Ive only had sex 5 times, but i never "get there"..Why? I've "done it myself" and i always get there, so why not when im having sex? Will i eventually? Is there something I have to do different?
2007-01-15 14:53:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on your body, when you do masturbate your doing something that your not when your having sex. My suggestion would be to see what gets you when your masturbating and apply it to sex.
2007-01-15 15:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by Costa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that your feeling to much pressure during sex to 'act' a certain way. That doesn't mean that they person you're having sex with is the one pressuring you, you may have certain expectations in mind as to how everything will go and when it doesn't it's harder to 'let go' and experience the full pleasures of sex. When masturbating, you don't pressure yourself or think much about the outcome, you just let the feeling take over, right? Maybe living in the moment, during sex, is what's needed to get to orgasm then as well?
2007-01-15 23:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by Midnight Butterfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably that when you have sex you are not stimulating your clitorus (typically the key to female orgasm). Try getting a guy to give you oral sex, see if that gets you there. If not that, try doing it in the girl on top position, this will let you or him use a finger or w/e to stimulate you directly.
Good luck
2007-01-15 23:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, you're worring over it instead of just enjoying it.
2007-01-15 23:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by acenumm1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋