We have been together for 3 years known each other for 8years, have kids. But I'm getting tiered of waiting for him to propose,am I just being to impatient with him, or should I just except we probble wont get married?
2007-01-15 15:27:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No you are not crazy at all... It is about time he proposed to you and wanted marriage and if he does not and does not want to commit then i suggest you move on with your life and find someone down the road who will marry you and commit!
2007-01-15 15:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about getting married, leave things the way they are. What does marriage mean, nothing, but a piece of paper. I have been with my husband for 15 years and it feels that it's close to the end. But I will tell you that if that ever comes we will be married the rest of our life's together or not. To me marriage is just a piece of paper, leave things like they are. Married once and will never take that chance again. If your happy just please leave things like they are. It's easier to get married than a divorce. Sorry, but at this point in my marriage it is really sucking. I will never ever do it again.
2007-01-15 15:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by aloneathome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept the fact that you probably wont get married, unless you give him an ultimatum. You two have lived like a married couple, so he probably feels he doesn't need to make you his wife. You should not have lived with him and had kids with him, before marriage.
2007-01-15 15:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! This guy has no intention of marrying you; Are you in denial of the truth? He's with you for convenience no commitment. If you backed him into a corner and asked him when you were getting married he'd side step it.
2007-01-15 16:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you two already are acting like you're married. Maybe he just assumed that's the way it will be forever.
Talk to him about this. Let him know how you feel. You have to be direct with guys.
2007-01-15 15:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. What is the hold up? Is he afraid of commitment? Have you ever talked this over with him? Communication is the best way to resolve problems.
2007-01-19 14:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about marriage if that's what you want. Oh, and don't let him dodge the question
2007-01-15 15:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by elcidiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you are
why buy the cow.....
2007-01-15 15:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by xxxxxxx b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋