I have been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs now...We do not live together since were still young im 23 and hes 22...I was wondering if going clubbing alone trigger cheating??? If we really love each other do you think there is still a chance any of us might cheat?? What could be a resolution to that?? Young people do need their space im guessing....
2007-01-15 16:11:05 · 9 answers · asked by Alejandra2008 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing that triggers cheating is the cheater's willingness to disrespect his/her partner by being sexually promiscuous. Going to clubs or not going to clubs doesn't enter into it. If you are a honourable, trustworty person, you will not cheat, no matter how many clubs you go to, because it is simply beneath your standards. On the other hand, a cheater will find a way to cheat, even if he/she is stuck in the Mojave desert.
2007-01-15 16:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes clubbing alone can trigger cheating although there are some people that would never cheat no matter what. Others if they have too much to drink/drugs will cheat if they are clubbing alone becasue they dont know what they are doing and they have the ooppertunity.
2007-01-16 09:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that single clubbing could lead to cheating. Why do you want to risk that? What's the point of clubbing if the possibility of hooking up isn't there. If you are a couple why do you both want to do this? I think it signals problems in the relationship you both need to address.
2007-01-16 00:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by doryanne949 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a good idea.... and people do strange things when they get drunk things that they latter regret... I do think that it would pose a problem for you if you walked into a bar and seen all those half clothed women up on your man dancing... I am sure that he would feel the same if he say that with you... Unless your single you shouldn't act as if you are....Going together though can be just as fun... best of wishes
2007-01-16 00:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a realationship is built on the foundation of trust... if you can't trust him there is going to be a really shakey realationship. Its good to have guys night out and to have fun apart if the guy is a man whore yeah being around other women drinking could trigger some but if he's not u should be safe.
2007-01-16 00:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to a club is not cheating unless u kiss someone or someone takes u home. Wow u seem confused. Don't make youself paranoid unless u get that gut feeling something is wrong.
2007-01-16 00:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bad relationship might trigger cheating
an immature person might cheat
friends might be influencial to trigger cheating
going clubbing is a 'singles' lifestyle choice, not people who are in a committed relationship, but whatever, youre young. peace
2007-01-16 00:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if neither of you are a cheater then you have nothing to worry about but if either has a cheating heart then yes, it is a huge trigger.
2007-01-16 00:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by wv_country_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person --- there is no real trigger its if that is what they want to do then they will cheat
2007-01-16 00:14:40 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋