Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

I have been dating this guy for several months and we have fallen in love. I am 4 years older than he is, but he doesnt seem to able to keep up with me. He is a homebody and would rather stay home all night and watch T.V. whereas I love to be out and social. For my birthday he didnt plan anything special for me at all and it was the same for Christmas. I went out of my way for him for Christmas. He is constantly telling me he loves me and when we are together he always knows the right things to say, but actins speak louder than words and his actions just arent there. This is the first time I have dated a younger man, I have always dated people that are 10+ years older than me. Is his lack of actions because he is too young and doesnt know any better, or am I in a one sided relationship?

2007-01-15 16:25:21 · 10 answers · asked by eli_213 1 in Singles & Dating

well this girl in my class was easi droping in my conversation and I sit on the other side of her room. I caught her staring at me once. her and her friend were throwing food at me during class. she is also shy. she liked me at the start of the year. I liked her two months later and she rejected me. I was wondering does she like me.

2007-01-15 16:25:00 · 3 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

Time and time again you hear about guys getting the shaft at divorce court. Did anyone hear of Michael Strahan's divorce, that B**** is trying to walk away with half his estate somewhere in the ballpark of $14-15 million even WITH THE PRENUP !!!
Yeah that'll be the day Im worth $28 million and married .

2007-01-15 16:24:52 · 6 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this may sound like a ridiculous question but my husband always refers to my chest as "HIS". He jokingly says he paid for them (but they are real) or that he bought them.

How do you feel about a man thinking he "owns" part of his wife?

2007-01-15 16:24:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok im 15 almost 16 and ive never had friends even when i was in preschool i am really shy and the only people i can talk to are people younger then me my only friend is 13 and still likes barbies and i really dont like her i want friends my own age but im too scared to talk to any one at my school and i dont want to sit at home all the time by myself and im not ugly or gross or any thing lots of people try to talk to me and be my friend but when i try too talk back i freeze and cant talk and so no one will talk to me anymore what do i do HELP

2007-01-15 16:24:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This guy I liked so much dated me for a week then breaks it off and never told me why. We decided to be friends but we talk online all the time. I start off a conversation by saying "whats on your mind", but he responds "just thinking about the fun we had together." I don't understand. I ask him the same question in every conversation, but he responds differently by saying " i am thinking about you." I ask him why and he says because he is talking to me, i am pretty but says there could be many other reasons! What am i suppose to do about this? He is confusing me so much! HELP!!!!

2007-01-15 16:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in May and I would like my dad to be happy for me and all but I don't knw how he feels about it or why he want talk about it. In a way I could care less what he thinks b/c it's always negative thinking but I just wish he would be happy for us and know that I will be around and that I'm going to leave like my sister did. I just would like to why he's nt happy for us and why some other ppl like my soon to be husband's brother who's in the wedding by the way thinks we won't go through with it. How can proof everyone wrong and really let them know that in May this will happen and we will be so happy with each other.

2007-01-15 16:23:20 · 8 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Family

I have just turned 49 and my 27 year marrage ended 2 years ago. I have been dating women that I have met in the personals and various event I have attended. I have met some great women many of whom I still stay in contact with . I am much more active than other guys my age and prefer younger women (35-45) simply because of my active lifestyle, I recently started seeing a woman who is 30 and who i've known for 6 years and was very close friend to her and her husband. They are no longer a couple and her and I have gotten very close. I absolutly am in love with everything about her. She is everything I could ask for in a woman! I know she feels very close to me too. We have the most fun when were together. Question is, is the age differance too great to have a long happy life or am I just dreaming?

2007-01-15 16:23:07 · 9 answers · asked by dan 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 16:23:00 · 1 answers · asked by gibson_smark 3 in Singles & Dating

So I have two guys, David and Alex. I like them both. They both like me. I know david better, but i haven't gotten the chance to get to know alex. I want to give alex a chance too but i don't want to hurt david. I know that I want a relationship and I think they both are boyfriend material. I just want to have it to where i end up with the right guy and the other one isn't hurt. what should i do??
what do i do to decide which one?
help?

2007-01-15 16:22:33 · 2 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

all his friends say hes really weird with girls and that he hooks up with them but hes like never had a gf and so i wanna get over this obsession i have since he dosent like me.
any tips?

2007-01-15 16:21:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-15 16:21:28 · 7 answers · asked by Curious 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 16:18:10 · 3 answers · asked by dragonwolf017 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 16:16:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are really close. He said I luv u to me 2 times but I say I luv u 2 back really shyly. How should I tell him I luv him when I do? Should I say it or hug him or something else? I NEED ADVICE! Please and thank you.

2007-01-15 16:16:27 · 14 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

She won't even kiss me or say I love you when its that time. She don't even want me around. Then all of a sudden she is an angel. Wants me 24/7. Can it get that drastic.

2007-01-15 16:15:56 · 9 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend wants me to meet him at the hilton hotel tonight for the after party but it's only gonna be a couple of us my three girlfriends and three of his homeboys plus me and him but the thing is it might lead to sex and I don't think that I'm ready yet I feel like I'mma throw up I don't think I can handle this pressure right now but if I back out my friends and my boyfriend will think I'm a chicken and laugh at me and then I might be the laughing stock of the entire school but if I go my parents will probably ground me for life I mean what can I do my palms are sweaty and I'm shaking so bad I can hardly stand up this is my first time doing this so I need some help please!?

2007-01-15 16:15:20 · 24 answers · asked by Kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

what makes a good boyfriend?

2007-01-15 16:14:59 · 7 answers · asked by kissa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 16:13:08 · 15 answers · asked by abcfg45 1 in Marriage & Divorce

give me some feedback on this song i wrote. i plan to perform it for my girlfriend's birthday. let me know what you think! thanks!


here it is:

Its just one of those days
When you don't wanna wake up
Everything is fucked
Everybody sux
You don't really know why
But want justify
Rippin' someone's head off
No human contact
And if you interact
Your life is on contract
Your best bet is to stay away motherfucker
It's just one of those days!!

[chorus]
Its all about the he says she says bullshit
I think you better quit
Lettin' **** slip
Or you'll be leavin with a fat lip
Its all about the he says she says bullshit
I think you better quit talkin that ****
(Punk, so come and get it)
Its just one of those days
Feelin' like a freight train
First one to complain
Leaves with a blood stain
Damn right I'm a maniac
You better watch your back
Cuz I'm fuckin' up your program
And if your stuck up
You just lucked up
Next in line to get fucked up
Your best bet is to stay away motherfucker
Its just one of those days!!

[chorus]

I feel like ****
My suggestion is to keep your distance cuz right now im dangerous
We've all felt like ****
And been treated like ****
All those motherfuckers that want to step up
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your *** raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break somethin' tonight...
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your *** raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break somethin' tonight...
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your *** raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break your fuckin' face tonight!!
Give me somethin' to break
How bout your fuckin' face
I hope you know I pack a chain saw, what!!...

2007-01-15 16:12:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I'm getting married in May, and everything is going to plan except for my fiancee's worries about my mother and baby brother. My parents divorced recently and it was UGLY, causing a huge rift in my family. She blatenly refuses to even speak with him and has instructed my brother who is 14 not to have anything with him either. The kid was a total spaz and still is, so I worry about any interactions going sour. Especially at the rehersal dinner and the ceremony.

After discussions with my soon to be, she suggested that if she couldn't act civil, then she should stay home, and I agree with her, but she's my mother and I feel some guilt about banning her from our wedding. Granted my mom and I don't get along, but shes my mom. I need some advice from those of you out there to give me something to work with to help weigh the situation out. Thank you for your help in advance.

2007-01-15 16:12:19 · 18 answers · asked by beetlegpx 1 in Weddings

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs now...We do not live together since were still young im 23 and hes 22...I was wondering if going clubbing alone trigger cheating??? If we really love each other do you think there is still a chance any of us might cheat?? What could be a resolution to that?? Young people do need their space im guessing....

2007-01-15 16:11:05 · 9 answers · asked by Alejandra2008 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.

2007-01-15 16:10:39 · 11 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl has a boyfriend and she gives me signs that she likes me. The signs are the way she looks at me and the way she doesn't look at me.
Smiles at me while she walks past me. Talks sweet to me. I told her I had a crush on her and she said "that's so sweet. Than gave me a hug. Next day she pats me on the head and saids hey. My friend said he seen her with her friends and he went up to her and said "you know my friend likes you. And she said" I hate him"

Is she stuck up?

2007-01-15 16:10:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know someone is cheating on you because the P.I. snapped some pictures. They swear that you have nothing to worry about....and all of the minor details are just coincidence.

2007-01-15 16:09:58 · 16 answers · asked by Rick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Vanilla!

2007-01-15 16:09:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so like last sping break he held my hand and kissed me and yeah but even now it kind of hppened agian and he has a girlfriend now but like i said it happened agian at a dance please help what do i do. do i leave him alone am i totally out of the standings or should i just forget about him completely. should i tell him


p.s. i enjoy every moment i can spend with him and i know that i make myself unotcible i have asked other people

2007-01-15 16:09:25 · 5 answers · asked by I Love Diet Coke 2 in Singles & Dating

ok ok, this is getting out of hand!!!!! she starting to really like me!! i only liked her because i wanted to get some from her but now she really likes me......i dont even like her....she got a nice body and i just want a piece but she is making this difficult....what can i tell her?? can i just be like "look, im not lookin for a relationship but we can be buddys" give me some advice!!!!

2007-01-15 16:09:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for some plates i saw at a store i went to but they are a little high in price they look like real plates but they are really plastic more like a hard plastic you could wash if you wanted to save them. I

2007-01-15 16:08:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really like this band, so I have pictures of them EVERYWHERE. None of my friends like the band, as a matter of fact, they dont even like the same type of music as me! Most of my friends talk about me behind my back and say that I need to grow up and that I am obsessed, just because I have so many pictures of the band. I hear this from my other friends who tell me. I feel completly alone. Most people who have an "obsession" have friends who share it with them, but I don't. Sometimes now when I even think about my friends I cry. I live in a small town so it isnt like I can just leave my friends and meet new people because I know all the people in my town. I like other bands too, so it is not like I am even that obsessed. I dont know what to do! I need help. What should I do?

2007-01-15 16:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Friends