This guy I liked so much dated me for a week then breaks it off and never told me why. We decided to be friends but we talk online all the time. I start off a conversation by saying "whats on your mind", but he responds "just thinking about the fun we had together." I don't understand. I ask him the same question in every conversation, but he responds differently by saying " i am thinking about you." I ask him why and he says because he is talking to me, i am pretty but says there could be many other reasons! What am i suppose to do about this? He is confusing me so much! HELP!!!!
2007-01-15 16:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is totally playing you, telling you what he thinks you want to hear, keeping you hanging on, just in case. If it was me, I'd block him out and not be friends with him. It's next to impossible to be friends with someone you just broke up with. Too many confused feelings and thoughts. At least avoid him for a few weeks-- life will go on-- so you can get past this. If he thought he made a mistake and wanted to get back with you, he would have made it clear by now. If you listen to your gut feeling and think objectively, you will not be confused anymore. Actions speak louder than words.
2007-01-15 16:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but he's messing with your head. And you know what? You teach people how to treat you. If you are friends, then you ask him why he's flirting with you when he decided to break it off with you. You have to put your foot down. Friends don't act that way. This guy is drama.
2007-01-15 16:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: Guys will say and do ANYTHING to get into your pants. The sooner you learn this, the happier you'll be.
Seriously, let him go, sweetheart. You don't need a guy that plays head games. It's unnecessary and detrimental to your emotional well-being.
*hugs*
2007-01-15 16:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy would still talk to someone they just want to get into her pants but not be in a relationship with her...........hence the breakup. You guys only dated a week and he's reminescing about the fun you had together??????? Oh yeah, he want to do ya.
2007-01-15 16:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a player. Well, if you want to play back you can tease him too, and not give in or you can smile, wave and walk away everytime you see him.
"I just want to be friends," is the ultimate turn on. I have no clue why.
2007-01-15 16:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just playing with you. You don't need that, focus your attention elsewhere and put a block on his but so he can't see when your online.
2007-01-15 16:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by SAHM3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit talking to him. Hes toying with your emotions.
2007-01-15 16:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhmmmm.he doesn't want to be too close i think? i did this with my ex.i chickened out cuz everyone was pressuring us to kiss, and i didn't want to. so i broke it off.and regret it now.so that maybe the case with you.flirt.you'll get him back.but if his pullbacks hut you, forget him.
2007-01-15 16:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-15 16:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋