Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

Is it me, or do people going through a divorce go through mood swings? Some days I hate him. Some days I am glad he's gone. Other's I miss him like hell. When does it stop? I was with him for almost 20 years.

2007-01-15 16:39:16 · 17 answers · asked by crazyloonynice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

whats it mean when a guy ask my bestfriend if i like him and then he said well i just wanna know what shes gunna say so tell her i like her! and i thought he was just messing with me! so i got on the computer and i was like omg why do you keep tell her to tell me all that crap? and he went back and was like omg why did you tell her, it was just a joke! and then he was like shes really pretty but idk if i like her like that! and hes not talkin to me that much rite now but he keeps staring at me and lookin at me and bumping into me on purpose! what do yall think does he really like me? or was it really just a joke?

2007-01-15 16:39:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright... I want to give him a special gift... I want to put a big valentines day balloon with red pink and white balloons in his truck... Then a big teddy bear that says I love you... a long with that I want to put a love note and a love mix that I made with it... Also put some fake rose petals on his seats... then later that day I would give him a dallas cowboys wallet because he loves the cowboys and an american eagle polo.... do you like it...

2007-01-15 16:38:20 · 8 answers · asked by lovinlifeandhim7 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 16:38:15 · 31 answers · asked by gcc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well every1 says i am prettier than her and that i have a better personality. they always fight with each other and stuff. and my bff is dating his brother. i hav only seen him once last year so he probably doesnt remember me and i wanna make a good impression. next weekend we are all going to the movies. any ideas on what i can do to steal him from her?

2007-01-15 16:37:36 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetie Pie 1 in Singles & Dating

He abused her physically and emotionally can a law suit be filed even though she has been removed from him and placed with me? There is a pending investigation and The child protective services has indicated him on numerous findings? So who should pay for her long term care? She now has PTSD.

2007-01-15 16:36:54 · 21 answers · asked by cmcbmc1025 1 in Family

why dont i ever have an "O"during intercourse. It always takes other means. Is this a normal thing for women?

2007-01-15 16:36:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 16:36:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a felony for robbery at 18 i can't stop feeling like its over i'm in college but feel i will never overcome this and nobody will ever give me a chance

2007-01-15 16:35:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it a sin? to have these thoughts? these feelings? to do something about it?

2007-01-15 16:34:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's so confusing cause i thought i didn't like him anymore.

2007-01-15 16:34:07 · 8 answers · asked by Tizmo 2 in Friends

I am married to my second husband, whom I love dearly. I have children from my 1st marriage and he has children from his 1st as well. My Mother-in-law favors his children dramitacly over mine. We have approached her and she gets very defensive. She told my husband how could she love my children like she does his, after only knowing them a few years. She makes it very obvious to our children as well. I am pregnant with "our" second child together. When we had an ultrasound she didn't want to know the sex, because my husband had said he would like it to be a surprise. That made me feel like I was un-important. After all, I'm only carrying the child. I can't shange her thoughts or actions, but how can I live with this on a daily basics? Please help. All advise would be helpfull!

2007-01-15 16:33:43 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Family

I wake up crying everyday wanting to kill myself. I know I Can't because of damage it may do. Im married to someone no longer have feelings for. He loves me & is committed to relationship. I feel lost, alone, out of control. I am physically/ emotionally unavailable to our daughter. I am unable to play w/ her. I believe I am letting everyone down and wasting everyones time. I have no friends and do not go out. I don't have anyone to speak w/ & am trapped. Even if I could leave I have nowhere to go. I really just want to kill myself but all this guilt about what I may or may not be doing to my daughter is making me sick. I read how you have to be happy so your kids can be happy but where does that leave the rest of us struggling w/ mental illness? I go for help. It's not working. I don't want to feel this way. I don't want to be yelling at my daughter for no reason. She doesn't deserve this miserable life I am showing her. Somedays are better than others, hit or miss. It's a nightmare.

2007-01-15 16:33:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-15 16:31:58 · 17 answers · asked by friend 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well in middle school i guess i was pretty cool. i know this sound really lame but i was best friends with like the most popular boy in middle school. alot of people didn't like me, i really don't know why though. then when i got to highschool me and that boy stoped hanging around eachother so much. i still have friends, but i feel like they are just class friends. i feel like i come off really clingy, and that people think im annoying.
i try to be myself, and i really am myself, but i don't think people like me for me.
yeah i hang around that "popular" group, yeah lame, but i think they don't want me around, when i do hang around them.
i know im not ugly, like at all.
but i know im not gorgeous...
what can i do?
do i have to change myself, to make friends?

2007-01-15 16:31:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-15 16:31:04 · 5 answers · asked by leeandaundrea1978 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When we were just dating me and my boyfriend had what I thought was a very laid back relationship. Almost too laid back. To me, he was never interested about my comings or goings. I took that as him being very secure with himself and our relationship. Sometimes his non-chalantness about everything concerning our relationship bothered me. He just seemed like he didn't care one way or the other. Come to find out he didn't have all his eggs in one basket (with me) he was seeing going back and forth between me and someone that went way back into his past. I put my foot down and gave him an ultimatum. Now we are married. Now he seems to care only in a slick, sneaky kind of way. For example I know he rides past my sister's house when I am over there, tries to make sure I'm going to work by asking me to do things for him while I am there ect. What's the real deal? When I think we are getting super close now that we are married he seems to always get quiet and non-communitive.

2007-01-15 16:30:59 · 3 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend who i met in chat, he's from Europe and I am from Asia. We chat constantly and he calls me almost everyday until his phone bill reaches 540 euros which in fact he had only 20 euro before he met me. Will i believe that he is serious?

2007-01-15 16:30:50 · 1 answers · asked by iris_river82 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do men say they like you, then don't care if women
like them or not? They force women to date them so they
can get to know them. And if women aren't interested and
say NO... Men get upset. Why? Why men don't understand
that? Just because HE likes you, you suppose to LIKE him
back? Am I a bad person if I turn him down????

2007-01-15 16:30:39 · 11 answers · asked by MFD 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in May and I would like my dad to be happy for me and all but I don't knw how he feels about it or why he want talk about it. In a way I could care less what he thinks b/c it's always negative thinking but I just wish he would be happy for us and know that I will be around and that I'm nt going to leave like my sister did. I just would like to knw why he's nt happy for us and why some other ppl like my soon to be husband's brother who's in the wedding by the way thinks we won't go through with it. How can we prove everyone wrong and really let them know that in May this will happen and we will be so happy with each other.

2007-01-15 16:30:39 · 7 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Family

i think he hates me now, he hasn't said a word to me in ages, and everytime i try to start convo, he's always busy... wat u think?? he ignoring me cause he hates me or to miss me more, lol, actually, i think he darn like me no more, wat shud i do?? im gonna cry now... :((

2007-01-15 16:30:26 · 6 answers · asked by his habibah 1 in Singles & Dating

used to be friends with this guy and told him my feelings of wanting more but he had a g/f...he said it was a bad relationship, stayed with her then came to me when they broke up and went back to her. He knew I was angry and I wouldnt forgive him. Now I miss his friendship. I dont know this was back in April, and for some reason I thought about him and wanted to be his friend again. Is there any point in contacting him, i only want a friendship.

2007-01-15 16:30:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My current guy has very very low self esteem. I tell him daily how beautiful he is, but he still feels very self conscious. Example: he got a haircut a month ago and wasn't happy with it (even though I couldn't even tell a difference). Since then, whenever he goes out he puts on a hat. Sometimes I playfully take it away, but he nearly goes into panic. We've very playful, and if we were at the house he wouldn't care.

Anyway, other than just telling him he looks wonderful, shouldn't feel the need to cover up, is beautiful, etc... how can I boost his self esteem?

2007-01-15 16:29:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i lost my job i found out inadvertently i was dating a felon- who tried to cover it for a year when i lost my job he punched me at the head 3 times- that frickennn ugly biatch!!!!!!!sorry, i hate him, just want to know im not the only one who exp the evils of man?

2007-01-15 16:28:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My girlfriend wont leave me alone she thinks our relationship cant involve neone else like she basicaly wants me to cut all ties with my friends family everyone in my life i dont talk to ne of my friends nemore bc of her the other day 2 of my friends died in a car accident one was 18 one was 16 she says they deserve it bc the driver was drunk i cant get out of theis relationship i despratly need help we are bolth homescholed and i and even going back to school to try to make things better she is ruining my job and makeing my life hell i am also afride she will stop takeing her birth controle or lie about takeing to get pregerant so we will have to stay together im thinking about packing up and leaving state with an old friend bc of it but i just turned 17 and i really dont want to we have been together for 11 months and she scars the **** out of me she has been to the hosiptle for depression so i am scared to leave her please wright as much help as possible thanks

2007-01-15 16:28:08 · 10 answers · asked by bob j 1 in Friends

There's this girl,
I Love Her
She means everything to me.
But she and I have been temporarily separated and cannot see each other. I only get to talk to her a 2 times a week. (She is grounded by her 'rents.)
This separation is driving me insane.
What can I do to try and stay sane?
I am trying really hard but slowly, ever so slowly I feel my mind slipping gradually into insanity.
Please share some advice with me.

Hopefully it won't be too late!!!!!

2007-01-15 16:27:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many percentage of indian marriages are love marriages?

2007-01-15 16:26:24 · 5 answers · asked by Jenny Ö 1 in Marriage & Divorce

could you women still control us like you do now?

2007-01-15 16:26:14 · 11 answers · asked by brightstar65 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 16:25:47 · 33 answers · asked by greeneyesrhott 2 in Singles & Dating

Would this bother you? Would you stay? 1. no sex in 4 years despite my wanting it all the time 2. no gifts for any holiday/occasion 3. looks at internet porn (girls) 4. has given me excuses for not wanting intimacy such as: we need to be in better shape (I am so not fat), your legs aren't smooth enough, dog is on the bed, i am usually in the mood in the afternoon (we both work 8-5) not at night, you are more fun when you are tipsy. I am a hot blooded italian in my 20's and I am so close to moving out on this 6 year marriage...am I nuts to have stayed this long? Would this bother anyone else out there?

2007-01-15 16:25:41 · 43 answers · asked by azzur15 1 in Marriage & Divorce