ok my best friend (guy) likes my best friend(gurl) should i be jeliouse?
2007-01-15 14:06:13 · 10 answers · asked by Shelby A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i thought i was over him i went out with him before!!!
2007-01-15 14:12:22 · update #1
You will be jealous, but there's not much you can really do about it. So you just have to basically deal with it.
And you shouldn't be jealous. How would you feel if instead of you, it was your boyfriend who was jealous about who one of his female friends was seeing? If he's with you, that's not appropriate.
If your friends get together and then break up, then you may never be able to spend time with your two best friends again. That kinda sucks.
To summarise: you shouldn't interfere. you can't really help your feelings, even though they aren't appropriate. if they do get together and break up, do what you can to make sure they are still friends, so you can all be friends together.
2007-01-15 14:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are, its either because you have some sort of feelings for your guy friend and are jealous of your girl friend, or you may just be hurt that your two best friends are going to have a deeper bond that you dont share with them. You might feel a little left out if they become an exclusive couple, and thats totally normal. Just make it a point to maintain a healthy friendship with them both and you shouldnt feel too bad about the situation.
good luck!
2007-01-15 14:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can see where you are coming from cause i've been there only i didn't go out with my best friend, its flipped i am going out with him now. my advise is you can't control if you are jelious, its prob because you like him still, but you should still be happy for your friends because thats what friends aare for. its one of the times when you have to choose between your feelings and your friendships.
2007-01-15 14:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by music fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i would be worried about being the 3rd wheel but if u like your best guy friend than yes i would be but if not that you should be happy for them
2007-01-15 14:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by i'llalwaslovehim<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are or you aren't...why are you asking strangers how you should feel? I see no reason to be jealous, but then I'm not you.
2007-01-15 14:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you like him too.
2007-01-15 14:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know... Do you like him? If so than yes...Do you feel that way?
2007-01-15 14:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Casey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be jealous, do you like him too?
2007-01-15 14:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by rucrazy5150 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only if you like him
2007-01-15 14:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by firefreckles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-15 14:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋