my girlfriend wont leave me alone?

Question

My girlfriend wont leave me alone she thinks our relationship cant involve neone else like she basicaly wants me to cut all ties with my friends family everyone in my life i dont talk to ne of my friends nemore bc of her the other day 2 of my friends died in a car accident one was 18 one was 16 she says they deserve it bc the driver was drunk i cant get out of theis relationship i despratly need help we are bolth homescholed and i and even going back to school to try to make things better she is ruining my job and makeing my life hell i am also afride she will stop takeing her birth controle or lie about takeing to get pregerant so we will have to stay together im thinking about packing up and leaving state with an old friend bc of it but i just turned 17 and i really dont want to we have been together for 11 months and she scars the **** out of me she has been to the hosiptle for depression so i am scared to leave her please wright as much help as possible thanks

Answer 1

This is a very unhealthy relationship!!!....You need to get out of it regardless of how it makes her feel.. it will be better for you in the long run, and if its this bad already it will only get worse!!....

Answer 2

First of all, sorry about your friends. My 20 year old brother-in-law died in a car accident this past summer.

She's a jealous control freak. Unfortunately, this sounds all too familiar to me. My ex was like that & I feared that he'd try to knock me up, just to keep me. The bad news is that he completed HALF the task. I got knocked up, but I left him before I knew that I was pg. Once I found out, I didn't want to go back. I saw my life as a nightmare. My sister also experienced something similar.

Leave her NOW!!! Don't look back. If that's the type of attitude she has, that's not the person you want to be STUCK with for the rest of your life. Also, saying that they deserved it, shows that she has NO RESPECT NOR CONSIDERATION for you. If she really cared about you, she'd behave respectably.

Don't stay with her because of depression. She's using that as leverage. She'll use pg or depression to keep you. She'll probably threaten to kill herself, but that's where you keep walking. When they're desperate for control, they'll say & do anything to keep you. She might even try taking a type of pill to make her sick, but not to kill herself, just to get you to come back.

Tell her BYE-BYE & don't let the door hit you on the way out! LATER!

Remember, it's YOUR life. Live it for you!

Answer 3

You don't have to leave the state, growing a spine and telling her it's over will suffice.
She can't make you do anything you don't want to do, don't you realize that?
If you're afraid she will deliberately get off birth control to saddle you with a baby you don't want, don't have sex with her.
If she tells you your friends deserved to die in a car crash, simply say "I have no interest in talking to someone as callous and unfeeling as you" and walk away.
Don't take her phone calls, don't answer her emails, tell your parents that you suspect you are being stalked.
Stop thinking you are the helpless victim here. You are not. She can only do to you what you allow her to get away with.

Answer 4

Boy! That's messed up! You need to leave her. How ever you do it, you need to do it! She's toxic for you. She's not helping your life. She's bringing you down and will continue to do so if you stay with her. And one bit of advice, please don't have sex with her if you think she may pretend she's on the pill when she's not. You're young. You don't need a child in your life and you certainly don't want her as your baby mother! Be strong and find the courage to stand up and cut your ties with her. You can do it! It'll be hard but dig and find it in yourself to do what needs to be done. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

She is obviously jealous. It sounds like you need to either tell your ex, confront her, or tell the police that she is harassing you. This girl sounds psycho. Please be careful. Start keeping a log of her phone calls. Record every conversation if possible. Write down what she says. This way you will be able to prove that she is making threats. Does she know where you live? Hopefully not...you never know what can happen.

Answer 6

Was she responsible for your friends deaths???? You need to talk to your parents and contact the police. Get a restraining order against her. She sound like a whacko. Watch your back dude.

Answer 7

ou need to leave this girl along, she has some serious issues that
she need to address. she crazy, to say what she said about your
friends was horrible that was not nice to say at all. time to move
on before things really get bad. if you need to leave with friends
then do what you need to do. talk to our parents are someone
so that you can get out of this.

Answer 8

Talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't understand than leave her. It will not be your fault if she is depressed, you can't waste your life on someone you can't stand.

Answer 9

SORRY BUT I WOULD LEAVE, YOU DON'T NEED SOMEONE THAT IS THAT CONTROLLING. YOUR FAMILY IS YOUR FAMILY AND THEY ALWAYS WILL . AND SHE SHOULDN'T KEEP YOU FROM THEM. IF YOUR AFRAID OF HER NOT TAKING THE PILL THEN YOU SHOULD USE CONDOMS. BUT THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO , IS LEAVE HER . AND FIND SOMEONETHAT WILL RESPECT YOU. AND LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE AND IS NOT CONTROLLING. YOU DON'T NEED HER. SHE NEEDS TO GO TO COUNSLING. AND IF SHE DOESN'T WANT IT. LET HER FAMILY WORRY ABOUT IT. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 10

you should dump the ho