This is kind of tricky, and it's been nagging at me inside for a while...
There's a girl I really love, and we've been going out for a while now. We get along really well, and enjoy being around each other. We've worked through a lot of fights and despite arguments and problems over the past years, we still love each other, and still have fun together.
The thing is, I've been around her long enough to know that this is not the girl I want to marry and spend the rest of my life with, but I feel guilty just throwing away years of work on a relationship.
Not to mention, I really love her and would miss her like crazy, and I know she would be heartbroken if I left her.
I'm leaving for college after this coming summer, and we both have a sort of unspoken understanding that after that summer is when we're going to break up, and go our separate ways, but it still tears me apart to think about leaving her.
Is this just one of those things in life I need to deal with?
2007-01-15
16:49:50
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Chef Smallfry
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