Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

there's this guy that totally likes me and he's totally sweet and nice and awesome in every way--except that i don't like him. anyway, Valentine's day is coming up and i think he might send me a carnation or something cuz at my school, you can pay to have flowers sent to a person. anyway...should i tell him that i don't like him now, or should i just wait? how should i tell him? btw, i'm not 110% sure that he likes me, so it'll be really weird if i just go and reject him and he doesn't even like me...very complicated. help!!!

2007-01-15 15:37:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know he likes me though. But he doesnt know my age, Im scared if i tell him, he wont like me anymore. What should i do?

2007-01-15 15:36:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

those who will help ?
those who ill critisis?
those who will give only advice ?

2007-01-15 15:35:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am making a candlelit dinner for my boyfriend for valentines day with fortune cookies for dessert. Any ideas on cute/romantic fortunes that I could put inside?

2007-01-15 15:35:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband prefers porn and masterbation over having sex with me. I am an average attractive woman 39 years old being deprived of a sex life. He has a fetish of 3 somes. In the beginning of our marrriage he let it be known that was his turn on. after a while i told him off and let him know that in no way was i that kind of person. Since then we have sex about every 3 months. I used to find all kinds of porn things, he has gotton better at hiding them now. What should I do? He refuses counseling and denys that he has a problem in any type of manner. He had a threesome with his first wife and she got pregnant with the other guys child. Their marriage didnt last to say the least. I found out a day to late.

2007-01-15 15:35:08 · 21 answers · asked by no time to feel this way 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-15 15:34:39 · 13 answers · asked by ...... 2 in Friends

They are knid of having a fight. you see the guy friend dances with other guys at this night club we all go to and the girl friend does not like this because her parents will not let her go and she doesn't like it because she is a six minute drive from this night club and he didn't think to come and see her what should i do to help please help i don't want to see them get hurt.

2007-01-15 15:34:38 · 5 answers · asked by brittany ambrozaitis 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together for a little over 3 years (We have lived together for most of that). Lately, (last few months) I feel distant from him. I feel like I'm pulling away. He asks me if I miss him when he goes to work... I lie and say yes. In fact, I enjoy my time alone, without him. Which is stupid, because I LOVE him so much. I would go crazy without him. I just don't feel the... ummm "oomph" that I used to feel. I also have no real interest in the physical aspects of the relationship. He hasn't changed. He still does everything that I like...or I guess...used to like. I just am not that interested in getting physical. We've been under a lot of stress lately (money issues) and I have gained a bit of weight and am not exactly happy with how I look. Could my problem really be as simple as stress? And suggestions are appreciated...(and we can't afford to go out and spend money right now...so a romantic date is out of the question) PLEASE HELP.

2007-01-15 15:34:17 · 36 answers · asked by pink_faerie_flower 2 in Marriage & Divorce

trying to stalk my ex gf. need tips.
10pts for funniest answer.

2007-01-15 15:33:58 · 25 answers · asked by jorluke 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband prefers porn and masterbation over having sex with me. I am an average attractive woman 39 years old being deprived of a sex life. He has a fetish of 3 somes. In the beginning of our marrriage he let it be known that was his turn on. after a while i told him off and let him know that in no way was i that kind of person. Since then we have sex about every 3 months. I used to find all kinds of porn things, he has gotton better at hiding them now. What should I do? He refuses counseling and denys that he has a problem in any type of manner. He had a threesome with his first wife and she got pregnant with the other guys child. Their marriage didnt last to say the least. I found out a day to late.

2007-01-15 15:32:51 · 15 answers · asked by no time to feel this way 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 3 years now tells me that his feelings had changed and he doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore. He recently turned 21 in Sept., and goes to the bars a lot now while I chill at home (I'm only 20). In Oct. I found out he was talking to this girl and he grew feelings for her. She was 16 but very pretty.. so i can see why he was tempted. After all that we started arguing a lot more bc i will always question him where he's at and what he's doing. I don't want him to be sneaking around. He did lie to me a few times and hide things from me. But now, were over that phase and he doesn't want nothing to do with her. He tells me that he only wants to be friends with her and never talked to her again. He tells me right now that he doesn't want to be in a relationship and that he just wants to be alone. We both still love each other very much and I just don't want to loose him. He says that he eventually wants to be with me in the end but can't do it right now.

2007-01-15 15:32:46 · 4 answers · asked by simply_complicated 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl I like (let's call her Sally) and I know for a fact that she likes me. In early November, we were both at a friend's house with a couple of other friends just hanging out after a party. She went into the other room with one of the friends and had a few shots. I was about to leave (disappointed because I had planned to ask her out but hadn't had the guts to) when she asked me (slightly intoxicated) to "come here for a second". She led me into the other room and told me flat out that she liked me. I responded "I like you too, and I'd like to go out with you." She dismissively responded "Let's hook up first." So we did (passionately might I add :D). Since then, we have hung out a lot (as friends) but I know for a fact that she doesn't remember me asking her out etc. I feel like our relationship is at a stand still and I really want it to go somewhere. It seems like she won't talk about with anyone because she's shy about relationships and not very open about guys. Help!

2007-01-15 15:32:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always seem to feel depressed. Its like I know what my life will be for the future and it sucks. All excitement has gone. I dont even feel like having sex with my wife. I miss the good old single days when I was in control of everything.

My wife is beautiful and caring. I just dont know whats wrong. I guess I miss the sluts and the so called excitement. is it normal for me to feel like this ? My wife seems to love me like anything. I wish i could feel what she is feeling.


Please give positive remarks

2007-01-15 15:32:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. Back in 2000-2001 I was sorta dating this guy who I think was cheating on me. Anyway, I met my husband in '02 and he's met this guy once or twice and he's ok with me talking to him. Haven't heard from him for a while. He called tonight to find out if I had a particular song that he was looking for by a band who I've seen in concert several times, and we chatted for a while, my 12 year old took the phone from me because she wanted to talk to him too, but I always feel guiltly after talking to him. Why is this?

2007-01-15 15:31:54 · 8 answers · asked by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Whats it like to you?????

2007-01-15 15:31:14 · 11 answers · asked by Zenlife07 6 in Singles & Dating

Okay so I like this girl who likes me cause her 7 year old step bro said she did infront of both of us. She is almost 14 in Feb. and I am turning 14 in Sept. also she is in 8th grade and im in 7th then she is 1 inch (about) heigher then me so I was wondering if all this matters

2007-01-15 15:30:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is this unprofessional? For example, I have a gentleman who has given me tutoring lessons, and he's always asking me if I would like to sign up for more, but I told him I was going through financail difficualty and couldn't so he offered free sessions, but I never took advantage but what was weird was the fact that he txt messaged me last night at 12:00 midnight asking me if I wanted to sign up for more tutoring sessions and I told him I didn;t know, and he was like well let me know when you have an hour free...Does anyone thinks thats sort of weird..? And what do you think his agenda might be?

2007-01-15 15:30:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfiend sent me a wonderful gift in the mail 2 weeks ago and I have called him two times and text messaged him once and we haven't talked in about a week and a half? I was wondering is it time to let go or give it some more time the relationship?

2007-01-15 15:30:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I live in the ghetto in my city and i dont have a car! I have a job only working 5 hours a week making only 5.15 an hour! I cant even buy a car with that amount of money and i cant afford new clothes! I hate my life. How can i improve my life and become rich????

2007-01-15 15:30:01 · 10 answers · asked by sexy sasha 2 in Singles & Dating

Is this unprofessional? For example, I have a gentleman who has given me tutoring lessons, and he's always asking me if I would like to sign up for more, but I told him I was going through financail difficualty and couldn't so he offered free sessions, but I never took advantage but what was weird was the fact that he txt messaged me last night at 12:00 midnight asking me if I wanted to sign up for more tutoring sessions and I told him I didn;t know, and he was like well let me know when you have an hour free...Does anyone thinks thats sort of weird..? And what do you think his agenda might be?

2007-01-15 15:29:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my father remarried and i hav not seen him since 2000 coz the new wife does not like me or my siblings ive tried to talk to dad and ask him to visit here but he wont my two boy (aged 2,3)dont even know him should i let him go or keep trying?im sick of carrying all this hurt inside

2007-01-15 15:29:44 · 7 answers · asked by tamara0405 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Now that we have had sex, he seems different. His performance was quick and terrible and I have not even told him that! He just treats me with a little less respect almost like now he is just too comfortable. Any advice?

2007-01-15 15:28:56 · 27 answers · asked by niki 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is going to study in America in a months time and she will be there for two years, i live in Africa to be exact Kenya. we have been going out for the past six months thing is we are both adults, and as much as i would wish to tell her sweet nothings like i will wait for her, i cant because it will not happen. Do you guys honestly think it is possible for love to beat the distance?

2007-01-15 15:28:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She broke up withme. We didn't speak for 2 months. Saw her recently and we hooked up and I haven't heard from her since. When she dumped me she said she wanted to still be friends. When I saw her the other night she said she missed me and all of that but I don't understand why why she is doing what she is doing, by hooking up with me and then not talking to me. What is she doing? What am I supposed to make of all of this? I would prefer a girls opinion but any advice would be helpful.

2007-01-15 15:28:21 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 3 years known each other for 8years, have kids. But I'm getting tiered of waiting for him to propose,am I just being to impatient with him, or should I just except we probble wont get married?

2007-01-15 15:27:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So theres this guy friend of mine that has REALLY started to crush on me lately. He's really weird about it, and I don't like him in that way AT ALL! My problem is, idk how to tell him that without hurting him..he just seems really like attached? He's a pretty good friend and we've known eachother for a while, so I was just wondering what a good way to tell someone you're just not interested in him, without hurting him. Ty for any help!

2007-01-15 15:27:05 · 10 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Singles & Dating

I need a hug from a woman.

2007-01-15 15:27:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 15:26:58 · 2 answers · asked by patchshantel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Since I know a lot of you are, most creative (and humorous) answer gets the 10 points.
Let out your frustrations!

2007-01-15 15:26:43 · 33 answers · asked by freshbliss 6 in Singles & Dating

Are you still with the one that you were meant for??

2007-01-15 15:25:57 · 9 answers · asked by Camille 1 in Singles & Dating