me and my ''boyfriend'' have been going out for 2 weeks and 2 days.We rarely see eachother and we never hangout.He calls me sometimes, we communitcate through im and myspace. He's nice and sweet and he isnt expirenenced at all, and he really hurts me, beacause it feels like i dont even have a boyfriend.I wanna know how it feels like to be cuddled and kissed, but everytime we try to hangout , he makes up excuses. What should i do?????!!!! Im fourteen and my other friends have boyfriends and they do stuff like everyday and they have been going out for like 4 months now..I feel like sucha little kid!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 14:49:11 · 12 answers · asked by russiarocks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find somebody else, if he really likes you he'll make time to be with you.
2007-01-15 14:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still young, you shouldn't feel pressured from your friends, just because they have a boyfriend that does not mean you need one too, everyone grows at their own pace. I did not even have a girlfriend until high school, now I have had quite a few. But if you really want it to work out then you must be honest with the man, if he truly likes you he will understand, if not then it's not meant to be.
2007-01-15 23:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by Costa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only 14, you aren't gonna find the love of your life now. im 15, and i could care less whether i have a boyfriend or not. this guy clearly isnt working out though, wait a little longer and if things dont work out, tell him that you need to talk and fix things or youre breaking up. it really is that simple. the whole point of dating is to find the person your gonna marry. could you picture yourself marrying this guy later on? if not, then dont waste your time. spend your time with your friends instead. who cares if they have boyfriends? hopefully i helped a little, if not then im really sorry, but that is my best advice!
2007-01-15 22:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by gwmice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol. The same with my friend. He's probably just nervous to be around you. You have to make the first moves and tell him you don't feel like you guysz are going out. Some guys are just like that.
2007-01-15 22:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jamaican girl<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 14 years old! go out and do stuff with him like you wuold your girlfriends, go in groups to the mall, movies, putt putt etc. sitting around on the couch making out leads to bad things at your age and you never get to know the person or if he just wants a more sexual relationsihp from you, even if you guys aren't having sex and just messing around.
2007-01-15 22:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by josh/julie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to move on. At that age you should be having fun and enjoying being young with your friends. Don't let a boy bring you down.
2007-01-15 22:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by momof3boys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is always makes up excuses to not be with you, maybe he doesnt want to. If he doesnt want to hang out with you, then you should break it off. You can find sum1 better than that.
2007-01-15 22:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by DUDE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right about several things.
You don't have a boyfriend.
And you are still a kid.
So stop trying to rush into things you're not ready for.
2007-01-15 22:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe b/c he is shy just in case he can't do the things u want him to.
2007-01-15 22:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm...you are a little kid. be patient, and things will work themselves out, if not with this guy, some other guy.
2007-01-15 22:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋