girls make Boys Cry?~

2007-01-15 14:13:13 · 3 answers · asked by Blah-Blah590 4 in Singles & Dating

the other day i broke up with my gf... there had been a lot of strain but a large factor was her beliefs, and strong opinions, regarding marriage before sex, religion, etc. i didn't need sex in the relationship, but i did want a physial relationship which she didn't feel was necessarily important. there was also a degree of ... ineptitude. i dont know. am i THAT wrong. im 17 shes 16. i think its legitimate to want that in a relationship. i know all the guys will be supporting me and girls will be calling me a bastard, but i expect that.

2007-01-15 14:13:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So a few months ago my ex asked me to move to NC with him, im in WI, We are slowly getting back together..(he is in the army) anyway everytime i ask him why he wants me to move so far away from my life he never gives me the greatest answer.. Should i move or move on?

2007-01-15 14:13:01 · 3 answers · asked by openmindedfreesoul 3 in Singles & Dating

My best freind on 360 got mad at me because my other "friend" posted a question about him and I and I was dumb enough to tell him about it. He was one of the greatest friends Ive ever had and I just want him to be my friend again. I feel like this question was my fault and I tried explaining it to him but he wont listen to me. He was a really great friend and he really inspired me to be myself and the first person Ive talked to that had alot of the common interests as me. There was a huge age gap but when your just talking to someone it doesnt really matter. Is there anything I can say to him so that he'll be my friend again?

2007-01-15 14:13:00 · 3 answers · asked by ♫That'll be the Day♫ 6 in Friends

i've been dating this close to perfect guy for almost 5 months now. he's sweet and he brings me coffee and he makes sure that i'm always happy. my parents, my friends, even my grandparents love him. his parents and siblings love me as well. they all think we're perfect for each other and that we will probably get married. even he thinks that. and i'm totally not ready for that though. i'm 17 and commitment like that scares me. like really bad. i love him and all but i feel like because of our relationship, everything, other than our realtionship, has stopped, including my walk with God which is really important to me. we've agreed to date until college. but that's in 7 months. and i don't think that i can go much longer. i just want to be free right now and date casually. i know it may sound selfish. but it's good for him too maybe. but i'm extremely confused and i don't know what to do. please help.

2007-01-15 14:11:53 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its been gettin worse ever since we moved 15 hours from our family. its getting to the point where we are hittin one another. i dont think it will work out between us but if we break up i will be movin back down with my family how is it gunna work with both of us seein him all the time when we are 15 hours away. should i stay with him for my son his only 10 months??

2007-01-15 14:11:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 14:11:05 · 7 answers · asked by Learner 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so there is this guy and im totally into him. and hes totally into me. well atleast thats what he tells me. anyways. so we talk on the phone for HOURS on end and tell eachother secrets that we have never told anyone before and just talk and have fun. and at school we ocasionally talk and stuff. but like we dont wanna go out yet or date because we want things to work out and not be weird. because we have done all of this before. actually this is the third time. anyways i also see him staring at me a lot and going out of his way to watch me at practice even though he tries to not make it obvious and he comes to my meets and supposivley only really watches me. and we always talk about the first time we kissed and how fun it was and embarrasing . and i like him a lot but sometimes i think he doesnt cuz sometimes its seems like hes ignoring me but he says he doesnt at all and he doesnt me to if he does. and we always txt message and make plans that sometimes fall through.

2007-01-15 14:10:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I´m 38 and I´m hispanic he´s fron Israel.We met 6 months ago while he was visiting my country and he´s coming back soon....

2007-01-15 14:10:51 · 16 answers · asked by rosand2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 14:10:35 · 11 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Singles & Dating

I went out yesterday and I was with my friend ( girl) we went to mall of asia and to look for a job as well. I accidentally send a text message to him that it wasn't for him it was for my best friend I told her that me and my friend are on are way home. I didn't text the name of the person but my best friend knows who I was with. Anyway, he kept on insisting who I was with and he even asked him who I was dating. And I texted him, what are you talking about? And he kept on asking and asking and I told him why? That's all I said just why and he didn't ask anymore, so, I decided to change the topic and he didn't ask anymore who I was with. Did he really moved on or he's just being nosey? Please anyone especially for guys please help me answer my question... Thanks

2007-01-15 14:09:59 · 2 answers · asked by Teacher Meg 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I were wondering how we compare against the average concerning marriages. We were married in 1996 and are happier than ever.

2007-01-15 14:09:57 · 9 answers · asked by rich_keegan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I have been 2gether for a month and 2weeks. And I met someone who works at a video store. And I like him. But the problem is my bf. He loves me alot! He's loved me from the first moment he saw me. So he says. How do I tell him that I like someone else/break-up with him?

2007-01-15 14:09:29 · 6 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

omg. its the most awful stench in the world.... so bad it gives me headache.. its smells like rotten pepper or something..... how can i hint to her please not to wear it anymore?!?! shes an older lady....

2007-01-15 14:09:11 · 5 answers · asked by whuvahgut? 2 in Friends

For some reason the only way I feel comfortable in life is to be single, but yet I am so lonely and want to someone's love. How can this be? How can I get over this? It makes me want to have panic attacks (yes I do have them) just to think of being in a relationship, yet I long for someone's love to me. Please help!

2007-01-15 14:08:45 · 14 answers · asked by Lindsay H 1 in Singles & Dating

how do I know if a girl wants to get laid by me?

2007-01-15 14:08:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I ask out a guy in my band class who is switching out of the classes he has with me? I wont be able to see him in classes anymore by the end of next week, and we're too shy to talk to eahother. He's tried talking to me but I used to push him away because of my nervousness, and now I want to say something, but I just cant open my mouth! I need some tips, what should I do???

2007-01-15 14:07:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in middle school and can u tell me how to be popular?????i am a good student and i do many clubs but i want to be popular but not the mean ones.

2007-01-15 14:07:22 · 13 answers · asked by musiclover 2 in Friends

me and my bf have been dating for 7 months, and we havnt said 'i love you' yet. (ps. we are in our early 20's and its a serious relationship)

i was wondering what you guys would think of it if a girl said it to you first? i know he loves me, and i know he knows i love him... brings up my 2nd ? -why don't you think he's said it?

please answer both ?'s thanks a lot, im stumped!

2007-01-15 14:06:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 14:06:29 · 21 answers · asked by aliecat 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it weird that I get turned on by watching women drive a stick shift car? I just love the way it looks when a woman works the pedals in cute flats or heels..

2007-01-15 14:06:24 · 12 answers · asked by fuji 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my best friend (guy) likes my best friend(gurl) should i be jeliouse?

2007-01-15 14:06:13 · 10 answers · asked by Shelby A 2 in Singles & Dating